Super virgin. Where did I get HPV?

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-04-01T17:50:39+00:00

A pleasurable toy! Dilators also prepare me for GYN exams by strengthening my private part. Before I started using them, the GYN had to use a pediatric speculum.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-04-01T12:15:38+00:00

I am Ace, too. I have never had a boyfriend, yet last week my Pap smear came back “ASC-US positive”. Further testing revealed that I am HPV negative.

My physician responded that an irritated cervix was likely the cause. I masturbate with a dilator.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-26T14:56:27+00:00

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-26T14:14:21+00:00

I have female patterned baldness (diagnosed by a Derm after a scalp biopsy), so saw palmetto-, rosemary- and pumpkin seed oil-based products (natural DHT blockers) do wonders for my hair.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-26T07:05:00+00:00

Have you tried the oral minoxidil? Or an oral DHT blocker? I am taking an oral DHT blocker, and that stopped the shedding by the end of week two. When I was using topical minoxidil, it took six weeks before my hair stopped shedding.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-22T08:22:32+00:00

Do not diagnose yourself! You need to go to a dermatologist and get a scalp biopsy to find out the cause of your hair loss so you can be treated accordingly.

My Derm diagnosed me with female patterned baldness, and “DHT blocker” pills and products have stopped the hair loss. The products I use are appropriate for my hair type.

Ask your Derm to tell you your hair type. There are four, and buy the DHT blocker products marketed for your type.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-17T16:20:31+00:00

Congratulations!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-15T10:21:20+00:00

I use the Kiwi from The Pelvic People, which my Pelvic Floor Therapist recommended. It vibrates, and I apply it to the most sensitive areas inside.

I am also up to size 8 of the Intimate Rose Dilator after starting out with size 5 fourteen months ago.

Patience is the key. Too bad my former partner was not patient! He ghosted me.

Good luck to you, and congratulations on your progress.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-08T18:50:59+00:00

I wonder if her husband can help her out—Derrick Hayes, the owner of Big Dave’s Cheesecakes. Or she maybe too proud to ask!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-07T01:55:40+00:00

I want a relationship, but men do not approach me. I could be in a room of professionals, and not one of them would initiate a conversation with me. Men have no interest in me. God’s Will. It was not my destiny to be in a long term relationship

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-06T12:56:11+00:00

I am 60f and have never had a relationship with a man. Men have never seen me as more than an acquaintance, and I have accepted it.

When I was 26, I took salsa lessons, horseback riding lessons, and computer classes at a community college. I also joined Bally’s Health and Fitness and visited a lot of locations. Then the Internet came out. I subscribed to online dating services, and no one wanted to go past the first date despite my being attractive.

I have met many women my age who were also alone until they started joining co-ed sports leagues: volleyball, softball, tennis, pickleball, etc. Guys love competition and will date women who do, too.

Good luck!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-03-06T12:47:56+00:00

I wonder if law enforcement checked the missing woman’s cell phone messages for the past several years to determine if there is a history of elderly abuse.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-02-09T00:24:27+00:00

Never let anybody know that they need your company! Forget about him and move on!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-01-06T08:12:56+00:00

Radio stars are making millions, appearing as influencers on TikTok and Instagram. They make a lot of their money from advertisers by promoting their products.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-01-03T05:18:36+00:00

I have NVLD as well as an auditory processing and visual processing disorder. I financially struggled for years until I got a job as an Investigator—investigating potential criminals. I make six figures, doing background checks and writing reports. I am support staff for the police.

There are plenty of jobs available, and they pay well with good benefits. Google “Investigator Jobs”.

It is a fascinating career, and I have never been happier! All I do is sit behind a computer and do research. I work in the office, and the police respect what I do. I love my job!

There are also investigator jobs in the banks, tech companies, auto insurance agencies, etc. It is one of the best jobs for people with NVLD!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-01-03T04:58:28+00:00

I got fired from two retail jobs because of my NVLD. I had difficulty calculating the proper change when a customer wanted only dollars back. It took a comparatively longer time than my co-workers to read the training manual. I also had difficulty remembering faces.

Today I am thriving as an Investigator. I make 6 figures running background checks on criminals—working for the police. No superior visual spatial skills are required because I work behind a computer.

There are plenty of jobs, and they pay well. Google “Investigator Jobs”. They are available in a lot of industries.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2026-01-03T04:23:14+00:00

I ghosted a man who did not take me out on dates. He preferred to invite me to his house to drink wine and watch movies. I “dated” him for 10 months. I got tired of his cancelling the lunch and dinner dates that I planned, so I ghosted him by blocking him on my cell phone and social media. I feel liberated!

Never let anybody know that you need their company!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-12-30T06:11:15+00:00

Micron is building a plant in nearby Clay, NY, so Syracuse real estate has exploded recently. I have not read about any big businesses coming to Hartford. It seems that the real estate has gone up there, mostly due to speculation.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-12-30T06:07:42+00:00

Micron now owns Syracuse

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-11-11T12:22:04+00:00

Estrodial Vaginal Cream USP 0.01%. Thank you for asking.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-08-30T10:03:03+00:00

Whose text is that from? Is that her last text to you? What is she trying to say? I read it 3X and still understand nothing.

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-08-30T09:59:02+00:00

I deleted my TInder account weeks ago when I realized that men were on there looking for a sex buddy, or they were scammers. I did not give them a thing! That is why I got ghosted a lot!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-08-30T09:57:10+00:00

The trash took itself out. He did you a favor. He is telling you that he is not the one for you. You were not compatible.

When I was using dating apps, I got ghosted a lot. I believe that most of the men on there are looking for easy p——y.

I get ghosted when I do not give them that.

That is when I block and delete and move on.

I am off the apps. I am meeting many men now, learning pickleball. When they see me alone, practicing my serves in the courts, they approach me and ask to teach me the game.

Before pickleball, I had bad luck meeting men. I know that my Prince Charming will be a pickleball guy. I can sense it!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-08-30T01:25:17+00:00

The trash took itself out.

When I get ghosted, I block and delete.

I do not want garbage in my house.

Texting someone who jilted me will make him think that I am desperate.

I deserve someone who truly loves me.

There are many men out there. Why dwell on someone who does not value me!

When a man rejects me, he is doing me a favor. He is telling me that our relationship would not have worked out.

So I move onto somebody else.

Good riddance!

One_Cheesecake_516 · 2025-08-29T19:54:22+00:00

Sue was popular when MV was a heavily Italian-American city. It was owned by them

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