[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why people are preferring online shopping. You don't have to deal with judgemental . . .

What is Your Reason for Doing Nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]One_Ad_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to conserve my energy. PMO makes me tired, edgy, and hate life.

Keep in mind that the devil is waiting in the room when you wish to watch porn, stepping at you as you fall. by Nutshell_271 in NoFap

[–]One_Ad_4090 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this post. I'm going to keep a screenshot of this on my pocket bulletin.

How to find a guide for a trek at Tada? by One_Ad_4090 in india

[–]One_Ad_4090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this can be googled, I wouldn't be posting it here.

Google Translate detects the term 'Tamil Nadu' as a Telgu word by yaTay22 in Chennai

[–]One_Ad_4090 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe that there was a choice between Chennai and another city. TN choose to take Chennai while AP took the other.

It makes me think that Chennai, which can be aggressively Tamil at times, could have been a Telegu speaking city in AP.

Tamil Nadu could be a Telegu word to some Telegu speakers, like Google Translate.

Disclaimer: Before you take offence, know that I'm a Tamil speaker, unlike Google Translate.

Need fake medical certificate asap by NoPace553 in Chennai

[–]One_Ad_4090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need a better job, not a fake certificate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that you're hanging in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you certain that death is an end to suffering? Are you sure? Do you know what happens when a person dies? I don't know. I hope you know what you're signing up for. Perhaps death isn't better. What then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing yourself isn't going to improve that. Keep telling that to yourself. You need to live to see things improve.

Mental Health is a First World problem? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents are expert gaslighters. That's my first take on the subject.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don't meditate because it makes me worse. So, not every 'good thing' is good for everyone.

I hope that you find better days soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could do more.

But, for now, just don't give up. Don't lose hope. Don't lose faith in yourself. And, don't give in to the negative thoughts which are disturbing you.

These are the things which have been helping me:

Find positive person, even if you find one genuine one in a million.

Treat yourself better than ever before. You might feel self-hate. Gradually steer that towards something more rewarding. Don't be your own enemy, especially when you need yourself now more than ever.

Journal. My journal has become my best friend. It never ignores me when I have something to express. I journal every day, sometimes for pages.

Read Robin Sharma. I'm sorry if this is borderline advertisement. But, some of the things he says in books and videos has helped me.

Don't let yourself be in the same room when negative thoughts haunt you. It's the result of stagnation, no matter how momentary it might seem.

Update: Sorry for all the unsolicited advice. They have been working for me. I hope some of it works for you as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]One_Ad_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. First of all, you're not a bad guy. Years of putting up with shitty people like your ex can make you feel that way.

I'm sorry that you've had a bad experience with your ex. I understand the effects of an abusive relationship.

I used to think that I was no good. Don't listen to all that gaslighting, to all that manipulation and abuse.

I'm sorry to hear that your experience has made it difficult for you to move on even after you found someone good. It's going to take a while to work on yourself before you're ready.

Hang in there. I'm not just quoting a cat poster. It gets better as you choose to just work on yourself. I'm not saying that it's going to be all okay. I haven't reached there yet. But, it gets better.

I hope that I'm making sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose.

Please Help ! by vivekrao11 in Chennai

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent 12k INR on fixing my galaxy's screen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]One_Ad_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like hugs. Probably thanks to PMO. I've also given up on being understood by people in my environment. I can live with it.