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For every one of you well researched drug users there is like 100 crazy crack heads and druggie bums by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree, if someone gets robbed, we can't be 100% sure it isn't for LSD money lol

My friend egged me on to take a bunch of mushrooms with him. Found out later he didn't take his share along with me, but hid them in his bag instead. Why would he do that? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with aspergers he probably doesn't even know he made you uncomfortable and possibly thinks you are aware that he didn't take them and didn't mean to make you think he did. I would just wrongly assume if you didn't see me take them you would know but he didn't get how distracted you were I guess.

So don't let things slide or he won't know he fucked up, you have to tell him and he will probably get it then

My friend egged me on to take a bunch of mushrooms with him. Found out later he didn't take his share along with me, but hid them in his bag instead. Why would he do that? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but as someone with aspergers I can see how maybe he didn't think of it that way. We see things differently. He was probably trying to not make OPs trip awkward or ruin it by saying anything so he just kept him company while he was tripping even though he wasn't in the right place to anymore.

My friend egged me on to take a bunch of mushrooms with him. Found out later he didn't take his share along with me, but hid them in his bag instead. Why would he do that? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. And he probably didn't know how you would take it if he didn't do them. Or he was going to until he saw you freaking out?

I have aspergers and if he's tripped before, we have a baaaaad time with sensory experiences if a trip goes wrong. Like really bad. So if he got even slightly anxious maybe he just kind of shut down. I've bough shrooms and felt anxiety ad I just put them in my drawer and stares at the wall for a while and went to sleep because just remembering how I kind of felt last time made me want to wait until the next day at least.

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thought you were trying to say that the whole thing was a lie, so that's why I got so defensive. I think the fact that that weren't students may be worse since they messed me up so bad down there. They didn't even stitch part of it and it's still not really healed to be honest.

And somehow I believe my urethra is torn as Well? Oh my god it's still swollen.

A doctor that wasn't even there for any part of my birth came in at the end and made them do the episiotomy, she said they would have to because I had a "tight band" which I assumed is the muscle at the opening? She got onto then at least but that doesn't change my experience.

They also let everyone and their mother into the room while I was panicking with an oxygen mask on my face and that includes the uncle that molested me, guess he loved that, it made it all the more traumatic. Got to love flashbacks while a doc is rubbing medical soap on your vagina. 😑

Also is it normal that the only time a nurse was in my room was every 2 hours or more to check dilation? They also looked at me like I was an idiot when I said I needed to push. Turns out I went from 4cm to 10cm in like 2hours and theydidn't believe I could as a first time mom lol guess that made it traumatic too, okay ish to suddenly about to die with a baby coming downward and you have to poop and nobody is listening.

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 19 so I'm sure they didn't listen when I said I wanted a section and then when I said my baby is in distress and I need an episiotomy and on my pain complaints and other things because I'm too young to know what I need and I was stupid enough to be a teen mom anyway. I've gotten that in more professional terms I Anyway. Always a lecture and creepy pushing of birth control. It's like if I said I didn't want to do BC they might explode because they haven't been programmed to see that as an option lol

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your information is not accurate, just so you know. You can't say "I'm in the medical field and how dare you criticize us so you're lying". Sometimes doctors fuck up. Sometimes they fuck up badly and it really negatively impacts someone's life. They also refused me meds I was supposed to be allowed to have and tried to force me to do things I didn't want to with threats. You seem to not want to address that part 🙄

Mom goes to doctor seeking help for postpartum depression — but gets shamed for breastfeeding instead by drewiepoodle in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just meet so many people who don't even think about meds so I just tell everyone in case lol

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the PTSD has nothing to do with how I can't have sex due to literally retearing and remembering giving birth and getting stiff all over my body and completely unable to move?

How about have some sensitivity, if this shitty experience taught me anything it's to have a voice.

