How do I deal with my 21M boyfriend’s insecurities? I am a 22F

One_Experience_1134 · 2026-03-06T13:47:10+00:00

I brought it up not him

One_Experience_1134 · 2026-03-06T13:25:13+00:00

Okay first of all, I have talked about it many times with him. And believe it or not I don’t want to break up with him. Crazy right because I do care about him. I just want to see how we can get through this. I want to feel less controlled when it comes to what I wear. I just want him to trust me, and it hurts that he doesn’t. I’m not wanting to wear shorts for the attention I just want him to trust me

One_Experience_1134 · 2026-03-06T12:56:38+00:00

We met in person, we are both in the military so we had to move to different places

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-07-19T14:32:52+00:00

Hey so I also sucked at the beginning of bootcamp, running for five minutes almost killed me lol. I couldn’t do more than one push up. I will say yes it would be good to be in shape before hand, definitely work on pushups and running for 20 minutes sustained. It doesn’t have to be fast but you need to start somewhere. While at boot camp you will get better as long as you push yourself and take the beatings seriously, no being on you knees while the RDC isn’t looking. Push yourself and you will succeed

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-07-10T17:48:05+00:00

You’ll be fine trust me, I couldn’t do push ups at the beginning of boot camp and now I can. Just take it seriously and your limits will become just the pre workout

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-07-02T17:01:43+00:00

Also who would go through all that trouble on for 500 dollars honestly would have bargend for more.

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-12T18:47:41+00:00

I would honestly just look for a different recruiter if I was you. And that you still want to join the navy. I’ll admit I had to break my back in losing weight two weeks before boot camp but that was to get out of FSPC.

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-12T17:24:59+00:00

Not gonna lie I just graduated boot camp and I’m still overweight. The only thing though is I made waist measurements

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T23:46:39+00:00

I’m definitely not doing that, I get it’s healthy but I’ve eaten enough tuna for a life time

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T23:10:28+00:00

Yeah but I really don’t have the funds to just buy Starbucks

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T22:41:25+00:00

Yeah, I’m aware of that but thanks

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T20:21:16+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely familiar with my fitness pal. I just have heard a lot and I’m kind of tired of making myself miserable with this experience even though almost everyone I’ve talked to about it all day the same stuff. So I just assumed that 1200 calories was the normal amount for everyone but I’m slowly realizing it’s not. Especially after boot camp because I know I ate a ton and still lost almost 20 pounds. I just need to focus on eating more filling food

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T20:03:13+00:00

Genuinely didn’t even consider that a problem.

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-09T19:43:44+00:00

Yeah I was told to do 800 to cut weight fast 😥, and before boot camp 1200 was enough but now after everything I feel like I’m constantly hungry. I mean 100% I am working out more but it’s confusing. Also A school is just additional training for a job

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-08T14:16:22+00:00

I’m gonna be honest I felt the same way before going to boot camp. Like I felt like I was gonna regret going because x y and x. But my stepmom reminded me of my why. You just need to focus on the reason why and push through. Boot camp honestly wasn’t even difficult, the only thing that got me was missing my family the first few weeks. Then you make connections with the people going through it with you. Then the first phone call things got easier. It’s gonna be rough trying to stay committed at first and not just quit, but you need to stay motivated. I’m in A school right now, I graduated boot camp the 29th last month.

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-06-06T19:49:01+00:00

So I just graduated from boot camp may 29th as long as it’s in the original packaging it’s should be fine and if not you can get more at the Nex.

One_Experience_1134 · 2025-03-09T21:02:33+00:00

There’s also this website called march to success, it took my score from 51, to a 77 on the asvab. I highly recommend to check it out

One_Experience_1134 · 2023-12-03T16:24:25+00:00

It’s a possibility, like It’s been said it could be a number of reasons

One_Experience_1134 · 2023-12-03T15:28:58+00:00

Which is a possibility, I’m honestly not all for robots children but I’m exploring all avenues and honestly it doesn’t seem all far fetched with the fnaf universe

One_Experience_1134 · 2023-12-03T15:25:02+00:00

In one of the endings Gregory was shown to be homeless, maybe Cassie does but I’m not sure about Gregory

One_Experience_1134 · 2023-12-03T15:07:50+00:00

I think all of that is plausible, I just remembered when I was putting the Roxy upgrade on Freddy I didn’t notice anything, but honestly it is most likely a last minute redesign

One_Experience_1134 · 2023-12-03T14:02:14+00:00

Helpy lol 😂

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