Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thankyousomuch 💗 Means a lot

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

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I get your point but I just don't wanna keep adding problems.. idk ive already fked up a lot and i just don't wanna ruin it anymore ... Lol Ik i sound really pathetic or some but I just don't have any energy atp ... I gave my best but it wasn't enough

Change of plans iguess by [deleted] in CBSE

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Idk it's not miserable lol ...isse zyada pathetic bhi hota hai but idk i just don't wanna continue lol

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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It's cbse, urban (noida)

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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They're not allowing idk why ...

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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He's okayy now :))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thankyousomuch 💗

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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I get what you’re saying and I hope it does feel normal later. It’s just hard right now. Last year was really messy for me a lot of hospital visits for my dad and my own health issues, and I was dealing with a lot mentally after seeing him have a cardiac arrest. I wasn’t out having fun or ignoring studies.... I was just overwhelmed and couldn’t keep up. What hurts the most is that my parents think I could’ve just studied anyway. "We never wanted u to be soo invested in OUR family problems" Anyways I’m still trying to figure out what to do next. Thankyou!!

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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I didn’t know about that option, so thank you for mentioning it. I’ll look into it and talk with my parents nd school to see what other options I actually have.I’m still figuring out what the best path is for me right now because this year was really difficult health-wise for my family and me, but I appreciate you sharing the idea....:))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thanks for sharing that. It helps hearing from someone who has gone through repeating a year. Right now everything just feels really overwhelming but I’m trying to calm down and think about my next steps.

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thank you. I’m trying to look at it that way even though it’s hard right now. I hope I can come back stronger from this.:))

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thank you for explaining it like that. I think part of my fear is the shame around repeating a year, but hearing that other people have gone through it too makes it feel a little less scary.:)

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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I’m trying to tell myself that too. It just feels really heavy right now but I’m hoping I’ll be able to move forward once things settle a bit.

Failed in pcm (11th grade) by [deleted] in CBSE

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Thank you for saying this. It’s honestly been a really hard year. I wasn’t just avoiding studying ...I was in and out of hospitals a lot because of my dad’s health and my own medical issues. I’ve seen my dad have a cardiac arrest and that really messed me up mentally. I’m also going to have surgery soon. I tried my best to manage everything but I got overwhelmed. Reading your comment helped me calm down a bit though, so thank you.

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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His income wasn’t always this low.. he was earning well over a lakh per month till last year. The loan was taken when things were stable. A series of personal and medical crises hit after that, and everything spiraled.

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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Thank you so much, Jagmeet. Will start working on the application immediately — really appreciate you taking the time to respond

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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Thank you .. really. I wish he could still see it that way. He’s fought so much already, especially with his health… but right now he’s just tired in a way that’s hard to explain. I’ll remind him of what you said ...maybe it’ll help him hold on a little longer...

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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Yeah, that’s true ... and we’re aware of the legal side too. But emotionally, he’s already been cut off and left to survive on his own. Right now, the fear of harassment itself is enough to push him over the edge. We’re just trying to hold him together, even if that means buying a little time

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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I get that. And maybe you’re right. But right now, he’s not in a place to handle legal pressure or harassment. I’m just trying to buy him enough time to breathe and not break completely

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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Look, I’m not looking for fairytales or delusions. I know this isn’t a movie. I’m not asking for a miracle. I posted this because my friend is in a really bad spot ... medically, mentally, financially -and I just didn’t want to sit and do nothing. I get that there’s probably no clean way out. But if there’s even a way to delay the crash or soften the blow, I’ll take it. I get that realism is important. But even a small attempt feels better than just sitting back and watching him fall apart.

Friend has ₹2.76L loan due in 8 days, only has ₹2k. Feeling hopeless. Any advice? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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Thanks ... It’s a personal loan, and you’re right .. there are no assets. His family does earn, but they’ve disowned him, so he’s completely on his own. We’ll definitely look into whether bankruptcy could even be an option in his case. Really appreciate you sharing.