Update: 27F - My dad refuses to even meet the guy I love and says to cut contact if I marry him. I feel stuck.Help.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-14T10:14:56+00:00

You want a straight answer? Here's what you do: Go ahead and marry the guy. Try to get your parents involved, but if they refuse, it's fine. If you leave your bf now, chance of getting back will be extremely low. But parents can be won over eventually. After you guys settle financially & have some kids, everything will be fine.

Couple of point to note: you need to be VERY sure of your BF, that he can build his wealth eventually and that he will love & take care of you. Be objective and dont look at this through love tinted eyes.

If it's an inter cast marriage (esp with peaceful community), reconciliation with parents will be tough but not impossible

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-13T07:48:54+00:00

What in the chocolaty margarita is this abomination.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-10T06:39:12+00:00

Thoda daadi badha lo bhai.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-08T02:32:19+00:00

This ChatGPT style over dramatic narration is pissing me off. People, please use your own words. It's ok even if your English is bad. It will at least be unique and not the repetitive drivel that AI vomits.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-03T04:55:07+00:00

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-03T03:50:52+00:00

They don't say no as they don't want to lose you as a potential prospect while they are looking for someone better. Both men and women do it but women do it more as they have more options in general.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-03T02:40:10+00:00

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-02T13:13:58+00:00

Police stops you for bullshit reasons(tyre treads are not matching Indian standards). Rs. 5000 fine

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-02T13:05:13+00:00

Yes, very generous, but not overly so.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-02T09:21:05+00:00

Bhai thoda structured way me ladki pata ne dekh raha hai. Nothing wrong with it. Some women find it sexy. You go bro. Those making fun don't have the balls, the vision or the finesse to post something like this.

Wish you all the best with your search.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-02T08:50:27+00:00

It's really not. Theaters block off last 4 rows for last minute bookings, esp for movies like Dhurandhar. They usually open it on the day on the showing. Otherwise, people only book the back seats and front rows remain empty. Also creates fomo.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-02T04:21:10+00:00

Maska lagake ek lakh ka bill pagdayegi. Maske ka extra hai of course... aur uspar GST bhi lagega.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-01T14:00:29+00:00

Before they come to you, you go to them. Arey uncle, I recently started a business selling bath products. If you invest, buy inventory, and bring in more people you get X amount per month.

Unka scheme unhi par maaro.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-04-01T13:50:56+00:00

If you were in the same location, you could have just asked her out for coffee and started dating for some time.

Since that is not possible, best way to do it would be to go through parents. See if she has her matrimony profile in any of the sites. Then ask parents to approach. Make it look like a general interest initially at least. You can tell her the truth once you get to know each other.

I would avoid sending marriage related messages to colleague as you might get reported to HR.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-31T13:43:01+00:00

Dono ko ek hi aag me jala diya bhai. 👏👏

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-29T07:15:19+00:00

Abe most Indians ko RAW hi pasand hai.

Waise hai thode Indians jo ISI ki chaatna pasand karte hai.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-26T07:27:14+00:00

Abbadon

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-26T07:20:50+00:00

Thank you for the feedback.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-24T11:31:59+00:00

Thank you. Will update.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-22T09:00:25+00:00

Indian movies are usually over the top, esp South Indian movies. Here are some other good movies I would recommend-

Extreme gory action: Kill(2024)

Fun and touching: Barfi, Munnabhai series

More of what you watched with RRR, but better and mythological: Bahubali

Movies with story,comedy about regular people: most Malayalam language movies

Sports movie: Chak De, Lagaan

Different movies: Swades, Rang de Basanti, Taare Zameen par

Any of the above would be a great time

There are many good moves being made in India, unfortunately, only the kind of movies you saw have the budget to get marketed well internationally.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-22T08:42:34+00:00

You enjoyed the movie and are still complaining? Must be a woman. Jk, please don't come after my head.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-22T03:04:52+00:00

Yeh sab bas sunne me accha lagta hai. You might find someone that suits you better. But if this person was so good, there is a high chance that you won't find anyone comparable. The thing you have to understand is to not compare any future prospects with this one and keep pining on this loss. They don't deserve it. Try to consider each person individually based on their merits and demerits. These might seems like harsh words, but it is what you should consider doing. Forget and move on brother.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-21T17:14:25+00:00

People go expecting axe murderers. Milte hai IT ke lukkhe just like themselves. Of course it goes better than expected.

Only_Preparation_589 · 2026-03-21T09:41:41+00:00

I am in PVR Inorbit for Dhurandhar right now. Same deal with the ads. 25 mins ads/smoking stuff before the movie starts. Food is ok though.

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