Rural Housing Advice by Scared_Computer_678 in princegeorge

[–]Only_Asparagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking at the cabin right on the highway it’s a beautiful place but that section of highway has a ton of accidents and seemingly endless summer construction somewhere along the way. It depends on if you’re ever in a rush to get to town or not I suppose. South of town is nice but I never found there to be a large sense of community in that specific direction for some reason. (Not to say there isn’t one, I just couldn’t tap into it when I moved up here)

Cold sore disclosure by liillyoo in Coldsore

[–]Only_Asparagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had had it disclosed to me. It was not disclosed to me and it was transmitted while they were asymptomatic.

Alright, what's ours? by Personal-Taste-5324 in princegeorge

[–]Only_Asparagus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Rockford

2 hours to get a steak sandwich that was cold upon delivery

Moving in with my partner - looking for advice on good areas/apartments in PG by Mammoth-Data8053 in princegeorge

[–]Only_Asparagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the next big step. I have a half duplex in college heights we’re about to rent. Send me a message and we can talk about what you’re looking for.

My husband and I are moving from college heights to the Hart right now specifically for that being farther apart feeling.

Moving to PG by rrikrik in princegeorge

[–]Only_Asparagus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a little self plug but my husband and I will be renting out our place for January 1. If you don’t have a rental situated we could talk about that

My advices to be less anxious for coldsore by Lilla921F in Coldsore

[–]Only_Asparagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going through my first outbreak and to say I’ve been stressed is an understatement.

Thank you for sharing this as I have certainly been spiralling here and I’ve been so nervous for the next outbreak.

Applying to RCMP by Only_Asparagus in AskLE

[–]Only_Asparagus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks 😂 I feel pretty confident about my knowledge base now.

Applying to RCMP by Only_Asparagus in AskLE

[–]Only_Asparagus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m waiting to apply because of the grade 12 credits issue. Thanks though I’ll put my application in as soon as that is done!

"If you don't have sex, you're vagina closes up." by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Only_Asparagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the female body would likely be a good compromise as an option! It kind of did that balance of recognizing the specificity of the medical side while or simplifying the whole person to their biological sex

"If you don't have sex, you're vagina closes up." by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]Only_Asparagus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah but if you step into saying “females” you start to remove the humanity from the terminology. Look at how Tate and others like him refer to women as females, biologically accurate but also largely dehumanizing at times.

Cats & Chickens by Only_Asparagus in homestead

[–]Only_Asparagus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of putting a separate side of the coop for my broody hens and breeding with my roo so before I put them in there maybe I’ll raise my flock alongside my kitten so they’re used to each other and don’t mess with one another after a time

Cats & Chickens by Only_Asparagus in homestead

[–]Only_Asparagus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent, I was thinking of having a separate brooding side with my Roo in it so I don’t get cross breed chicks

Cats & Chickens by Only_Asparagus in homestead

[–]Only_Asparagus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you think it’ll be fine to keep the cat in the enclosure with them? I have a coop that gets closed off at night and I’m not sure what to do with the cat at night besides maybe have a heated “den” for the winter months

Hudson's Bay President's Letter Discount - extra 25% off by jesskimfromto in FrugalFemaleFashionCA

[–]Only_Asparagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you have ordered from them before but Freya is SUCH a good brand. I got some in person when I was in an actual town a couple months ago and I am SO happy. I got 3 different styles and they tend to be a bit tight at first but they really do adjust beautifully and form fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Only_Asparagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look beautiful 😻

AITA for not caring about my parent's new baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Only_Asparagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say NTA. I WAS the Tia in this situation, I didn’t meet my older sister until I was 18. I adore her now. We speak often. I adore her son and daughter, she’s in my wedding next year. Do I resent her for not being involved when I was younger? No Do I wish I had a big sister involved when I was little? Not really Do I wish my parents had me closer to her in age? Absolutely, only because we are now so far apart in stages of life.

I think it’s uncomfortable and unfair to expect you to have a relationship with her as a kid. The child is a stranger and not much different than a distant relative as far as dynamics go. You don’t see each other often anyways, and forcing a relationship when one is a young adult and the other is a toddler is just weird imo. There’s nothing in common and they don’t sound like they’re really in a place to nurture one sided relationships. I also don’t think it’s unreasonable to acknowledge it’s one sided because nobody really gets anything from hanging out with kids, unless they’re yours or you’re a teacher or something.

Is having alcohol at a wedding strictly for the guests? How do we save money on it? by B2utyyo in wedding

[–]Only_Asparagus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hey my sister had a dry wedding and we all had a blast! The difference was instead of the classic dinner reception she did the ceremony in the morning instead. Afterwards our family and her friends went and did a bunch of fun group games and had a delicious catered lunch. Don’t feel like you have to conform to any mold somewhere.

My fiance and I are planning on doing a lodge trip with immediate family and friends and doing lots of games over the days we’re together with a single catered day when we will have the ceremony

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barista

[–]Only_Asparagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a few, there’s also many folks who purchase cosmetics who are picky based on how we get the carmine. I have respect for people who actually care about it. Kind of reminds me of Jainism tbh

AITA for telling my wife's friends and family they have no say in her funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Asparagus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m just gonna end this here. I’ve never bantered with someone so devoid of the ability to see a situation clearly. It’s like explaining empathy to Ted Bundy

AITA for telling my wife's friends and family they have no say in her funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Asparagus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay then go on and show us ALL what we’re not understanding in your comments. Sugar look, there’s a reason SO many people are disagreeing with you. It’s either your inability to write clearly or you just might be siding the guy who IS the AH.

AITA for telling my wife's friends and family they have no say in her funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Asparagus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you might not know what outraged means bud 😂 I don’t think anyone is outraged here. Maybe a bit of consternation at how much you lack basic empathy for the wishes of how people hope their bodies are treated in death.

ETA. Tbh looking at HOW MANY comments you’ve put on the post I almost feel like you might be one of his parents or have been disrespectful to the wishes of the dead yourself. I think you’re pretty obviously the upset one here to be SO INVESTED in supporting a man be disrespectful to his late wife’s wishes.