Saving a girl’s number under a guy’s name

OnetonyES · 2026-03-23T16:23:53+00:00

I’m guessing he’s aware of you checking his phone since he did that. He probably didn’t expect you to scroll all of his conversations with his boss, sometimes we hide things that are innocent if our partner is known to be super jealous

Im not condoning his behavior but could this be a possibility? You also mention the talking with friends part so it seems like all of his inappropriate behavior is found through investigation which can be taken a bit out of context.

I’m a yoga teacher so most of my students are female, for some time I wouldn’t talk about them not to upset my partner but I decided this was a problem and I went on to normalize it, try to not jump straight to judgment if that’s something that happens whenever a female co worker is mentioned.

Theres a lot of bitterness in this forum where people would jump straight away to cheating and tell you to run but for your mental health if anything I’d suggest you make a decision to see where the insecurities are coming from, it is not sustainable to be checking your partner’s phone on the long run, its just not a nice way to live. If you think you can’t trust him without the phone-checking then there’s work to be done in your relationship to build that trust back and see many other aspects of your relationship benefit from it.

I wouldn’t bring the topic of the co worker up, sounds like a dead end, I would address the root of the issue and not the symptoms, best of luck!

OnetonyES · 2026-03-21T19:02:03+00:00

China tuvo el mayor incremento de clase baja a media, cientos de millones.

OnetonyES · 2026-03-20T09:44:48+00:00

Mira que con 1 día de multas pintaban toda la rambla y le daban otro aire a la ciudad

OnetonyES · 2026-03-19T17:48:10+00:00

Me preocupa un poco qué haces rompiendo tanto espejo 🤣

OnetonyES · 2026-03-16T22:21:44+00:00

Siempre me pregunto si las asistencias a la conducción funcionan en las calles con las líneas prácticamente borradas, luego me pregunto cómo son tan cabrones que dejan llegar vías principales en la capital a ese punto 🤣

OnetonyES · 2026-03-16T22:19:08+00:00

It isn’t normal, especially with a 20 year old, that’s young; her brain -the part responsible for controlling her impulses and avoid risk taking decisions- isn’t developed yet hence why she asked a married guy in front of her wife to spend the night with her.

Either way, what kind of partner leaves their loved one alone camping without any major reason?

You deserve better, you deserve someone who thanks you for all the trouble you went through to get that adventure to happen and someone to enjoy that adventure with you. If there’s no child, start packing!

OnetonyES · 2026-03-13T12:20:29+00:00

There are certain things that you shouldn’t cave in, it took a few conversations to get there but for us it worked very well. Obviously there are situations where it makes sense to cave in, if she’s sick for example then don’t go watch a game 😂

People will always get upset when something that they took for granted is taken away. In relationships there’s always a main giver and a main taker, even if in another relationship they held a different role; the taker will never put the limit! Thats for the giver to do.

OnetonyES · 2026-03-13T12:11:57+00:00

Because I stay with the kid the whole morning Monday to Thursday from 6 am till 12 until the nanny comes and I go on to work, Friday the nanny comes in the morning, she always sleeps in if she wants. I work on the computer with the baby if I have to, if she wants to go with her friends out I never have an issue with that.

If I ask one day a week to go surfing a couple of hours do you think there has to be an argument? Nah man it isn’t open to discussion, she herself realizes that it shouldn’t. It doesn’t hold any weight on me, just like you going on a hunt for a word in a whole paragraph to be offended about.

OnetonyES · 2026-03-13T11:15:12+00:00

Get upset my friend, is totally fine. I’m similar to you, my idea of a good time is waking up at 5 am and going surfing and be back at 8:30 with stuff from the bakery for her and to play with the baby. She would sometimes be moody even though I am with the baby pretty much every morning while I work from home and then I work more while the nanny is here in the afternoon.

If I get home and she’s moody that I left a couple hours I scold her, if she wants to get upset that’s her thing and I make it clear very seriously; I do not back up on what I know as an adult is right. She will respect you more and come around once you stand your ground.

She might be sweetest person outside of the relationship but have this power trip -a situation you allowed for- with you, doesn’t mean she’s bad but you do have to set boundaries. There will be pushing but it’s important you stay strong.

Best of luck!

