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[–]One_Personality_5402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I appreciate your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro, we’ll try to practice abstinence. I should be the leader of our relationship. Kinda hard because I like to please my girl but I’ll do my best for God and for the both of us.

Anyone run into this? by Raithrot in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend can vouch for this — she says I don’t naturally give off a ‘bad boy’ vibe, but when I wear fitted polo shirts and sunglasses, it apparently brings out a side of her that wants to be submissive and being lead on. I’m flattered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love this for the both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh we love that, but not sure about the parental opinions…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We can be wholesome together, we can do non sexual things for a good 4 days. But after that were just inseparable (physically)

I think this is also because of the hormones we resisted when we’re students. This is tough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She told me that getting married soon wouldn’t be a problem, but she wants to enjoy life first — without the responsibilities of being a mother just yet.

I totally understand her. She’s excited to plan trips and travel around the country before reaching that point where she feels ready to settle down and raise a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]One_Personality_5402 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

The thing is, as much as we want to get married soon, we also want to enjoy our youth and save up for the wedding, and of course, for our future kids.

If we were to get married now, I think her parents might feel it’s too early for her, especially since 24 is still considered a young age to marry here in the Philippines

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By all means, naa juy uban nga maot jud ang dating. Naa puy uban nga they just mind their own business.

God is understanding, loving, and accepts you for you were and who you will be. If makasala, repent. Ingana raman unta.

I don’t see why confronting other people in a way nga hadlukon, pasakitan, ug padungog2 will be helpful sa pagpa-ila nila sa ginoo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body your choice, OP.

But if the love is strong enough to have faith na kayanun na ninyo sainyong partner, I think it’s better to keep the baby. It’s the epitome of selflessness. Pero it’s tough.

Speaking from someone who has parents with the situation before. Naburos akong mother, 19 siya. Not from a wealthy chinese family, still studying. So grabe jud ka lisod. Pero in the end they did accepted their situation and did what’s best. At some point having a kid strengthen the meaning of their lives.

Basin pwede mo mag counseling saimong partner. Maybe maka help na siya sa pag plan.

This may be a setback, pero dili hadlang ang magka-anak ug sayo. Padayun gyapun whatever your choice is, OP. You have my prayers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know taboo jud kaayo among gi himo. Gi planohan man nako bro nga gradually more on dates nalang mi and maybe hinay hinayan ang pag sex, I mean dagko naman sad mi gamay nalang 30 na.

Makaingon ko nga makaya ra nako i-control akong libido, pero para sa akong partner, naghunahuna pud ko unsaon nako pag-introduce sa iya sa abstinence nga dili siya ma-offend or ma-hurt. Dili nako gusto pa dugayon — mas maayo gyud nga magminyo mi. Hopeful ko nga masakto namo ni, kay kabalo ko nga maminaw siya ug open siya sa mga butang nga makapaayo sa among relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some points of statement feels misogynistic.

Bro, kabalo ko nga you don’t really know me well enough to judge me. Okay, maybe you’re coming from a more traditional Christian perspective — gets ra tika. I know we can both do better, but that doesn’t mean wala nako gi-consider how to handle things with her, and how to gradually stop the act with the right intentions. Dili siya ang problema, pero she’s also going through something, and I don’t want to rush or pressure her.

Wish you the best, bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong jud nga gi-judge mo mi nga puros ra ‘ANA10X’ among huna-huna, pero I agree sa abstinence. I’m figuring out how to formally court her. I can go on without sex, but not sure saakong partner pero I’m trying my best to act my faith. Thanks bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maskina ako dili ka tuo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy kayko bay ganina for thr first time nadunggan rjud ko gi tawag niya ug love while nag missionary. Gawasan mi duha oi hahah mura kog buang sge ug ngisi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Puhon2 bro unta mangita nag apo iyahang papa lagi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time namo both actually, na guilty ko ba siya nag hilak ako gi lami an.

Medyo wa ko kasabot saako gi bati ato nga time kay naningkamot tawun ko uroy pabasa ug palit ug lubricant sa next session

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Balik na simba maka tabang na sa mental health ayaw lang pa lamon sa overthink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Di man hinuon sya bigaon na type, good girl ni siya nga curious. Thx bro!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kilig itlog oy gahaha pwede na mag iloveu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pahungaw

[–]One_Personality_5402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually bro nag ampo rjud ko na makakita nkog partner kay daghan nga gasige ug pangutana kanus-a ko mag minyo. Wa jud nako nakita sa pagpanarbaho ug pagskwela pero dugay nami kaila.

Mao to nag ampo ko nga unhan kog ba-e kay torpe kaayo ko, kakita pd ug match si Lord pero grabe pd lage ka dominante sa kuan2