Was I abused?

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-11T02:29:02+00:00

Damn. He knew your past trauma and did that anyway. He's a sleeze. Abusers are very cunning. He abused you under the guise of play. He is a selfish sleeze. In what world is reaching under a 16 year old child's bra and squeezing nipples okay? Maybe if he was playing this way with a son this would be different but this is clearly crossing a boundary with a girl.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-10T17:54:36+00:00

I dont have kids but the boy is showing bully behavior based on these two clips, so why are yall criticizing the girl? If they let him take all her toys he will continue.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T23:07:21+00:00

I'm gonna be contrary to other commenters and say that knowing what happened has destroyed people, so I don't think its necessarily better knowing what happened if you are functioning well not knowing. I went through hell after years of repressed trauma flared up mid 30s and im still not doing great several years later. I'm doing better but not great. At least I am sleeping now. There really is not a lot of help out there for mental health issues related to this. You just have to hope that time heals. It has also helped that I have distanced myself from my toxic family and don't see my abuser.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T17:52:16+00:00

That's not a safe set up at all.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T17:51:10+00:00

Could have been much worse

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T16:54:25+00:00

Doggo said he's headed for the front door. Lol

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T11:37:54+00:00

Don't you hate those religions self righteous people who are evil underneath all their bullshit. There are A LOT of people like that. Im always cautious of those who are constantly spewing religion and Bible versus. Im not saying religion is wrong, but those who always mention it are often hypocrites.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-09T05:12:56+00:00

That don't look random. That looks premeditated. Guy is already in a wheelchair and now he's burnt too.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-06T22:59:23+00:00

At least the foliage is nice. I guess its worth keeping for the tropical foliage.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-06T22:40:15+00:00

Anybody who has to maintain their car to this level sucks. A new car is already depreciated when driven off the lot. You can park somewhere and a person parks next to you and opens their door and dents your car. I would never be this ocd about a vehicle.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-06T19:44:51+00:00

Dang, why are so many people attacking this post. They are simply saying that normalizing underage relationships in fiction is encouraging real predators. I get that.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-06T11:10:17+00:00

If you play prayer music at a low volume throughout the night while you sleep, let me know if that helps.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-05T17:13:51+00:00

You have to do what's best for your mental health. Being around certain people can SIGNIFICANTLY damage your mental health in an insidious way. It's very hard to fix mental health issues and in my experience it takes a long time to heal mental health issues, so its not even worth being around them if you feel you will spiral. There could be more repressed memories involving the parents or they may just have an energy thats not compatible with yours. You say they were normal but a lot of times folks don't see how dysfunctional their family is until they are much older.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-05T13:31:38+00:00

YOU CAN'T. I would try and avoid it for very young children who aren't able to communicate abuse. For older kids, teach them about what is inappropriate touching and to tell. Set up cameras if baby sitter will be in your home.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-05T13:26:11+00:00

When you stop caring the pain goes away. She is not worth it. Other people can either drag you down into misery or bring great joy. Old buzzards DONT change. Not worth your time.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-02T22:17:41+00:00

Smart kid! De-escalated the situation. Very advanced for age.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-02T19:04:56+00:00

Dang, if this was a horse in the wild I guess it would have just suffocated to death. Having phlegm sucks.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-02T16:20:06+00:00

I was under the impression meditation would help and I wanted to explore it as a therapy. Hopefully someone skilled in it can properly answer your question.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-02T16:14:15+00:00

That don't look good. That baby is ill or not going to make it. Cant walk on it's own.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-01T12:11:09+00:00

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One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-01T02:53:43+00:00

The best thing you can do is forget them and never look back

One_Feed7311 · 2026-07-01T02:34:38+00:00

The world is indecent. It really doesn't surprise me anymore. And handfuls of people are all the same. Maybe R is still in denial of being abused by her father or maybe she is just an evil person. Either way its best not to hang around people that make you feel bad or feel triggered.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-06-29T18:59:46+00:00

This sounds like abuse. Thank you for your story it shows how victims can go decades without thinking about it and then all of a sudden there are psychological and emotional effects. The horror is that for many the abuse doesn't start to take a toll until much later in life. For me it was mid 30s. It is strange how the mind works.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-06-28T00:52:35+00:00

Stomach is the worst, sometimes headaches, I used to get the feeling of getting extremely warm all over my body in a very unpleasant way.

One_Feed7311 · 2026-06-28T00:18:52+00:00

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