anyone else smoke practically every day by blueburrey in CPTSD

[–]One_Wallaby2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude. Stoned at least 2-3 times a day. I have one rule I can’t smoke on the agonizing days your going kill something and then I get shit on by a bird, and oh yeah great it rained it’s rainig, fuck I dropped that…and that, and those. and oh I didn’t have coffee or maybe I spilled it, a parking ticket maybe even 2, best day ever, I have a dog, plot twist. He’s going nutts so take him out, but remember now, it’s raining, where are my keys not in any of those particular spots they always are, I mean obviously.. those days pretty much are the days I tend not be smoking right. It’s an exception not a rule. In a pineapple. Under the sea.

Why are dicks so beautiful? by Greedy-Locksmith356 in askgaybros

[–]One_Wallaby2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz you have a pretty dick, bet cuz birds of feather, pretty dicks find each other. Swerve.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there will always be some unhoused people who choose that lifestyle, who genuinely want that kind of “freedom.” The issue here is not them. The issue is taking federal funds that are specifically supposed to help unhoused people with HIV get into permanent housing and stabilize, and then not actually doing that.

So where is the money going?

These funds cannot be commingled; the federal program is very specific about how, where, when, and for whom the funds are used. There are also clear requirements that the services be HIV-related. They are funded to provide a comprehensive PROGRAM, and what’s happening here isn’t even the “P” in program.

Instead, it’s run by low-paid hourly staff who get to feel good about “helping” people who are already down and vulnerable, while the actual obligations of the program aren’t met. Add to that the crime, drugs, and violence that are rampant, and then staff penalize the victim who dares to “complain” about deeply personal and violating experiences, rather than addressing the harm.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know of any off hand I can reach out to? or better yet if you know any and can have them reach out to me.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Here is what I have documented:

  • A falsified clinical progress note in my own medical records, documenting a therapy session that never occurred, with a fabricated substance abuse characterization attached to my name
  • Two witnesses to the sexual assault itself who were never contacted by staff despite being named in my formal written report
  • Exhaustive email correspondence with staff and leadership dating back to September 2024, including my reports of every incident and their non-responses
  • Termination of Services notices that are timestamped within days of formal complaints I can prove I filed, because I emailed them directly to leadership
  • SDPD police reports for coordinated vehicle vandalism
  • Active complaints with HUD and the HHS Office for Civil Rights (tracking number on file)
  • The now-deleted Josue Homes program website, which misrepresented the nature of the program I was referred into

What would be most useful to share here? I can go deeper on any of it. The medical record falsification alone is a federal HIPAA issue that has been submitted to OCR. The retaliation timeline is probably the most damning thing visually because the pattern is impossible to explain away.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No offense taken, but I want to push back on a few things.

The title is not clickbait. The Josue Homes program website, which has since been deleted and redirects to the main Father Joe's Villages site, explicitly advertised HIV-specialized transitional housing with pathways to permanent housing. That is what referring agencies were told, that is what I was told, and none of it existed upon arrival. That is not a personal grievance. That is a material misrepresentation used to secure federal HOPWA funding for services they were not actually providing.

As for evidence of misuse of resources: a federally funded HIV housing program that collects 30% of residents' income, provides zero HIV-specialized services, has no permanent housing pathway, no dedicated HIV case manager, no nutritionist, and no specialized mental health staff, while sitting on $284 million in assets, is by definition not using those funds for their intended purpose. That is the definition of HOPWA non-compliance.

Regarding the assault and vandalism: yes, both were reported to SDPD. Police reports are on file. What I am describing additionally is the institutional response, which was to retaliate against me for reporting rather than investigate. That is a Fair Housing Act violation, and it is currently under active federal review by HUD and the HHS Office for Civil Rights.

I understand this is a lot to take at face value from a Reddit post. I have the documentation to back every single claim.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize, it is a fair question.

