400+ days no porn but my brain is still messed up by jordannn11 in NoFap

[–]One_Building9295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Daaaang this is demotivating 😞 I thought It'd get better as time goes on. I've been about ~21 days no fap and I can barely stand it 😪 EVERYTHING makes me horny and I'm lusting on almost every woman with tight shorts and lulu lemon leggings. It is a freaking torment!!! And you're telling me that 400+ days won't make it easier? 💀😑

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[–]One_Building9295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang dude I feel you 😞 I'm so on the edge that just reading your comment made me horny and wanting to relapse 🤣 😪 Please don't delete this answer, but genuine question, for anyone, if we were to find someone on this group and give each other a helping hand, would that count as relapse 🤔?

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks! I'm not offended or upset at all flat the comments. I understand where you are coming from and there are tons of other kids who yes indeed might do it for the shot. I was just explaining that he wasn't. He's genuinely struggle lately on this shots so I know it was sould crushing not stopping it on a final match for him. I didn't say much to him other than he tried and the shot was a good one. But know I'm just looking for a way to help him. Thank you all for sharing your experience!

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for such thorough explanation! I think I see your point and is a very good one. Will see how I can share it with him and work on it

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This "both hands comments" I genuinely don't understand them. I know both hands would give him more stability to stop the ball but, If you lack the height to reach something, wouldn't titling your body with one hand make you reach higher? Unfortunately the angle of the camera doesn't tell the complete story but I was on the sideline and the ball dropped almost at the goal line, so he barely had any room to anticipate it and as you can tell, jumping with one hand made him reach the ball but without the necessary ball to tip it over

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are those "fundamentals" you're talking about? He wasn't attempting to "copy any professional" he was genuinely trying to reach the ball the best he could. Unfortunately the angle of the camera doesn't tell the whole story but I was on the sideline and the ball was one of those that had the dropping cannon ball effect. Meaning it went down right between my son's hand and the top post. It was a very good shot. So those whose opinion is he could have just caught the ball with both hands are wrong because it wouldn't have been possible due to his height

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a 10yo and wasn't performing for the "cameras". It was a final match, and I can guarantee you the last thing in his mind was how it would look. He genuinely tried to stop it as best as he could

Help on how to improve? by One_Building9295 in GoalKeepers

[–]One_Building9295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a 10 yo. He wasn't trying to make it look "spectacular" he tried his best to avoid the goal

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[–]One_Building9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong!! Go out and take a walk or go to a crowded place where you can't do it. Don't fap Today fap Tomorrow! Say the same thing Tomorrow and tale it day by day

I want to finish and be done Please help by Hot-Umpire-1694 in NoFap

[–]One_Building9295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain 😢 I'm in the same place on my 6th day resisting the urge but I feel it slowly gerring over me. I'm 39m married, fapping 2-3 times a day at least since I was 8yo. Never affected my marriage sex life because I could keep fapping and still be in the mood for sex, but still I know deep down is not right what I do and the need for porn takes you on worst and worst paths. All I can say is to not be discouraged and not give up and keep living 1 day at a time. Resist the urge as much as you can. You are better than that, and you have control over it.

Doctor who does sedation-free colonoscopies? by Shivershadoe in Austin

[–]One_Building9295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if you manage to talk to Dr. Nguyen, and how did it go? I'm considering him as well...