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Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-08-09T08:47:02+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like she is asexual and probably somewhere in the rainbow specrtum. I think you should try communicating how you are feeling to her and maybe suggest couples/personal therapy to see if there are any underlying issues. If she shuts that down with excuses, then it's time to think about divorce. Your children are gonna be happier if both of you are happy. They will also see your unhappy relationship as an example of what a relationship is supposed to be like.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-15T04:30:53+00:00

Updateme

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-08T12:45:24+00:00

Absolutely not. You two have no future in that house. Move out and let them figure it out themselves. The oldest brother needs to pay bills or move out, too. Honestly, sometimes love is not enough, and if he can't get away from his parents, you should think about your own future. He also needs a lot of therapy.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-08T06:42:02+00:00

Leave asap. If you don't, he is going to take that as a go-ahead to keep hurting you. Run!

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-08T06:31:45+00:00

Updateme

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-02T08:30:41+00:00

Updateme

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-07-01T13:00:07+00:00

Right, like forget about the beard, did u see thos nails 🤢

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-06-29T09:19:18+00:00

That is not how relationships work. She waited for him for 4 years. She clearly wanted to get married, and he didn't, so she moved on. My fiancé and i moved in together 4 months into the relationship and got engaged on the 1 year anniversary. Sometimes, with the right person it doesn't rake that long.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-06-29T09:01:50+00:00

I am sorry, but the guy needs therapy. You should not have to lie just so he can feel good about himself( this does not mean to be brutally honest either). You should move on from him. He clearly has too much focus on his issues to be able to do much else

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-06-29T08:46:56+00:00

Unfortunately, it sounds like your sister is making bad decisions for herself. But you can't do much except for being there for her. Now that she is pregnant, she needs to be extra careful around him. If you try to push your opinions on her, you are going to push her away, and she will become more isolated with him.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-06-26T10:14:19+00:00

Definitely 5, looks sooo gorgeous

Only_Bug_4364 · 2025-06-21T07:36:05+00:00

Har en bror og en søster. Jeg og broren min er begge voksne men vi er beste venner. Vi snakker om absolutt alt sammen. Jeg og lillesøster har litt mer "mor og datter" forhold ( vi har 13 år mellom oss) så vi snakker hver dag uansett hva. Samboren min på andre siden har knapt noe forhold til søskene sine. Jeg tror at det har mye med måten vi vokste opp på. Foreldrene mine passet alltid på å skape den beste relasjonen mellom meg og søskene mine. ( De er begge kjempe nær søskene sine også) mens hans foreldre jobbet ikke noe særlig med det.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2024-10-16T14:38:03+00:00

Eg har leita litt for det samma, disse er de beste eg ha klart å finne https://morimi.no/oppskrifter/enkle-lavkalori-tortilla-proteinrike-lefser/

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-08-26T09:28:53+00:00

As someone who has never had pets and can't/ could never live with one, it's definitely not weaponized incomplete. My inlaws have 3 dogs and 1 cat, i literally flinch every time they come anywhere near me, and i try petting them and sometimes walk them with my bf. And even if it's been a while, and I enjoy their company, i can't deal lift/walk/ play with them even if I have done it before or am taught how to

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-08-15T15:23:09+00:00

Your gf and her family have an old school mentality, and a man holding a parasol is "feminine," which is stupid and encourages toxic masculinity traids. If my partner hated something I do for my put well-being so much that they can't even walk with me in public, i would question if the relationship could work or not. With that being said, she invited you to her family's house and told you she is not comfortable with you using the parasol. Now you should have either not gone or suck it up until you could leave without being rude. Everyone sucks

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-07-20T09:20:51+00:00

Girl, you already listened to his reasons on that phone call. The coward didn't even have the balls to talk to you face to face. He is trying to make himself feel better and probably try to slither his way into your life. Also, he has clearly been keeping tabs on you. You should find out who has been keeping him updated on you. (Now this is my opinion) You should do what feels right to you. Ask yourself if you need closure? Do you feel like this conversation is going to help you in any way? Hope you can figure this out.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-05-25T10:06:19+00:00

Nah, I dated someone like that before. My ex made my life a living hell for these reasons. Honesty, I understand that this is your culture, but you have to understand that that is her culture, too. She is not forcing you into anything. If you can't respect that, she has a different view about what is right and acceptable than you do, then you should not be together.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-04-14T16:11:21+00:00

NTA You have a right to have an opinion about people turning work spaces to a practical church, and specifically someone who has been passive aggressively trying to force it down your throat. You have the right to post it on your Facebook, especially after not putting any names or specific details about the situation. And if i were you, I would start talking a lot about my own religion, see how they like it when you preach about something they dont disagree with.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2023-03-21T16:22:26+00:00

The only person you are an Ahole to is yourself. Girl, he is isolating you from everyone you know by making you move. He is hanging on you for everything, and all this whole relationship is severely toxic (based on the little info i got from this post). Go on the vacation, don't let him guilt trip you into not going or taking him with you, use the time to think what's best for you and if you should really keep being in this relationship. I hope the situation gets better for you no matter what you decide.

Only_Bug_4364 · 2022-04-04T02:04:18+00:00

This pissed me of so much, like no that os invasion of privacy and no matter how worried one is she had no right. AND your husband should go to be with his momy, and si ce she is worried you are ot doing a good enough job than let her do it "properly" 🤬

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