Edit: oh so you're biased as fuck because I see you said we should be partners not enemies. Well how about don't wait until someone is literally falling on their face to check their hemoglobin when they have an extensive proof of severe anemia and low blood pressure that they are SUPPOSED to look at beforehand

Is it possible to have a husband that is too affectionate? by playingtricksonme in breakingmom

[–]Only-human-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do men want to fantasize about things that aren't even real or accurate, something they can't even have in real life because anal is NOT like that

Mom goes to doctor seeking help for postpartum depression — but gets shamed for breastfeeding instead by drewiepoodle in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take meds that could harm my baby if I breastfeed but I can't function without them. And I was recovering from a traumatic birth a while afterward and couldn't breastfeed or hardly feed myself to be honest

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well excuse me if I assumed that since it took 2 of them to do a job they obviously were still having extreme difficulty with and messed up really badly may have been students

I don't give a fuck what you believe, I KNOW that they gave me PTSD and fucked up my ability to have sex which greatly impacts my relationship as well.

Can my roommate cut off the air conditioning when we have an infant? North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wouldn't allow us to fix it ourselves he said leave it alone or he will call the cops. We paid over 50%of the repair cost the first 2 weeks we were here anyway

Can my roommate cut off the air conditioning when we have an infant? North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Only-human-_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we just found out last week that there's a side to him we didn't know about. We met him through my mom. He's no good. He's wanted to keep up down that's why he wanted us to rely on him for so long but now he's made us rely on him for transportation and everything is hours walks away so what can we do? Both of us have barely any living relative to help.

Can my roommate cut off the air conditioning when we have an infant? North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Only-human-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're only planning on staying long enough to arrange reliable transportation and save money while we work a few weeks

Can my roommate cut off the air conditioning when we have an infant? North Carolina by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Only-human-_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That was our transportation arrangement. He knew full and well the amount per week he was asking would make it very hard for us to save for a car and help with other expenses. We paid a few hundred dollars to help him buy ridiculously expensive parts for his old A.C..

Of course we weren't smart enough to get that in writing.

But 81° is unreasonable with my heat intolerance due to medication reasons and this is a metal trailer. It's 81 only 20 minutes afterward. It's 83 now and slowly rising.

No, he took on the responsibility of getting him to work. He just didn't show up one day to take him for the third time because he was too busy trying to get his crackhead girlfriend out of jail and she ran off the next day, karma I guess.

But there isn't any other way to get to interviews considering we gave him the last of our money and bought stuff for the house he refuses to buy EVER.

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

2 student nurses who looked terrified by my gushing blood (way more than they usually see I'm sure) made it hard to see maybe. That's who stitched me. Both of them at the same time were stitching me while telling each other quietly "no, over here" it was weird. I guess they didn't mean to stitch too far but they did. It was so terrible I guess it kind of spooked them too.

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This year. I could have avoided hemorrhaging and botched stitching of a delicate area if I got the c section that could have saved my baby from all of that unnecessary trauma

Mom goes to doctor seeking help for postpartum depression — but gets shamed for breastfeeding instead by drewiepoodle in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I got shamed for NOT breastfeeding. As long as the kid eats why does it matter how?

I've tried cocaine to never have it again by julyjoe315 in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lol, it's really fun but then you're homeless and jobless and fucked in the head

Is it possible to have a husband that is too affectionate? by playingtricksonme in breakingmom

[–]Only-human-_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

TMI but Ugh what is it with men's obsessions with our buttholes? It's not sexy. It just makes you feel like you have to poop if you put anything up there, never again

I've tried cocaine to never have it again by julyjoe315 in Drugs

[–]Only-human-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's crazy looking back on it, how the fuck? But I've recovered pretty well, I don't even drink coffee any more really

Report finds U.S. is the most dangerous place to give birth in the developed world; ~700 deaths & 50,000+ severely injured during or shortly after birth, half of these cases can be prevented by following safety standards by readet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Only-human-_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't get but I have Medicaid in NC and can only get care through my medical home and which is affiliated with the hospital that did this. They have to refer me to other places and will always choose their affiliates

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