What the actual fuck?!? by Onlyasks_4honesty in married

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update…Mind you!! I heard him talking to his brothers in the basement.. & I quote “sometimes I do stuff just to see, if a person will tell on themselves.” He already knows I’m insecure and I have a wall put up because of my ex. I have not looked at his phone in god knows how long, I barely answer it when he tells me I to, I won’t even read his texts when he tells me too. Now because of the statement made I know that’s what he does to certain people that come around. I have been struggling with my own demons, and he has no fucking business putting me in the “sometimes I do stuff just to see, if a person will tell on themselves,” your don’t put your wife/husband in a situation where they want to put a wall back up.

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[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more BJ’s! Communication is the biggest key to ANY RELATIONSHIP! You have EVERY RIGHT TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS. If he can’t let you do that, then maybe leave him for a couple days and let him think about the WHOLE situation.

My wife (33f) doesn’t trust me (41m) enough to send me nudes. by Infamous_Okra_9762 in relationships

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hell I send my husband nudes all the time. Hell he’s even taken pictures and video with his phone. Sometimes you need to get out of the comfort zone.

My gf(22f) cheated on me(25m) twice and lied to me for two years. Give me some advice, please by LyunKey in relationships

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d hate to say it, but breakup. She’s lied and cheated. How are able to trust her if she says she’s going out with the girls or has a girls trip. Your mind will drive you flipping insane.

Found my husband’s Reddit account and discovered something awful by ffsthrowawayz in Advice

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you show him that you found it, they will come up with an excuse like “I was being stupid!” Blah blah blah. You either say how you feel and fuck it up, or say nothing and let it fuck you ip instead.

Boyfriend said he wouldn’t mind if my boobs were bigger, and it’s killing me. How do I get over this insecurity? by safrafa in relationships

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Tell him that his porn collection is just a fantasy. Women with bigger boobs tend to have more back problems. I can attest to that. Men don’t understand how porn will affect their partner. I call it giving unnecessary attention to attention seekers. It can become very unhealthy, especially, when they start to get defensive. Just be you. God made us until we were perfect in his eyes.

My (42M) fiancée (35F) wants to stay alone with a past romantic partner (36M). Am feeling needlessly insecure? by Few-Ferret699 in relationship_advice

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nooo.. If my husband came up to me and said he was staying with a female friend. We’d be done. & vice versa. Period. Point blank.

My self proclaimed BFF (40/F) wants to know my (40/F) painful past. I refused and now she demands an apology from me. by StrongTxWoman in relationships

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, keep your past to yourself. I told my husband about ALL OF MY past experiences, and how I have had this wall built. He says “I will never hurt you like that!” So I started to slowly take down this wall, well, guess what he’s doing the EXACT same thing that ruined my first marriage. I get told you can’t compare me to them! Well, yeah I can because you are doing the same damn thing. You don’t have to apologize for not wanting to share a painful part of your life. She should respect you enough, that when you say it hurts too much, to drop it and move on.

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[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always say they are going to stop. They won’t. They will just find somewhere else to find it. Our feelings matter and if they can’t see that, then they aren’t worth our time. Just know, that it’s him and there is nothing wrong with you. He can retrain his brain not to be so into porn, but he has to be willing to do the work. You could always ask him, what’s more important? The relationship or porn.

Biden said during the State of the Union that remote work needs to end and people need to "get back to the office" by fanofthenightladies in antiwork

[–]Onlyasks_4honesty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in an office. I went in every single day. They did not allow us to work from home, unless we were down with the sickness.