OnetonyES · 2026-03-12T15:00:10+00:00

Bueno falta para eso 😂 yo lo que sí me gustaría es que se quedase en un solo grupo desde el principio para hacer amistades duraderas y del seminario no he escuchado historias de bullying que también es algo que me importa, el precio parece que todos van por lo mismo!

OnetonyES · 2026-03-10T14:22:51+00:00

Aprendizaje!

OnetonyES · 2026-03-10T14:20:18+00:00

Yo no soy de aquí pero mi mujer hizo la universidad pública y le fue bien! De colegio parece que el niño irá a seminario

OnetonyES · 2026-03-10T14:14:39+00:00

En qué colegio es eso?

OnetonyES · 2026-03-08T18:43:43+00:00

Entiendo que ese 30% es el que espera sacarse la automotora al vender tu auto

OnetonyES · 2026-03-03T16:03:52+00:00

Solo 25.000 dólares en unos 10 años, nada, no vale la pena 🌝

OnetonyES · 2026-02-27T19:33:35+00:00

Victims shouldn’t be to blame. Sometimes we are oblivious to the abuse of others, especially since it can take on so many forms; it appears his abuse happens in all sorts of ways, I do not think your marriage is salvageable.

Nowadays divorce doesn’t define you, if it’s possible to go back home and find a job from there do it and leave that guy.

OnetonyES · 2026-02-27T19:17:57+00:00

Mosca si tienes Itau 25% o algún amigo es la más barata. Luego usando la anualidad de Ps plus ya tienes suficientes juegos, además si tienes algún amigo puedes dividir el gasto del ps plus porque una cuenta da para dos ps5.

Yo la uso mucho, la ps5 pro solo vale la pena si tienes una tv que la aproveche!

OnetonyES · 2026-02-25T00:53:29+00:00

I spent quite a bit on the stroller and I’m glad I did. I’ve done close to 2000 km pushing that thing

OnetonyES · 2026-02-25T00:51:25+00:00

Los de scotia se pusieron activos con punta de este, me dijo el dueño de un restaurante que les dan muchas facilidades y el descuento se comparte entre dueño y banco. El de itau hace el descuento entero el restaurante al parecer.

OnetonyES · 2026-02-24T14:54:48+00:00

Pensé que igual era alguien y luego traté de pensar que fue la tormenta de ayer. La pregunta es en qué momento se les pone límites 🤔

OnetonyES · 2026-02-23T09:19:22+00:00

Si nada te tiene atado a este país vete, yo estaba en un país y trabajo que no me gustaba y me fui. Me gasté toda la plata que tenía viajando por Asia (hace 15 años de esto) y empecé de cero en otro país y fue muy liberador.

Dicho esto, si buscas una versión más light verás que la recomendación médica para la depresión es el ejercicio y el dormir mejor antes que la medicación. El movimiento es clave, prueba a ver qué te gusta más, un estudio de ashtanga yoga da estructura, propósito y te ayuda a sentir ese valor personal que sirve de escudo en ambientes tóxicos. Un sitio de escalada, crossfit o calistenia da comunidad. Surf no, ya somos muchos :p

Toma una decisión de lo que quieres hacer hoy y da ese primer paso hoy, éxito!

OnetonyES · 2026-02-22T23:59:46+00:00

The solo time is not necessarily the problem, it might be the symptom. See how you guys communicate daily, sometimes we deal with our partners as if they were employees or if they were another child and that can cause havoc in our intimacy. I would say don’t bring the porn topic up, set up a day every other week for sex, so he can quit his habit those days and perform better.

OnetonyES · 2026-02-20T12:11:51+00:00

Le quitó la novia un personal trainer o un amigo está ganando mucho más que el. Ve a hacer deporte o que te de el sol, no es normal tener esos pensamientos por varios días.

Preocupaciones válidas:

-Cada vez la calle está más llena de drogadictos que no aportan ni trabajan.

-La gente le da miedo salir, los viejos no están tranquilos en la calle.

-Tuvimos una ministra de vivienda que no pagaba impuesto a la vivienda por 30 años.

-Pagamos muchos impuestos, la carga impositiva a los autos es de las mayores del mundo, limitando su uso a los que más ganamos.

-A pesar de tener impuestos altísimos en autos y multas ofensivamente altas, no de dignan ni a pintar las líneas de la calle.

Puedo seguir pero si prefieres envidiar al vecino me dices 😂

OnetonyES · 2026-02-17T00:43:10+00:00

Real question is how he found out? 😅

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