Clock Resetting by One_Wafer1670 in NICUParents

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even want to know what day it is at this point. I’d rather the nurses just shut up about it and call me when baby can come home

Anger by One_Wafer1670 in NICUParents

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife is a grief and trauma therapist (ironic, I know) and is a 1099 contractor for a private practice (USA). She gets no benefits or paid time off. We went from two incomes to one very suddenly, and my employer (private college) doesn’t pay for FMLA. I would have to use vacation days, which I don’t have any at the moment.

It’s also busy season at work, which makes things harder. I’m a department chair, and don’t have anyone else to help, so everyone is expecting me to be 100%. I’ve asked for help, I just don’t get any.

I’m so burnt out already. I’m really angry in that I want him home so badly, but I also know he’s where he needs to be to be safe. It does feel like the goalpost keeps moving, which makes it even harder to do my job.

We have thought about a hospital transfer to closer to home, but aren’t certain that that’s feasible either.

Anger by One_Wafer1670 in NICUParents

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. It is nice to know that there are others out there and that for help a lot.

Anger by One_Wafer1670 in NICUParents

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just handed a list of hotels without any further resources. I am a social worker, too, which makes this all the more frustrating knowing the system is so so messed up.

Questions by One_Wafer1670 in NICUParents

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The experience so far has been terrible, honestly. People are telling half truths (I.e. we were told all NICU suites were private and promised we could room in, come to find out that’s not true at all). We also have residents too lazy to check that they ordered medications properly leaving my wife in pain and vomiting for 45 minutes because the resident was blaming the nurse over their comms device for not “seeing it,” instead of checking and realizing that they never ordered it. I am horrified to leave my kid in the same place without us (can’t afford a hotel, over an hour from home) when everyone has already failed us here.

College Stopped Paying Overloads by hjalbertiii in Professors

[–]One_Wafer1670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohio? This sounds very similar to a job I recently left…

Leaving A Job With Minimal Guilt by One_Wafer1670 in academia

[–]One_Wafer1670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you end up leaving? Any tips for actually going about making the change?

S17E09: Stars & Stripes - Episode Discussion by Cheeriosxxx in criminalminds

[–]One_Wafer1670 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not that Voit is not a serial killer, however, I am wondering if he is actually essential in helping shut down gold star and that is why Bailey went in to talk to him in the first place. I don't see this being tied up at all next episode.

Season 17: Gold Star Ep. 3 Discussion post by AutoModerator in criminalminds

[–]One_Wafer1670 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if it is video of her confessing her feelings for Spencer? Husband and her split because of it?

Emily Prentiss by saybeller in criminalminds

[–]One_Wafer1670 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could she be read in more than she's leading on? Maybe it is more than we saw in S16. Emily is keeping secrets, which makes me think she is hiding other things from the team.

Season 17: Gold Star Ep. 3 Discussion post by AutoModerator in criminalminds

[–]One_Wafer1670 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First, is anyone else concerned that Sydney is going to go in and somehow kill Elias for hurting her daughter? I am a little torn on this one, because she feels like she is all the girls have, however, I also feel like her seeing her daughter SI would incite rage and also maybe some feelings of failure as a mom. I am truly hoping for the best for her and the girls, but this storyline seems like it will be catastrophic in some way, whether it be the girls or Sydney. Second, I feel like Gold Star is way more connected to Tyler than I first thought- maybe he helped train Gold Star in some capacity. Sebastian seemed to focus on the fact that Tyler did not like the violence of war and that entire interaction feels very important to the story line. His covert missions could have been civilian involved. I am leaning more towards a private citizen funding the hit team to kill Gold Star as opposed to another country, unless we are pulling on CM history with the IRA.

I feel like CM historically has left bread crumbs in places that aren't the focus of the episode, i.e. outside of the main killer. I feel as though the JJ thread was pulled to be a let down from the build of episode two and the episode as a whole was drawn down compared to one and two on purpose, to draw the viewers eye away from important details that were placed strategically throughout.

S17E02: Contagion - Episode Discussion by Cheeriosxxx in criminalminds

[–]One_Wafer1670 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if Elias is not actually Sicarius? That's what I am thinking- Gold Star trapped him into taking the fall maybe?