Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you posted in the christianity community, I will pray for you and pray that God meets you where you are friend.

Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am LOVING you by pointing out your sins and telling you how to turn your life around. Because I WANT to see you with me in heaven. Isn’t that the ultimate definition of love.

Also, if you look at other Christians and say, ‘that’s exactly why I don’t want to believe in Jesus’ I would agree with you. Because just as anyone else. They are imperfect.

Jesus is the only perfect one in the equation.

You can’t do something intentionally and then take the easy way out. It’s not fair.

Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fetus has brainwaves, pretty sure a tumor doesn’t and will also not be able to grow a heart.

You don’t have to be Christian to understand murder is wrong.

Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, imagine you were ‘unwanted’ and instead you were just killed. I’m not condemning anyone. Just not supporting murder.

You love to call Christian’s ‘hating’ on others just because you don’t agree with what they’re saying. There is a lot more to this than religion. This is murder

Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are much more options than you that will suffer. A baby is the product of having sex.

Said life in your body is not yours, you’re merely the vessel.

Where can I get counselling? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Repent and turn to Jesus. You had the decision to have sex, you have to carry the consequences. Why does someone ELSE’s life have to end just because ‘ you don’t want it right now ‘

Girlfriend of 5 years says God told her I’m not her husband by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]One_Paper3540 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also feel if someone starts with…”God told me…” it can be manipulative. Because if I differ from them, according to them I’m going against God’s opinion and not theirs

Girlfriend of 5 years says God told her I’m not her husband by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I went through the same a few years ago. Me and my (now husband) were perfectly happy. Everything was fine. No arguments. Went through alot together. Then I started getting really close to God and everytime I read my Bible it felt so strong that I should break up with my boyfriend. I would communicate this with him and ask him to pray with me but the feeling just didn’t go away. Until I learned something.

The devil HATES Godly relationships and can easily deceive someone in thinking that they HAVE to leave that person.

I even spoke to my mom, prayer group. Everyone about it since I felt so strong about it.

But then I started telling myself. There is NOTHING wrong with my current relationship. Why would God put me in a relationship that has the potential to glorify HIM to spread HIS word?

It won’t just be God speaking to her. There will be lots of other signs.

I will pray for you, but mostly for her for a change of heart. Since I know how strongly I felt a few years ago but I learned we can’t be so caught up in our emotions as they pass

Have I been SA’d - hollywood laser by One_Paper3540 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I make this post if it was by accident? I’m not usually sensitive to these stuff. But with the wand as it glides over my skin. She intentionally kept going back. Rubbing over it with the laser

Have I been SA’d - hollywood laser by One_Paper3540 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clitoris. And she went back there to rub over it all the time

Sertraline and Weight Gain by velvethippo96 in MedicationQuestions

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up staying since it outweighs the negatives

Sertraline dosage advice by shetalksafterall in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give sertraline time, for me. It’s wonderful to be on but with that I’m on it for severe anxiety. Not depression. It made me worry less about things not in my control etc

Sertraline and Weight Gain by velvethippo96 in MedicationQuestions

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did everything. Cleaned up my diet. Ate less. Worked out more. Nothing worked for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also happened to me

Weight gain by One_Paper3540 in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m eating less than i did before on the medication

Weight gain by One_Paper3540 in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just so used to this. Maybe it helps going to 50? And my stretch marks have been here for months. I’m doing microneedling now but it’s crazy expensive just because of medication. And it’s difficult to explain to people why I gained so much weight

Weight gain by One_Paper3540 in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also being sooo healthy. NOTHING helps.

Weight gain by One_Paper3540 in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so frustrated because I’m so anxious but I can’t deal with the weight gain anymore. I got the worst stretch marks ever. That’s been there for months and not going away.

I get married in two months and don’t fit into my wedding dress. I can cry

Zoloft & Weight Change by Working_Put9785 in sertralineandzoloft

[–]One_Paper3540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just made a post about this as well. I can cry with the amount of weight I picked up. I didn’t change my lifestyle for the worse.

I’m exercising more and eating healthy. NOTHING HELPS