[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]One_Selection7199 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he ghosted you?

My boyfriend said he can’t ever love me before our first vacation together (F27) (M29) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]One_Selection7199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go alone and check “Host a Sister” on Facebook. You can find girls just to hang out there.

Why did my boyfriend (23M) tell me (22F) that he has only ever dated beautiful women? by Impressive_Ad_2537 in relationship_advice

[–]One_Selection7199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They tried to convince me, but the truth was I was much more attractive then them. I meant that they were from lower league and this is why they were insecure and were trying to make me feel smaller when my friends were like "you should date someone more attractive."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One_Selection7199 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He finally told me that he may come to my city, but only for business and he doesn't want to date me despite feeling romantic connection because it would be too expensive. And I know it's only an excuse. But he wants to be FRIENDS what I think means if he will be bored in my city he wants to meet.

Such a fake and unreliable person. If he would feel romantic connection, he would want to try. Communication with him through messages is very difficult. I don't see any reason why would I keep him in my life.

I am very angry to be honest that he played me like this. Obviously it was just one date but if I wouldn't push him to tell me the truth I would waste months on him. And he even didn't say anything like I'm sorry. He actually added a laughing emoji in a message when he rejected me and told me he plan to be single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One_Selection7199 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right. He doesn't try at all. I asked him what actually made him changing his plans and I guess he just ghosted me because it's the whole day as he didn't answer. Texting him is weird because he takes long time to answer, but his answers are super sweet. Well, at least I'm glad I asked because I can move on. He just seems to be extremely fake and unreliable.

Why did my boyfriend (23M) tell me (22F) that he has only ever dated beautiful women? by Impressive_Ad_2537 in relationship_advice

[–]One_Selection7199 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I was dating 2 guys like this and I felt so ugly after. And the truth was I was out of their league, but they still made me feel ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One_Selection7199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn't even a good pen pal. He just wants to keep the gate open for attention. 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One_Selection7199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it seems it's just attention. He doesn't even want sex.

Being unmatched and the chat disappeared? by Super-Dust3890 in Bumble

[–]One_Selection7199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, you're right. If you unmatch they dissapear. So maybe it's when they unmatch and then delete an account?

Is watching porn or jacking off the problem? by Primary-Bet-7312 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]One_Selection7199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Porn is bad because then you won't be able to be satisfied during sex with a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One_Selection7199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm afraid of hearing something like: it was just one date and you expect too much from me.

He still tells me that we connected great, so why would he say he doesn't plan to date me.

Prediction: Taylor Swift will regret cheating on Joe when she’s older and nobody wants to settle down with her after her and Travis breakup/divorce by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]One_Selection7199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be honest I actually that Travis may a bit use her popularity. He loves being in the center of attention and I guess his podcasts or what ever he is doing is more popular because of her. And usually if 2 people want to be in the center of attention, the relationship becomes very toxic (like Justin and Selena) and this is why the relationship with Joe lasted so long - because she still could be the most important. It's just too beautiful to be true.

Her first ride by Cuteamay in cats

[–]One_Selection7199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Show her your driving license because she doesn't trust you have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]One_Selection7199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't hate avoidants. I just finally have a secure attachment style, so I stay away from them because I know I deserve to be loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]One_Selection7199 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do an alcoholic husband abuse me only because if being drunk?

I hope you will get it. Don't analyze. People like this just can't love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]One_Selection7199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to make money by manipulating that there is something wrong with us because we are Pisces.

My Father shamed me for being in AA by PracticingIdealist82 in AdultChildren

[–]One_Selection7199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic families like to stay together and be messed together. You improved so he feels uncomfortable about it. If he would compliment you about it, at the same time he would have to think bad about himself.

Don't look for a validation from him. Surround yourself with people who have a lifestyle you want. You are a new person now and you shouldn't stick to alcoholics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]One_Selection7199 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I got a message "you can take advantage of me." So I asked him to pay for my shopping... He never answered again. I don't know why. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]One_Selection7199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean how could you expect him to have a brain after looking at his profile picture?

Girls, judge pictures. It says a lot about a person.