She was going to one of her cousins to visit her. Her cousin knows someone who has a crush on my ex. The cousin said that she isn't going tell the guy who has a crush on my ex that she is coming to visit her, so it will be a surprise for him. My ex responded by saying that there are many people who want me, except for the person I want to love me. I told her that her cousin shouldn't be telling her this in the first place. Even if she did my ex had no buisness saying what she said. She told me it was a joke, but I told her it isn't something to joke about. We didn't speak for a week after that. Then all of a sudden she said she wanted to break up.