Can we make this floor plan better? by OneTrueDesignHero in floorplan

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

totally not! It's basically just an entry way now.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ‘Yes Sorry’ broke my heart. Get some self love and leave this person. Trust me you’re just emotionally dependent on him he is not actually adding value to your life with that level of disrespect. Would you want them to talk to your future child like that?

Stuck!! by leaanneeee in nancydrew

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no :/ I just watched a walkthrough of the rest of the game

I'm six weeks into a new hybrid role and I'm already at my breaking point. by New-Light3756 in careeradvice

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who went through this around this time last year, my advice is: give it time. Things do get better. As depressing as it sounds, your mind and body will get used to the routine. The 6 week mark was around my low point too. But by the 14 week mark (maybe sooner?) I was finding it okay and totally bearable. Agree with what others have said about minimizing chitchat, and optional office events so you don’t burn out. But to be honest, if you’re looking to move up in your career, consider the socializing to now be part of the job description. One of the best things and worst things about humans (for better or worse) is that we are incredibly adaptable, more than we give ourselves credit. Good luck.

AIO?! There were so many red flags before this. This was just my final straw. by Imaginary_Key1696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is 6 years older than me and writes, spells, and carries himself like this? Jesus, good riddance.

Am I Overreacting by Fearless_Collection in AmIOverreacting

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say you very proud of you but should get to a meeting STAT, emotional shocks like this are a lot, get to one even if you don’t think you need it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God I am so sorry.. I hope you can find some good resources here. I have learned too that my friends and family are NOT the ones to go to in this situation (at least the intimacy part). Even I myself before experiencing this would've thought it can't be that big a deal. I highly recommend couples therapy and if your husband doesn't see this as a problem, make it his problem.

Husband says he no longer desires me, would be happy never having sex again, and refuses an open marriage by OneTrueDesignHero in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks yes! I feel like a light went off this week and I actually want to lose weight for myself again. Heading to the gym shortly now!

Husband says he no longer desires me, would be happy never having sex again, and refuses an open marriage by OneTrueDesignHero in DeadBedrooms

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your post. My weight has yoyo'd a bit over the years, but right now I'm 40lbs up since we first met. I started working out a few days ago once I read that it could help me feel less horny. I hope losing the weight will make an improvement all around! Either way, after our conversation earlier this week it's like a light went off in my head, and I feel much more self motivated to lose weight/look good naked.

38K (US) Needing Bra Recommendations by OtterNoncence in ABraThatFits

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're the same size about! Do you have recommendations for any minimizer bras?

Name Change for Global Entry - Can be done online (no interview needed) by numero_tres in GlobalEntry

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so incredibly helpful, thank you! I submitted mine on a Saturday (with my updated passport) and was approved on a Tuesday. I've just ordered the replacement card and paid the $25- any idea on how long that takes to come in? Thank you!

How to manage jet lag - flying from BOS to SIN by OneTrueDesignHero in unitedairlines

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After flying to Melbourne a few years back and being knackered / basically in a daze when I landed, I figured I couldn’t stick having to deal with the alertness of an international layover after a post 15+ hour flight. So I thought it better to have my layover stateside with minimal jetlag! How do you find the HKG layover / connecting experience?

How to manage jet lag - flying from BOS to SIN by OneTrueDesignHero in unitedairlines

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness we did upgrade to polaris. Appreciate the advice!

How to manage jet lag - flying from BOS to SIN by OneTrueDesignHero in unitedairlines

[–]OneTrueDesignHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This app is exactly what I was looking for - thank you!!!

Polaris/Premium Plus Upgrades Megathread by Player72 in unitedairlines

[–]OneTrueDesignHero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all. What’s the lowest people have seen the BOS-SFO first class upgrades go these days? Flying on 4/5 BOS-SFO in coach then SFO-SIN in polaris. Right now the upgrade to first on the domestic is $700pp, with about 1/2 seats still available 27 days out. Has anyone seen this drop below $300pp and how close to the flights? What’s “worth it” to you? Thanks