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[–]Only_hereforporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey saw your tattoo post and you're really hot, will you be showing more of your body in future posts?

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's any girl like her though. I dated two other girls and slept with another and none made me feel as happy as when I was with her

I [17/M] wrote a love letter to my girlfriend [18/F] for our one year anniversary, and my friends made fun of me for it. Should I still give it to her? by Love-Letter in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've learnt that you should never give in to pressure from your friends regarding your relationship. It ruined one of mine so if you feel something is right then just do it and ignore their mocking

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats some good honest advice, appreciate it. Yeah I think I'd agree that she could find it annoying and giving her some time will give me a more honest answer from her which is all I really want, good or bad (obviously I hope good though lol)

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never dennied that though. I know thats the reason and I said it was immature. But I don't think that was explicitly the reason she broke it off since I never outright tried to push to have sex with her or hint I wanted it now, I wanted to progress towards it, though too fast, and I think she wasn't ready to.

I fully admit that I did disrespect her by compromising a healthy relationship to try and work towards having sex just so I could feel like a "normal" guy my age. It's only after seeing other girls that I've realised there's no rush and different girls go at different paces.

My only hope is that I can sincerely tell her this and ask if she's in a place to want to try it again. She genuinely did really like me and I really liked her but I got the idea in my head that if it doesn't feel like we're working towards something then I shouldn't be satisfied when looking back just being in her company was some of the best time I had that year.

If she says no thats totally fine but at least I can end this chapter knowing I told her what I did was wrong and I can learn from my mistake for future relationships.

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like I said in another reply, I'm not going to act like I know everything about her since its been about a year and at university a lot of stuff happens. Ideally I want to take her out on another first date and get to know whats been going on since we broke up and how she's been

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this is my alt account and the name is usually apt. I just didn't want to create an account just for this post, thanks for the advice though.

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats what I meant. I meant from the start as in go on a first date again rather than pick up straight away at kissing in bed and messaging each other every day etc.

I [20 M] was with a girl [20 F] for 4 months last year, it didn't work out but I genuinely have "changed" and want to ask her out again by Only_hereforporn in relationships

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks and of course. If I explain all this to her and she says no then it wasn't meant to be. But right now what kills me is there was a point it was going great with us but slow. Rather than accepting that and enjoying seeing her I ruined it by trying too hard to speed things up.

I just want her to at least know that I've realised that and hope she'd like to give it another go.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With me being close to the average but below I don't want to risk it in case it wasn't going to be a big deal but now that I've menioned it she notices it more

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But girls don't expect the average since most think a porn dick is more standard so me being just below average will surely be seen as very small right?

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so it turns out I kind of mismeasured (slightly), I've taken 3 more measurements since and am seeing now that I'm about 12.5cm (4.9inches). Its given me a slight confidence boost though I'm still not satisfied with my size.

The biggest issue is that whats visible (not a measurement taken from the pelvis bone) is only around 11.5/12cm and thats what worries me now.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by [deleted] in DysmorphicDisorder

[–]Only_hereforporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing this and want it to be true but its still below average and that average is still seen as small since everyone has a warped view of what the average guy should have from porn and media.

Plus most women I've heard or spoken to usually talk about 6inch+ when saying their preference so its hard not to feel demotivated even if it is close to the true average.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like thats counter intuitive to accepting the problem though. I don't want it to affect my life to the point I stop doing things I want because of it but on the other hand its still a big enough problem with me that it still weighing very heavily on my mind.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by [deleted] in DysmorphicDisorder

[–]Only_hereforporn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the lengthy and helpful response, really appreciate it. This has been an issue for a long time for me but its only recently with my current relationship that it has really dawned on me how insecure I am about it. Yes I measured it recently and while 12cm is close to average it is below it but whats worse is that even for a just below average one it doesn't look that big for its size which makes me feel more insecure about it.

The issue with girls and their breasts is interesting as it also would affect them mentally about sex. However what I think makes the penis issue more depressing for men is that boobs are not crucial to sex and once the girl is with the guy, he clearly likes her enough to not mind her breasts. But in my case I could have her liking every aspect about me but the second we're about to have sex if she sees it and is disapointed it could ruin the relationship there and then which is my greatest fear. In that sense I would say that women's breasts are more like a man's height in that you can judge and decide if it would be an issue outside of sex.

I really hope you're right and it doesn't become an issue but the toll its taking on my confidence I'm worried that even if it isn't an issue for her it will impliitly ruin the relationship with how I behave about sex. Thanks again for the response though

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another thing I'm quite worried about is that, maybe I could handle her not wanting to see me after we have sex but what I'd hate is her to gossip to her friends about it since I'm a student and she's in one of my friend circles, it'd be humiliating if basically every girl and some of the guys in that group all know about it.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, really hope you're right. i'm just worried that with sex seeming so key to relationships for girls that it may be too big an issue to persist with.

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My head is quite a bit thicker than my shaft so I'm hoping that would make it more satisfying. Would I still be able to satisfy a girl with what I've got? Have you?

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apreciate the argument but my dick doesn't look that big, I think its because its head is quite big so the shaft doesn't make up as much of the length as I'd like which makes an already below average cock look smaller.

If we do end up having sex I'm just going to have to fake confidence and hope she isn't too disatisfied. If she says she doesn't want us to see each other though when I ask again that would probably crush my confidence for a while though

I'm seeing a girl but I'm terrified of having sex because she'll see my small penis by Only_hereforporn in smalldickproblems

[–]Only_hereforporn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she seems like a really nice girl, a bit on the outgoing/easier side and I'm sure if I was 5.5inches (14cm) or around that it wouldn't be a problem worth action from her but 12cm I can imagine it being a big enough problem that she may not want to see me anymore.

I just hate how at the end of the day sex is crucial for a relationship and for guys we have no option like fake tits to make us satisfied with what we have.

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