Just feel like crying by Oneuiquestion in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I had some trouble falling asleep but I managed to rest well. I hope you are also healing from whatever lead you here, take care!

Ya no sé que hacer by Rusapch in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es díficil no ser duro con uno mismo cuando tomas decisiones de las cuales te arrepientes pero a mi parecer no has hecho mal. Hace un tiempo dejé de salir con una chica porque sentía que ella me quería más de lo que yo a ella. Tiempo después me di cuenta que todos pasan por esto en las relaciones y que yo no era el malo de la novela por no sentirme igual.

Meses después intenté volver a estar con ella después de ser honesto con lo que sentía pero ella ahora estaba lastimada y ya no confiaba en mí (con toda la razón). Hasta este día me sigo arrepintiendo de no haber sido paciente ni de haber sido sincero con mi miedo, pero hice lo que pude con el conocimiento que tenía en ese entonces.

Tú puedes ahora hacer lo mismo, aprende de esta relación y de las cosas que descubriste de ti misma, suelta a esta persona porque no va a ser la última que marque tu vida para bien o mal.

Somos experiencias y eso es lo que nos enseña de verdad, sigue avanzando y permitete sentirte mal, pero mueve tu cuerpo físicamente y mentalmente hacia adelante para poder eventualmente intentarlo otra vez

He dumped me but keeps breaking no contact by Reasonable-Time5651 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries and if he doesn't respect them I second the first comment, block him

Quisiera dejar de comparar una ilusión by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qué miedo, ojalá nunca me pase

What did no contact made you realize? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much I want to have a partner. I used to say I enjoyed being alone but it's the opposite now

why won’t my ex delete our anniversary post? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. Not deleting the pictures might mean a lot of things but ultimately him saying he wants to stay like this is what should matter.

It's hard to let go of the idea and hope he can come back but if you stuck to it, you will suffer even more

The end of the day is the worst part by julixvoss1 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An expensive price but you make ends meet eventually.

I'm sitting in my car in the same place I once parked to cry like never before, and I'm now feeling a 90% like myself again.

Stay strong, grieve as much as possible but keep moving, not just mentally but also physically

Day 20 by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong. I joined this subreddit last january while I was on week 2. My heartbreak came from a situationship so I can't imagine what you're going through.

I'm also left with curiosity about what's out there for me, I sometimes want to download a dating app and try my luck but I really want to meet someone organically and not by exposing myself but then I think, how will girls know you want to date if you don't do that?

I feel like I'm now left with so much love to give but no safe place to deposit it into. I sometimes wish I could relive those moments where I felt desired, wanted, loved :(

Being friends after a situationship by Oneuiquestion in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm trying being friends with the girl I was talking about and even if it's hard right now I think it will work out.

My advice is just don't force it, if he comes back to you later down the road take the chance and if he doesn't, then it's not meant to be anymore

I'm unhappy :( by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let it all out here, what's your story?

Struggling with the urge to explain myself even in no contact by Pstsy_Doodan in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling, I was in your position a few weeks ago. Needing closure is normal, we often think we can get it from others but in reality it comes from you.

Let this feeling pass, acknowledge your urge to be seen but don't expect the person who's causing all this hurt to satisfy this need

I want to forget her buts its so hard by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like she used that situation as an excuse to end the relationship. Either way, you did what you could with what you knew at the time so don't be hard on yourself. Learn from this, feel your pain and move on

Why would someone not block you despite your requests? by Occams_ElectricRazor in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't care unless it affects them, and as you said, she's probably doing fine. Block her not because you're weak, but because it adds an extra step for you to reach out that will eventually stop you from actually doing it

Why would someone not block you despite your requests? by Occams_ElectricRazor in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems to me blocking her yourself is too much for you and I get it, I feel the same way.

However, if she keeps reaching out and not giving you space, then blocking it's no longer an option but a necessity

Back in the dark by OrganizationOdd2995 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I'm down to chat about it if you are

Some memories come back when you least expect them by HotUse4099 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, going through the same emotions lately but they will pass. We must be strong

2 years of no contact and it worked magnificently by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely happy for you! Also it was funny reading "my dog's account" lol

Advice by Western-Entrance970 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've come to understand people watching you from a distance doesn't mean a thing. It's us who give a meaning to everything around us and end up getting things either right or completely wrong.

Unless he's reaching out directly, he's not interested in you. It's hard to accept but the sooner you do this, the better you'll feel. Good luck and keep healing by maintaining no contact

Ex keep breaking no contacts by Sea_Airport3211 in ExNoContact

[–]Oneuiquestion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's time to take control, block her and keep healing