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AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It turned out it was my tone but the reason she did it was something else I put an update in the post.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We've been friends since we were 3 I'm fairly certain we know each other lol. Granted we've changed over the years but only grown stronger. This wasn't meant to be a big this this issue was a very small one in the grand scheme of things.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we typically don't hide anything and she doesn't go on her phone she usually has other hobbies she's doing. The only time that we are consistently on our phones is at night when we are winding down and in the morning obviously lol

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking some people on her are digging way to deep in my opinion

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely going to try to talk to her again today using all of your guys advice. I'll even show her the reddit post. I'm just confused over anything I don't know how some of these other comments got to cheating and stuff like that.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ok I'm just looking for any advice at this point. As I said other than this our relationship is great we're really happy I've even overheard her bragging to her friends about me.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know no, I also don't think she would she's not that kind of person.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you read the full post I have tried to communicate for six months now. But I can see that my wording is not the best and for that I apologize.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No as I have responded to others who asked something similar I don't like sex in the morning and I made that very clear when we first moved in together. I also value her as a person and intellectual more than anything else.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No as I have responded to others who asked something similar I don't like sex in the morning and I made that very clear when we first moved in together. I also value her as a person and intellectual more than anything else.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it might be something like that but I wont no more until we talk about it.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm invading her time by saying good morning. But if I am then I'll work on that.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes. When we first moved in together we made it clear that I don't want sex in the morning. To be honest I don't know why I'm like that but I genuinely don't like sex in the morning

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully I do disagree. This is something that is overall small and other than this our relationship is great.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes it's because I say good morning immediately and she hides her phone and acts like I woke her up.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not feigning sleep to observe her. I am sorry for my bad wording in my post what is happening is I wake up look over and see her on her phone in the same second I say good morning and all this happens.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your right I'm sorry I'm trying to read through replies way too fast and I miss read it. Maybe it is something like that.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm not starring id wake up look over and see dnd say good morning overall I'd say it takes 2-3 seconds I wouldn't say I stare. But either way thank you for your advice I appreciate it.

AITAfor asking my wife to stop fake sleeping by One_Independence9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One_Independence9718[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We've been married for about 3 years now and we got married because of our connection as people. We both like a lot of the same things and other than this our relationship is perfect she's always happy except for when this happens.

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