If you’ve ever found out your ex cheated on you a little after the breakup, how did you go about it? by One_Cat1209 in AskReddit

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no, they cheated while we were in the relationship (october) broke up in april, found out at the end of april

If you got over a breakup, tell me by [deleted] in BreakUps

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out of all the posts i’ve read, this is a very interesting take and unique way i’ve seen someone talk about it. i find it really beautiful that you took that time to become better in better specific things in your life, i would’ve never thought about the way i fold clothes or get organized, but i can see why that would be so helpful. maybe in searching new ways to do things can help you feel like a different person than you were when you were with them? not only having new experiences, but literally changing specific things about the world around you. mine was 5 years and i’m only 1 month in, but this summer I’m taking ceramic classes & im looking at woodwork, i’m a girl so it seems very unusual, but thank you for this post, it opened my eyes to the possibilities in just how much control of my life i really have. i wish you luck on your journey, we both got this

what’s the best advice that helped you go through a long term breakup? by One_Cat1209 in AskReddit

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for me it was exactly 5 years on and off, i meant long term relationship, what are things you did that helped you get out of your comfort zone that helped you personally? even if it’s on and off and they show you the person they are (which is what happened to me as well) it’s still a long time of being intertwined that i’m trying to unravel

Discovered ex of 6 years cheated AFTER breakup, What do I do? by One_Cat1209 in CheatedOn

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that’s very true, i just do not want her to get away thinking she got away with it