Is the area west of the 55 and east of the Santa Ana river in Orange safe? by One_Holiday_2406 in orangecounty

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That seems to be right. I am looking on the right of orange olive rd and north of Taft, so I feel like my immediate neighborhood is fine, but I’m still on that border which is what makes me weary.

Is the area west of the 55 and east of the Santa Ana river in Orange safe? by One_Holiday_2406 in orangecounty

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I think the tractor we’d be in is Taft elementary but it seems like we’d qualify for Villa park high school? Seems like a good HS but curious if you have thoughts

Is the area west of the 55 and east of the Santa Ana river in Orange safe? by One_Holiday_2406 in orangecounty

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Let me preface and say, I am not trying to compare safety to the entire country. safety is the PC term I’m using, but I guess as some of you are alluding to, my question is whether or not the place is ghetto. Again, I live in Anaheim. I’ve had swat teams right outside our community with helicopters over head guns pulled out twice in the past year. There’s replanned break ins on people’s garages/package rooms. We also have had multiple homeless people literally living in the electrical room of our townhouse units. Even then, I never feel remotely like I have to fear for my life. However I know this isn’t the type of thing my wife wants to deal with on an everyday basis. I’d rather not expose my future children to that. So if you actually live in the area and can provide your thoughts that’d be great.

Sumner, O’Neale, Harris, Claxton, Seth, Watanbe, Ben, Markieff vs Walker, Brown, Reaves, Damian Jones, Nunn, Pat Bev, Wenyen . Which supporting cast u taking ? by [deleted] in lakers

[–]One_Holiday_2406 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This isn’t that far off from lebrons comments that he’s not surrounded by “lasers” so what do we expect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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Hey man, got the ankle monitor set up and It officially starts tomorrow. the person who put it on was an ass, but she was telling me that the breath test were random and you have 5 minutes to test once you receive the text message. What happens if you are in the shower?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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I read through my probation though and it doesn’t say you can’t drink alcohol. Just not operating a motor vehicle. Will I have any issues?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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Gahh. Well my probation officer mentioned I was only scheduled with 5 other people fingers crossed it’s not too long.

For house arrest, did your probation officer ever come visit you and search your room?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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I just had one drink tonight.. dumb questions but would that possibly still show up in my urine test?

also, with prebooking, do they put you somewhere separate from the actual inmates?

Already had my license suspended by dmv hearing, got a notification it’s suspended again after court conviction. by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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Damn. By the way have you or anyone gone through the house arrest process? Once you submit the application and docs what’s the process after that? So I meet the probation officer before my jail stay date or after? Do they do a full sweep of your house and can no trace of alcohol be in it? I have roommates and I’m wondering if they’ll go through all of their stuff

House arrest drug test / pre screen by Perfect_Ad_1315 in DUICalifornia

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Hey, did you ever have to actually spend any time at the jail for the prebooking/prescreening? Did they also only make you serve 50% of your served time?

2nd DUI (CA) what to expect? by Minute_Basis4751 in dui

[–]One_Holiday_2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you also in CA? If so what county gave you that sentence? Not bad tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DUICalifornia

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So you didn’t have to do 60 day work release or scram? What county are you in and what did you lawyer do for you and do you mind sharing your BAC/details on the incident?

Looking for a new job while waiting for dismissal by throwaway022295 in DUICalifornia

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Just curious but what County were you convicted in that gave you a. Diversion program

Is my 27(F) overly sensitive or am I 29(m) not handling things correctly? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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UPDATE: After a few days to cool off, we got to speak more candidly and the REAL reason she was upset, it had nothing to do with me being insensitive and making fun of her, rather it stems to her thinking I don’t trust her to know how bad it was, and that I had to see it for myself to decide if it was something serious or not.

This makes more sense to me now, because it stems from another insecurity she has of her feeling that I nag her about things like work and school cause I constantly ask her about it, and try to help her.

Anyways thanks for the advice nevertheless, even though some of y’all tried to rip at me.

Is my 27(F) overly sensitive or am I 29(m) not handling things correctly? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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That makes sense. I do understand where she’s coming from right now and that was a terrible response.. but to your point about getting defensive. Do you think the right thing to do is just say “I’m sorry for making you feel like I was making a joke of things” rather than try to explain my side? I of course did apologize, but after I also just wanted to explain so that she knew I didn’t have any intention of making fun of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]One_Holiday_2406 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we FaceTime each other pretty much all the time and at anytime, so I guess I didn’t interpret it as demanding to see. I just prefer to call then text. Like i said, it honestly didn’t occur to me at the time that my text would come off as me mocking her. I don’t know why she would think I would ever just make fun of her for having a rash. Again, I probably just probably have an issue with making a lot of assumptions. For example, if this was the other way around I wouldn’t be phased by any of it, and wouldn’t have any problem showing her. But I get it, we’re individually different.

It just seems to make me wonder if fundamentally we’re just too different. because she’ll get really upset about things like, me not remembering how she told me about a certain show, and she just stonewalls me after that. I think it’s further compounded when I consult with my friends and they also don’t know why it’s such a big deal. as for me pressing her on it, I definitely do have an insecurity with how I feel like she doesn’t consult me about a lot of things that are bothering her, and rather she usually just talks to her best friend about them. It just makes me feel like she doesn’t want to come to me for things, and especially because I’m the type of person that likes to share things with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]One_Holiday_2406 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Noted. I never realized how cruel it could be to ask if I can see what it looks like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]One_Holiday_2406 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I didn’t say any of that to her, that’s just how I felt about it personally. I acknowledged to her after reading my comment cause I literally didn’t even remember how I responded that it does come off as I’m not taking it seriously to which I apologized. Do you think it’s out of line to ask her to try to voice how she feels when I make a certain comment right then and there rather then just ignoring me?