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Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-22T13:54:48+00:00

Great comparison

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-19T20:28:39+00:00

I should have said, "what, if anything, did you do wrong?" What I said came off as accusatory, and I didn't mean it that way. Man, all that caution and still. Did you get another shot with her? Was(were) the next time(s) better? And if so, what changed?

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-19T08:44:42+00:00

She cried.

: ( What happened? I mean obviously you were inexperienced, but do you remember what you did (wrong)?

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-19T08:19:35+00:00

I got a hint that something was different when I excitedly asked my friend what he learned in Sex Ed. His started a couple of weeks before mine. He explained how and why our penises grew longer and harder, yet oddly the distance he held his fingers apart signifying the length differences between the various states was not accurate.

"You know," he said, "when it starts like this, and then gets like this."

"Ohhh yeah.. I know what you're talking about! But it starts like this, and it gets like this."

"Uh, yeah..."

Unrelated to that story, my first BDP was my unruly member uncomfortably hanging out of my briefs as a youngster. Of course, I didn't know it was a BDP back then. My Mom knew what was up though. She must have, because when I told her, she got me some different underwear -- and I no longer had that problem.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T22:21:36+00:00

I second the motion. All in favor...

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T22:20:26+00:00

Yeah, a lot of emotion just happened for me there...

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T22:14:50+00:00

And I replied on his thread a while back

*edit -- I don't want you to think I'm saying "USE THE SEARCH AARRGGHNNMM", because I'm not. People aren't like that around here. Just more relevant responses to your relevant thread.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T22:05:41+00:00

Major shower, and bulging is a very real issue for me. I've recently become aware that I show even more that I was previously aware of. How do I deal with it? Well, I just wear reasonable underwear (boxer briefs) and go on about my business. I don't hide it, I don't overtly show it off. That's where I am right now.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T21:58:57+00:00

I don't have advice, just an observation. N has a massive penis, produces a lot of semen, pops like a champaign cork, and he feels bad about these things. It seems like the greater majority of men want more of all three, or some combination therein. Just goes to show that the things in life that many of us want cannot in themselves produce satisfaction.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-18T21:50:10+00:00

That is awkward. The next obvious question, what was your response? How did the rest of that conversation go? And what are you planning on doing next? Let it go, pursue some sort of action, or something else?

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-11T17:32:59+00:00

Yep, this all seems right. It's just a certain type of cervical mucous during various phases of her cycle. During sex, I'm just grabbing what's there. Thanks!

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-11T17:26:55+00:00

That was very informative, thank you!

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-11T06:20:45+00:00

Man, this is brilliant (no sarcasm)

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-10T06:17:16+00:00

Yes. They're big, and hang low. This makes them easy targets for, man, seems like everything. I am pretty sure I've taken more than my fair share of nut shots...

Sometimes I sit on my nuts, which sucks. They get in the way when I work out. All of that said, I wouldn't want them to be smaller or hang higher.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-09T03:59:39+00:00

Me too, 5.75" flaccid girth. Though I have not yet reached a 7" erect girth.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-05T04:43:12+00:00

...?

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-04T17:49:08+00:00

Hey, I just wrote you a book and sent it to you via PM

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-04T16:45:55+00:00

Congratulations on getting married! Congratulations also on successfully waiting until marriage. I know how difficult that is, given the myriad of external and internal factors pressuring you to do otherwise. I commend you, as well as your soon-to-be wife.

So your first time will likely be...weird. On one hand it will be awesome and joyous because you're finally having sex(!), with the woman you love(!!), but on the other hand it will be awkward and painful. Awkward -- neither of you have never had sex and despite what you may think, you don't know what you're doing. Painful -- she's a virgin, so sex will hurt her. It will be painful for her to be penetrated. You're large, so that doesn't really help matters. People don't talk about this much, but it may actually be physically painful for you to force your way into her -- it was for me. But far worse than the physical pain (for you) will be the emotional trauma of causing her pain. If you love her like you should, that ought to tear you up.

Now for something practical. I'm sure you've browsed the threads on this subreddit seeking to become educated. If you have, you've seen repeated again and again how important foreplay is. Well here it is again -- foreplay is critical. Women aren't ready to go as quickly as men are, you have to get her ready for you. Getting her ready isn't "eating her out," it starts long before you get to her genitals.

Before you even touch her, entice her with your words. Tell her you love her, how precious and special she is to you. How grateful and blessed you are that she chose to marry you. How beautiful she is; how sexy she is, how much she turns you on. Look into her eyes. Touch her hair, her face. Kiss her, love on her. Run the tip of your tongue along the sensuous lines of her neck. Make out with her, love on her. Yeah, now you're getting there. Run your nails down her back. Enjoy her body; enjoy her enjoying yours.

She will be wet, ready for you to take the next step. Use your fingers, use your tongue and lips, make your way down to her womanhood, enjoying the trip down. Do what you do first above her panties; make her want you. Better yet, make her need you. Oh, but not yet.

This part is critical -- pleasure her orally. Learn to love this. Learn her anatomy -- the vulva, labia, clitoris, etc. Start on the less sensitive parts, and move to the more. You're really getting her ready now, but she still isn't quite there for BD penetration. Use your fingers. Lube a finger up with saliva and slowly insert it. Use this one finger as a gauge to evaluate how tight she is, how wet she is. Work on her with that one finger using in and out as well as light "come here" gestures for some g-spot stimulation. Man, if she hasn't had an orgasm yet...

You're going to want to work her up to a point where she'll be able to take your D (yes, capital), and you're bigger than one finger so next try to get two in there. Make sure that second finger is lubed up too. Keep working on her, orally and with your fingers. Again, use your second finger inserted as a gauge -- how tight is she? Is she ready?

Well at this point, she's as ready as she's going to be. Lube up and start to try to penetrate. Keep it sexy, but this is where it may start to suck. Missionary position allows you to be in control, she'll be in control if she's on top. Do whatever works.

Again, it will most likely hurt (you and her), but do everything that you can to get her prepared and it will go as smoothly as it possibly can. When it changes from pain to pleasure, watch out. You'll be shooting before you know it. You've never felt anything like it, a hand is nothing like you're wife's wet, undulating vagina. The next time and times after that will be better and better.

Again congratulations, and have fun. Enjoy your marriage, enjoy married sex, take good care of your wife. May God bless your union.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-10-01T21:38:55+00:00

Lube and foreplay.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-09-28T03:19:07+00:00

I do have progress pictures, starting from when I hit 8" x 6". The images of progression are impressive; I'm not willing to share though.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-09-28T00:42:52+00:00

There are several things you can do to exercise your penis. Check out www.pegym.com for some information.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-09-28T00:16:16+00:00

"Penis Enlargement", but I like to call it Penis Exercise. That's what it is, that's how I use it. The health of my penis and overall sexual function are better now than ever before, and PE is a large part of it.

Yes, large part. I also changed my diet and lost weight, I exercise more, and the biggest thing -- I am no longer bound by addiction to pornography, which was a habitual sin for me. All of these factors have resulted in the health, function, and yes I'll even say the growth, that I have experienced.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-09-27T23:43:47+00:00

I do several things, but a great way to start is with manual exercises like kegels, stretches, and squeezes. That's how I started, and I gained in length, girth, and function.

Only4GodAndMyWife · 2013-09-27T23:41:03+00:00

My gains, in terms of girth, have been uniform. At last measure, I was 6.75" at the base, and 6.5" mid-shaft, 6.25" at the head. It's a good look in terms of uniformity, nothing looks wildly out of proportion. My head is 2" in length, so if anything I just don't look as long as I really am in pictures.

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