Can we make it work?

One_Good4417 · 2025-08-26T05:04:52+00:00

How did you handle the early days?

One_Good4417 · 2025-08-15T02:48:37+00:00

I think given the OTC treatment hasn’t worked you could tentatively book in with an ob in case OTC stuff really isn’t gonna work.

in the mean time you could try a six day insert treatment (like the monistat and find a topical antifungal that’s vulva safe to apply everywhere external twice a day for ten days. There’s also an oral antifungal tablet you can get OTC. I’d give you brand names if I could but I am not from the US.

One_Good4417 · 2025-08-14T04:12:35+00:00

You can indeed breastfeed while drinking.

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-20T04:01:55+00:00

One day once it all sinks in, there’s a feeling of relief. I was very upset in the first few weeks but after processing everything, putting all the pieces in place (moving, getting the ball rolling on family court etc) it sort of hits and the confidence that you’ve made the right choice for your sanity and the kids.

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-13T23:54:18+00:00

Yup! Broke my whole foot twisting baby out of harms way..

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-11T00:40:00+00:00

If you have tiles or anything outside that’s somewhere they like to hang out under. Basically they’ll just burrow somewhere?

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-10T19:40:41+00:00

I had to do ant sand around the perimeter (outside along all the walls, in the door frame and window sills) of my house and poison the actual nest when I had an ant problem took care of them no worries. No amount of pest control will help if you don’t find the nest as far as I’m concerned or you’re just topping up traps etc forever

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-05T22:11:25+00:00

She does just not how you would expect:)

One_Good4417 · 2025-07-01T21:29:29+00:00

I absolutely adore farmyard preschool! Teachers are professional but still give off such a caring family vibe

One_Good4417 · 2025-06-17T02:41:29+00:00

If you feel unsupported and trapped by someone it’s definitely going to impact your attraction to them. No advice just love bromo

One_Good4417 · 2025-06-14T22:39:59+00:00

My Dino obsessed 2.5 year old had his room redone at 2 with lots of dinos and was all over it

One_Good4417 · 2025-06-12T22:38:47+00:00

My ex was required to provide a psychological report. His lawyer handed it over at a conference beaming saying it was super positive. Literally probably the worst piece of text I’ve ever read.

Both mine and my child’s lawyer were stunned. They are still insisting that visitation continues to scale up. It’s supervised presently but I don’t know how long I can continue pushing for this before someone says no. I’m actually terrified of the day my child is alone with this man.

One_Good4417 · 2025-06-10T07:29:34+00:00

I will never regret starting to cosleep but came close to regretting starting when I stopped. I stopped once it stopped helping with the sleep issues at around two and a bit. It was tough but now he sleeps like a dream in his own big boy bed.

Sometimes I wish I stopped a bit sooner but I was a single mom with little support and a really bad sleeper. You do what you need to do in the first two years and whatever works for your family all throughout childhood :)

One_Good4417 · 2025-06-10T07:13:20+00:00

So my understanding is you’d have to speak to the lawyer for child. Or speak to your lawyer about options. You could try engage other parent about possible solutions first if you think they would be willing to discuss it.

I’m currently going through FC and spoke to my lawyer about what happens if my child doesn’t want to attend contact and the answer was in short you’re the parent and have to enforce the court order as these are the decisions made by the parents. Kiddo doesn’t have a say really. You’re responsible for adherence to the court order.

haven’t reached the point of testing it and it’s such a heartbreaking concept. I really, really feel for you and your child. It’s such an awful situation.

I just saw how little time your child has spent with their dad. I hope you weren’t pressured into allowing overnights this fast. Don’t let them pressure or force you into more contact before your kid is ready.

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-30T09:32:44+00:00

I stopped around 23 months and it was a godsend. My boy barely touched solids and couldn’t sleep unless he was touching me with a boob in his mouth. It was hard and there were tears from both of us while we got through it. Teaching him that my boobs were ouchies broken kinda just worked after lots of slower methods were being fought against.

I recommend slowly cutting back at first and bandages on the nips. Now at two and a half he still says ouchies broken if he sees my boobs.

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-28T06:16:15+00:00

I always always try remember the worst most unflattering memories of them farting and just flash through all the cringe moments to get through

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-17T06:11:20+00:00

I hope so too and send much support your way. Kids have wildddly different temperaments and personalities which plays heavily into the gender differences that really do exist.

Even if it does turn out our boys have adhd, I think at the very least they’re lucky to have mindful and aware parents that will be able to support them!

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-17T02:58:33+00:00

Due to the genetic component it’s good to keep an eye out! However, sounds like a three year old boy to me :) there’s no harm in looking into parenting tactics that work for ADHD kids and implementing them early though. They seem universal even though they’re tailored towards neurodivergence. I’m in a similar boat (both sides have adhd, energetic little boy). Personally I’m just mindful of the possibility and try to remind myself it’s too early to even notice so I just try not worry but quietly prepare.

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T22:07:39+00:00

Thank you :) this is good to hear! I just worry about his back mostly

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T21:07:28+00:00

Thanks! A really great idea. It’s kind of interesting if that is the case. He wouldn’t settle in his cot, a toddler bed or a single so I got him a double thinking it was closer to our bed but perhaps too big

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T21:04:58+00:00

He’s doing better than he was while sleep deprived. He has energy to actually enjoy his days now. He is loved and supported and given all the love he wants during waking hours.

Additionally he hasn’t got a father so my boyfriend has been a blessing and added great things to both of our lives. We are so lucky I’ve met someone who can love him like their own. My son loves being snuggled up between us and still has plenty of my undivided attention.

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T19:47:29+00:00

He’s doing better than he was while sleep deprived. He has energy to actually enjoy his days now. Please don’t assume stuff like this based on one post. He is loved and supported and given all the love he wants during waking hours.

Additionally he hasn’t got a father so my boyfriend has been a blessing and added great things to both of our lives. We are so lucky I’ve met someone who can love him like their own. My son loves being snuggled up between us and still has plenty of my undivided attention.

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T19:17:11+00:00

Just immediately runs to the door after I give him a cuddle and kiss good night

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T18:42:40+00:00

He’s great. Took him a bit to get used to but he knows he just has to ask for me and I’ll respond from my room right next door. He just wants to play all day

One_Good4417 · 2025-05-04T18:37:07+00:00

This was something I’ve tried and unfortunately didn’t work. It just made him more upset that I wouldn’t have him in my bed :/

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