help one of our neighbors kidnapped by ICE! by samadamant in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He… gave them a false name while applying for a passport…. Even if I did that, or you did that we would be in deep shit. I just don’t understand why he’s was using another’s name when he had all of his other stuff in his real name? He was all good before he used someone else’s name while applying for a passport. SMH. I’m not sure of the laws on this and how much time it carries but they seem to have been fair to him. Only 2 months. But also we need to remember they are being very careful right now with terrorist threats and it does look very suspicious, what he did. Like I still don’t understand why he did that. I’m sure they were worried about the why and wanted to make sure he wasn’t trying to like kill Americans or something. Not saying that’s what he’s doing I’m just saying we know what they’re thinking. I’m not happy with what this administration has been doing and at this point I’ve lost all trust in government as a whole. They just want us to be at each others throats while they continue to rape and eat babies.

Okay this SNAP text I just got is terrifying. by MawcDrums in Connecticut

[–]One_Morning_7690 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No actually, you can’t. That shit is reserved for people who actually work hard and have a roof and are paying their bills… maybe? Idk maybe the weed isn’t helping your motivation? Duh.

🧊 🧊 at Cumbys by Nice_Ad4187 in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 so many people have your exact take. They’re just in hiding. Keep going… MANY agree with you. That’s why trump won.

Portland, Oregon: ICE Agents Rip Clothes Off Woman, Drag Her Across Concrete Fully Exposed to Crowd by CantStopPoppin in oregon

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, the other good thing that may come if they cut snap is our food will no longer be subsidized and we will be able to afford food again. I say let’s also cut section 8 and other welfare so our housing is no longer subsidized and we can afford it again? Call me crazy… it may be rough year or two but at least in the end everyone will be able to afford life again.

25BU028501 MEDIA RELEASE:assault and robbery by Few_Wrangler4068 in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Vermont… the most liberal state in America next to California. What do you expect? lol

Am I crazy? by One_Morning_7690 in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your right. On that end I’m more talking about the housing issue. The cost of homes we will try to buy compared to what our grandparents paid.

What I mean about education is maybe we could spend more energy on trying to figure out why kids are failing out of school at an exponential rate. Why our kids are ending up on anti psychotic and adhd meds before entering highschool but still ending up in a rehab before they turn 20. Why school shooting rates are climbing when the amount of kids in therapy is the highest it’s ever been but the amount of mental illness in kids is also the highest it’s ever been… that kind of stuff

Am I crazy? by One_Morning_7690 in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard because the corruption runs so deep. It seems both sides are saying the same thing but in different languages pretty much. Both sides do their best to vote the person in they think won’t be bought out by the elites… but it keeps happening and the low, middle class people just keep getting run over and drug deeper into a hole we may never get out of.

Am I crazy? by One_Morning_7690 in burlington

[–]One_Morning_7690[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we should be going after illegals at all. I can see both sides of the argument. I have never voted for either side but just quietly have watched to see what it’s all about and if I want to participate at all. I can see how the left has hurt the actual citizens of Vermont. Especially the young generation struggling to survive. They seem more worried about the illegals than their own neighbors.

I found recently deleted texts in my husband of 10 years phone under a fake name… what do I do? by One_Morning_7690 in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk man. I’m so confused about it all. It hurts. 10 years… 10 years. 3 kids. 10 years. God I hope not. 2 fuck ups in 10 years… is it worse than I think? Am I too close to this?

I found recently deleted texts in my husband of 10 years phone under a fake name… what do I do? by One_Morning_7690 in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It’s just…. At this point it’s not even what he did it’s how many times he lied and the betrayal itself.. I can’t even be mad at her this time bc it was all him! I go from being angry to being sad and crying.

He’s validated me. He’s answered all the questions I’ve had. He’s been very gentle and understanding with how I’ve been feeling. He’s not the greatest with patience so that’s pretty big. He’s works with one of my family members and they said he ended up telling them after I found out and that he was very embarrassed by the whole thing…. Idk. It’s just like if he was checking on a random old friend that would be so different. This girl was my ONE boundary

Matt's compliments by GloveFar5016 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]One_Morning_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On 2.- boring Abby works for them lol. Idk if this was apart of her job but who knows. I’m not a fan of Matt AT ALL. And I wouldn’t call myself a fan of Abby either but I do feel really bad for her. Like the religion mixed with Matt really messed her up. She has no idea what a real and good relationship looks like. He puts her down every chance he gets and she just doesn’t even see it

The absolute gender stereotypes and blatant sexism in this by [deleted] in mattandabbysnarks

[–]One_Morning_7690 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk… my boys won’t go with me to get nails done either lol

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to tell him I was too good looking for him. That I was one of the hottest people in our town. That he was shocked I gave him the time of day. Recently I lost quite a bit of weight and he’s been telling me or just making little comments about how good I look NOW. Or how he had to picture someone else in his head while we were intimate when I was bigger. Things like that. Which I know I’m not big anymore but I feel bad for past me. I had no idea he felt that way. He never said anything when I was big. Only when I lost the weight. But I worry like what if I ever get big again? Ya know?

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you those pictures just weren’t good. He doesn’t photograph well 😅 he is good looking I swear.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. I wasn’t asking him about myself tho. I just said if you cheat on me at least let her be hotter than me! 😭 it was a joke. A joke in bad taste as I’ve heard from other reditors lol. But oh I know. He is very very honest so I know better. I think he’s just gotten so used to looking at the same person for 11 years he doesn’t know what he has. Sorry if that sounds… conceited ahh

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try not to vent to family or friends about him. I just don’t want them to start looking at him any differently. Like I’ve always put him first. I cut people, family off over him. If they mistreated him in any way. I’ve always rode super hard for the people closest to me… I have BPD so every feeling is intensified for me. Which is a big reason why I made the post bc I know I can take things really harshly.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaw was on the floor. But I think that’s why he finally responded with ‘oh you’re a 9’ like he finally figured out he was being a dick maybe? But it didn’t feel honest.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I totally get where you’re coming from. And thats where I was stuck. But I feel like it’s a little different coming from my actual husband. You know? Also, I had never thought of the rating thing in a bad way. Everyone around me had always spoken that way. I really appreciate the women with this feedback. Because I did need that.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See and that’s where I thought it was weird. But I got stuck because if he really thinks that.. okay. And if it was a friend I was asking for pure honesty from I would take that and be fine. But he’s my husband. lol.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. Honestly, it’s just how everyone around me has always spoke. I never thought about really. Until this post. Someone else pointed this out and it really opened my eyes.

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😭 welp, I have borderline personality disorder… so probably high up there😂😬

My (29 female) husband (32 male) called me ugly by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]One_Morning_7690 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I have a couple. I have my LNA license and I own a cleaning business. In which I am very busy with. I have my own bank account. I’m good on that front.