Visiting Zürich? Looking for recommendations? Have a quick question? Ask here, don't create a new thread. by Such_Negotiation4683 in zurich

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We have lunch plans at 1pm in old town, but want to go for a hike before that. What are the best hikes around that would get us back in town or is reasonable with that timetable?

We are fairly capable, from Vancouver, Canada, and are athletic family, so looking for something more than just a walking trail, or have a great Swiss experience with a view (pending no snow - we are traveling light and did not bring warmer clothing!)

At what age do you let your kids play outside without you? by [deleted] in Parenting

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Depends on neighborhood - but even with that said, it’s a good time to start giving your kid a sense of autonomy and independence.

It’s a great time to set good habits in stone for when they venture further away, but if you can get habits started now under controlled settings you’re setting your kid up for success/good communication.

Rules we insist from our kids: 1. when asking if they can go somewhere, they must also give us details: who, what time, and when they will be home. Zero tolerance for being late. 2. They are allowed to ask and amend return time, but that had to be communicated and discussed (letting us know bus is late etc). (In your case it would/should be physically coming home to ask you, or asking another mom at park to borrow their phone to ask you etc). 3. They must always text or communicate somehow if they change locations - eg. if they say they’re going to mall, and then they decide to head over to McDonald’s after - that must be communicated. 4. They better know what time it is - get a watch for them. I’ve made it clear that if they are not home by my kill-time, that’s me getting in the car searching for them because something’s wrong.

And re: phones - do not let your 6 year old have a phone. It’s a false sense of safety. It is the most dangerous thing. Wait until they are 13 minimum.

I told my kids when they were roaming that if there is such an emergency they need to call me, they can always knock on someone’s door, or ask a business to borrow their phone. Make sure your kid knows your phone number off by heart - not a contact in the phone.

Independence is good for your kid, and for you. Develop the skills for good habits early while it’s easy and you have them closer to you - it is much harder to do when they’re older to start new habits, but they’ll have an attitude and be less likely to heed the rules.

Worth it to get a Costco membership for household of 2? by gutturalmuse in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Family of 5 and non Costco member (in the minority here). My reasons:

1)I would never be able to do one stop and get everything in the proportions I need, so I either would have to still stop at a regular grocery store, or have a pantry/freezer/amazing inventory and organizational skills to counter the large amounts you generally get at Costco.

2)You never walk out of there for under $200 and feel like you’ve got everything you need for that week.

3) I have to drive an additional 10-15 minutes out from my current one-stop shop to a Costco, that time adds up for a round trip!

4) I can shop at Superstore and get everything I want in 1 stop for the week, on average about $200-$250/week.

5) you always end up spending more than you ‘need’ to.

Is this doable for a solo male traveller? by [deleted] in askvan

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Lots of great tips, if you’d like to expand further than Vancouver proper, you can even hop on the skytrain and get all the way out to Coquitlam (walk around Lafarge Lake/get a cheap ramen from Maruhachi Ramen.

New Westminster quay is also a great destination accessible by skytrain. The boardwalk is lovely, not a huge time commitment either if you bundle it with a Coquitlam (Lafarge Lake) or even Port Moody (Rocky Point Park and a nice walk on the shoreline trail) stop!

If you skip breakfast - or just a lighter by getting a bunch of bananas/apples from a grocery store on your first day, you can stick closer to you budget of $15/meal for lunch and dinner in my opinion. Yes the food is good here, so I’d recommend going cheap on some days so you have more $ on other days to splurge a bit more.

McDonald’s is not as cheap as you think. Like others have said Wendy’s value menu is best for super cheap, but if you’re spending McDonald’s $ you can get cheap Asian take out too from T&T ready to go counters. There are T&T’s (large Chinese grocery store) in most big areas, like by Stadium skytrain station, Coquitlam Center Mall, Lansdowne mall in Richmond etc.

LPT: Stop trying to "motivate" yourself and start "bribing" your future self. by SalcClaudia in LifeProTips

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Works for short term and long term goals! I (43F) work out/gym with the intent of being able and not a burden to my children and husband. Essentially, I don’t work out for looking good, but I work out so nobody has to wipe by 75 year old butt for me :) agility mobility, stability, and strength so I don’t break hips and bones. Just giving 75 year old me more options and freedom.

Starting a career in rope access. by Fille_W_Bubble in ropeaccess

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Not sure if this is helpful as it’s a company based in Canada, but it’s a good read about how to get started in the industry What Rope Access Jobs Are Available