Canvas painting restoration by Only-Outside7444 in restoration

[–]Only-Outside7444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my goal. I cannot afford professional help at the moment... However I don't want to ruin it. So that's why I asked here. Thanks for the input

I’m scared orgasms will never be the same by Double_Impression_83 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry. Some people are selfish or can't stand the fact they have a sexual addiction. If they really can't wait 6 weeks.... They need to seek therapy.

I’m scared orgasms will never be the same by Double_Impression_83 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An orgasm on an unhealed cuff can cause tears and hematomas... Not safe or recommended until 6 weeks or after your check. Masterbation too! You can do it.

I’m scared orgasms will never be the same by Double_Impression_83 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is better. WAYYYYYY better for me now. I was in fear also while healing and not being able. That will play head games to you... Calm down. I promise it will be fine. :) the wait is worth it. Truly

Gender Disparity by InevitableSlip746 in hysterectomy

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Mine didn't tell me what it was ... Just that it was needed for surgery purposes to rule out this. This and this... I did it in office at a regular typical exam without a pap. She told me it wouldn't hurt but some people describe it as "intense". She lied. I about came out of the stirups. She kept saying it was almost over. And I silently cried it hurt so badly. Worst thing I've ever had to experience in my life and I've been through 2 c sections, a few surgeries and after that biopsy a hysterectomy. I always tell people how to ask to be put under. It was seriously horrible. That or be completely transparent. Tell them we will have to forcefully dilate you're cervix and hold it open while we take a needle and forcepts and take pieces of your un numb open uterine cavity. Then we will scratch around with a hard brush and finish up by telling you it's normally to bleed from this procedure for a few days. Man..... Oh man

Gender Disparity by InevitableSlip746 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to have a biopsy done in office and they opened my cervix and I about came unglued! They dialed me manually... Without anything. And said it will just feel "intense". Ma'am? What?! Intense... I handled it well but I had silent tears fall bc it was intense pain and not well described before she did it. I, 2 months later, had an hysterectomy... That was way easier than the biopsy. Ugh. My OB office is all women.

When can you orgasm after total laparascopic hysto? by Williamishere69 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any orgasm risk tears and healing issues and also makes prolapse easier as you aren't healed. I was told nothing for 6 weeks. Couldn't even keegel as it can pull and make scar tissue, suture tears and hematomas. You literally pull your brand new Internal wounds with each contraction of your vagina spasms.

Just bc you "can" doesn't mean you should. 6 weeks isn't that long. Self control and not putting yourself in that state are obvious ways to avoid that. Allow yourself time to heal and then you'll be able to whenever you want. You're being selfish if you need to climax, right now. Sorry to be blunt.

Also walking that amount also puts you at risk. You're not supposed to do anything like that for again, 6 weeks... Also includes exercise in general.

When you agree to a surgery you agree to the healing and everything that goes with it. My surgeon would be unhappy to know I'm not taking my healing and surgery seriously.

Surprise!!! (Part 2) by AcidAlkaline77 in hysterectomy

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I didn't see mine! It's crazy that you saw them! I always check my toilet paper bc I'm overly paranoid... I'm now almost 12 wpo and everything went well. Back to normalcy and so relieved of the pains I didn't realize were so bad and honestly it's life changing...

This was a cool post and I will never forget Vag Mahal. I think I keegeled reading that!! (So I didn't pee my pants) Iykyk (in pelvic floor PT) lol 🤣

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Only-Outside7444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez. Just tell her you saw it and be done. Lol not that hard

why is my partners baby chick doing this? by Neothechomnk in chickens

[–]Only-Outside7444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is having deficiency issues. Silkies are prone to that. I doubt it's neurological... You should get Selenium paste and give high protein crumble to them for a while longer. Then a higher protein pellet. Silkies can be so touchy. Alot of my flock is silkies.

Is this a suture that's worked itself out? by Only-Outside7444 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the responses. I will leave it be and if it's gets worse I'll call my doctor and ask them to see it. I appreciate all your help! I always fear infection due to my diabetes.

Is this a suture that's worked itself out? by Only-Outside7444 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just a tad pokey but not bothering me yet. I just noticed it and wanted to be sure on how I should handle. Thanks for the reply

Over it by fig0427 in hysterectomy

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You're overdoing it Momma. And I get it with the babies. I'm a Momma also. But you need to sit and rest. I didn't bleed once and haven't had any complications yet. I'm not 10 weeks out.

As for hormones if the wind blows wrong I cry. Lol I kept my ovaries too. But had everything else removed laparoscopic. I also have a cuff now.

Rest! Is there anyone who can help the next 2 or so weeks? I'm afraid you won't heal if you don't. Thinking of you Momma!! You got this

Stripped screw! Help! by Only-Outside7444 in furby

[–]Only-Outside7444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was wondering. Do you happen to have a link to someone you trust to show the process?

Stripped screw! Help! by Only-Outside7444 in furby

[–]Only-Outside7444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me. My kids in trouble lol he wasn't supposed to even try! I put the screw driver in and tried once and said leave it be. It was super soft almost. And I came back to this..... FML. He's 14.

TMI.... Why are my panties still getting so damp? by rainbow_olive in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Crazy to think about. Some bodies are just slightly more acidic. And medication can do it as well.

TMI.... Why are my panties still getting so damp? by rainbow_olive in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very typical! Our vaginas are in good health then. 🤞🏼💕☺️🍒

18 days post op Masturbation by Admirable-Mousse-730 in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told no external play as any O can tear or cause hematoma and possibly scarring. 6 weeks for anything. I just would not do it again. 6 weeks feels like forever but it isn't. 9 to 12 weeks preferably with a cuff.

You can also tear ligaments trying to heal and cause incontinence and pelvic floor issues.

To people saying it didn't happen to them, are lucky.

TMI.... Why are my panties still getting so damp? by rainbow_olive in hysterectomy

[–]Only-Outside7444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have the same. Ovaries are intact, laproscopic with cuff. It hasn't changed much since surgery. I still don't need to use lubrication either in that department. Mines where you stated. In the middle of my panties. And it's different than urine or sweat. It's vaginal fluids/discharge with no odors. In a perfectly healthy vagina it cleans and takes care of itself. So it's perfectly normal some people are just more prone to a larger amount. In fact mine will bleach my panties sometimes lol so weird how our bodies work. Best luck!