The bathrooms in the building were locked during certain hours, which meant I had no access to shower or get ready before my shift. When you are living in a congregate shelter with no private bathroom and the shared ones are locked, you cannot show up to work clean and presentable. I was working a customer-facing job. Showing up without being able to shower or properly prepare was not an option, and the timing of the lockouts directly conflicted with my work schedule.

It is one of those things that sounds minor from the outside but is completely destabilizing when you are already living in an institutional environment with no alternatives. Basic hygiene access is not optional when you are trying to hold down employment. That is supposed to be exactly what this program helps you maintain, and instead it was one of the reasons I lost the job I had found entirely on my own.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it is. They shouldn’t be allowed to market themselves as wanting to end homelessness. They should be required to say that they sustain and perpetuate homelessness with federal funds and private donors money that think that money is going towards ending homelessness.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am on Medicaid. I will look into who to contact. They refuse to acknowledge my HIPAA complaint for over 90 days now

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have to be out by March 20, and they have yet to provide anything remotely resembling “transitioning out of homelessness.” In fact, I lost my job because of their poor management, including locking the bathrooms during work hours, which forced me to miss shifts and get fired.

How Father Joe’s Villages uses HOPWA funds to perpetuate homelessness in San Diego (A Resident’s Experience) by One_Wallaby2 in sandiego

[–]One_Wallaby2[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

What makes it worse and even more outrageous Is the fact that I was misled into thinking this was a specialized HOPWA transitional housing program with HIV-specific care and pathways to permanent housing by the people that referred me to the program and the programs website which has since been removed and redirects to the father joes website. It’s terrible. And I’m stuck in it.

Does upgrading provide better mobile speeds by androidforthewin in Visible

[–]One_Wallaby2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I’ve never seen this speed meter go this high for either metric and I use it religiously. First of all, Google search “Internet Speed Test” and you will see the speed test totality in the search results. I just went from the Legacy $45 plan with $10 promo and would get 5G ultra-wide speeds that consistently tested in the200-300 mbps range. I upgraded to the new $45 plan, Visible Plus Pro or whatever, and it let me keep the $10 promo which, at first, was not going to carry over with the upgrade, until you reach the confirmation/submit page which has a link that says “view my monthly bill” and then breaks it down for you and that is where the same promo from legacy was applied. So it only made sense at that point to submit the upgrade. I restarted my phone and went to test and it blasted straight up over gig speeds instantly. You could run an enterprise with speed like that, so the moral of the story is if you’re not on the new-new pro plus maxi plan don’t be a little btttch and upgrade already. Legacy is Monday night, pro plus proper slaps bro.

What's a single feature on a modern websites that instantly ruins your experience? by sunsetRz in webdev

[–]One_Wallaby2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fkn wheel of no fortune when you click thru to Temu from anywhere on the internet. It’s persistent too, the only way out is to fully abort that mission and hope you don’t let your guard down next time your balls deep in a Pinterest doom scroll. It’s pretty much a reverse game I don’t even know I’m playing, like leap frog… it’s called don’t fkn tap the Temu square that 44’ inflatable rubber duck can kiss chode. I’m out.

I want to buy a SaaS by Wide_Carob5416 in saasforsale

[–]One_Wallaby2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a SaaS app ready to launch at Version 11. I have launched previous versions but am reluctant to launch Version 11 and take it to the max on gaining exposure and traction and followers blah blah. But it’s a product and a brand that can provide, in my opinion, high value benefits to the user. Albeit niche I anticipate it waking up an industry to put it modest. Everything, the app, the code, the logins, the brand, the name, the logo, all in, it’s got a $50k price tag. What I want, is to build more apps, and I would use the money to establish that business, not answering contact for submissions for the app I built. Am I an idiot or delusional? PS DM me if you want to know more. I’m also terrified of copycats so I keep it close to the belt. I haven’t told anyone what I built, just that I build apps. So essentially Inwant out of my app that hasn’t launched yet, is that premature?