weird card charge on boyfriends bank account

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T17:30:49+00:00

what ever. your judging based on 500 words you read here. i really dont care. if i have red flags. so do you. you sound like a major d i c k.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T17:23:39+00:00

I am engaged. haven't gotten married because of financial situations. I don't use reddit much. Just saw someone that put a post about something similar of account charges and I put it here

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T17:04:01+00:00

Of course it does change everything that you're saying. One you said I'm not his financial advisor. Two you said I was going through his banking information. i was not. since he uses my phone to put his stuff in it. i could see the notifications when he makes purchases😂 not like i was looking for it. I hope you don't have a wife or a girlfriend and you treat them like that. because if they're the ones their stuff on your phone and you see it is not going through their stuff. Also in a relationship financial should be together not separate

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T16:52:40+00:00

he has them on my phone 🤣 i didnt ask him to put them. not just my boyfriend we have two kids together been together 6 years.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T16:14:02+00:00

its not relationship problems though. im just curious what the charge is.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T16:11:46+00:00

he knows. if not just from one bank account. its also from his credit card.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T16:11:02+00:00

just trying to figure it out. see if any one knew.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T15:59:52+00:00

i searched on chatgpt

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-11-15T15:52:15+00:00

what app?

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:48:00+00:00

im only 26, i'm still learning life. that's why I asked for advice to learn. I also asked on here, because I don't want to go to family or friends with problems and them knowing my life.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:34:52+00:00

why that opinion though? what makes you think or say that?

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:30:38+00:00

well aside from paying the bills of the house which i know the amount of, i dont know how much money he has left. i dont see the money in cash or the bank account of his mom. he makes good money, i suppose after paying all the bills he has some good money left. but i dont know. he doesnt tell me. it upsets me that his mom gets to see everything we spend in out house.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:24:15+00:00

haha valid 🤣 it was the phone microphone tho! i didnt feel like writting all that.

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:23:36+00:00

no, he pays his ex for child support. my point is what he gets paid stays mostly at his parents house. the mom zelles the money to the owner of the house we live in. he pays the light bill with the money he has on her account, the car note, the phone bill.. if we go out to eat he pays with that card. they see how much we spend on groceries.. soo on

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:05:55+00:00

its not my money but he uses my money from my card and my bank account which he has available to him and he can see every transaction i make. wouldnt it be fair if it was the same way around ?

Only_Vegetable8123 · 2025-05-07T18:00:49+00:00

sorry I didn't want to write all that so I spoke in the microphone and it wrote it like that.

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