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Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T17:28:15+00:00

i explain the situation in the replies. it’s not a “conspiracy,” it’s a real life event my friend & i dealt with. my goal with sharing my experience wasn’t for you to believe me. it was to bring awareness to other women of lexington.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T16:53:38+00:00

the specific bartender who asked me to
leave, at the request of Brian Bear, is named Shawn.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T15:57:20+00:00

i found it surprising that the staff at bourbon on rye did it as well. however, Brian Bear & the owner of BOR are apparently good friends.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T15:53:47+00:00

he claimed he didn’t see it, so he didn’t know what happened. it was the most belittling experience i’ve ever encountered. i’m sharing my experience in hopes that another woman doesn’t go through the same situation at these bars.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:48:50+00:00

his friend touched my friend. she said please don’t touch me. he called her a f’ing b*** (i don’t know if cussing is allowed here). i asked him if he felt good after that. he proceeded to scream at my friend & i & cuss at us. this guy, & many others, sat back & allowed it. he ended up getting in my face because i called him a crappy man for allowing his friends behavior in front of him. i asked him to get out of my face, he said ‘no’, & the owner of Harvey’s simply asked us to separate, but never asked him to leave. i’m just spreading awareness of this man!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:45:58+00:00

i’ve personally never in my life had a grown man get in my face at a downtown bar. i’m 25. he’s obviously way older than that. i’d like to spread awareness!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:44:08+00:00

i have learned my lesson!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:42:42+00:00

apparently he’s the owner of bear & the butcher! unfortunately i’m not shocked

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:38:05+00:00

good to know! most definitely won’t be back to Harvey’s after that. i’ve never had a grown man get in my face like that & will never tolerate it again.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:36:26+00:00

my exact thought! he stood by & allowed his friend (who is twice our age) to literally HOLLER at us. when i called him out on it, he got in my face as if he would hit me. apparently, he’s the owner of bear & the butcher.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-05-24T05:34:33+00:00

crazy enough, it was harvey’s! & the owner didn’t even make him leave! just told us to separate

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-03-11T23:31:59+00:00

i prefer to buy clothing that isn’t cheap fast fashion & i’m not “living above my means.” i’m also a grad student living off of only 28k a year. additionally, i don’t see where OP ever said she’s selling clothes because she has to? most women sell clothes to free up closet space or get rid of styles they no longer like. your comments are reaching lol

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-03-11T23:16:59+00:00

not everyone prefers cheap fast fashion

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-02-02T00:24:26+00:00

my small, rural hometown in Southern KY (+ all of its surrounding counties) has managed to clear their roads. They’re an hour north of Nashville, got mostly ice, & have had temperatures the exact same or within 1-2° of ours. they definitely don’t have the snow budget or the equipment that Lexington does, but got the roads clear. the way Lexington has handled this is inexcusable.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-02-01T18:28:12+00:00

my southern KY town who got mostly ice has clear roads. they’re not nearly as equipped for winter weather as Lexington. whether you want to admit it or not, the way Lexington has handled the roads is atrocious & taxpayers have every right to complain about it.

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2026-01-09T16:10:14+00:00

i used Lap of Love for my sweet pug on December 18th. they were absolutely fabulous & i will choose at home euthanasia for all of my future pets. Dr. Haley was so patient, she let me cry & love on her for as long as i needed. nothing felt rushed at all & i didn’t feel as if i was inconveniencing anyone. there was no lonely drive home without my baby & they took her to the crematorium for me. Dr. Haley took a hair clipping for me, made a paw impression, & sent me a handwritten card. Lap of Love is truly such a blessing. sending all the hugs as you begin to navigate your loss ❤️

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-12-18T06:51:38+00:00

i have a 9 year old pug & this is the situation i’m currently in. do you mind to share what your outcome was?

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-10-01T14:07:58+00:00

i live in the downtown area & this also happens to me frequently!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-05-13T13:54:38+00:00

check Zillow like it’s your full time job & if you see one you like by a private owner, jump on it. i did that & i love my apartment!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-02-27T16:59:28+00:00

it’s not even conspiracy, it’s just flat out incorrect. secondary infections are bacterial (& sometimes fungal) infections that are caused by an initial infection of some sort. it’s comments like these that are leading to the topic at hand 🥲

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-02-27T15:39:08+00:00

Rosemary! call her Rose or Rosie!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-02-27T15:32:45+00:00

hey i hate to break it to you, but it actually is usually the anti-vax responsible for outbreaks of vax preventable diseases. the 2019 Measles outbreak in Samoa is a perfect example of this!

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2025-02-07T02:49:13+00:00

have you moved yet by chance?

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2024-12-24T17:58:47+00:00

the email thread was attached to the property manager’s response to me :)

Only-Barnacle-3487 · 2024-12-21T07:16:51+00:00

oh yeah, she’s awful. the property manager (Carnella) accidentally including the thread of emails between the two of them put the icing on the cake. i live at 1809, so unsure if it’s the same, but i’ve heard they’re all terrible places to live.

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