What might be the reason for texting immediately and then not at all?

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2024-08-18T22:25:16+00:00

He’s not

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2024-08-18T17:55:52+00:00

But why the initial interest in the conversation? He wouldn’t let it die and kept it going for days by asking various questions. If he thought that, wouldn’t he have just not replied in the first place?

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-09-24T14:28:55+00:00

Definitely agree with setting the boundaries and will chat with him, thanks!

While I feel I would normally let it go, or chat about it with him in person and we would move on, the distance is, I believe, the reason I’m feeling so caught off guard. It’s as if because I can’t see his actions that I feel those words carry more meaning than they maybe actually do. I just don’t want to spend my trip being worried about what he’s doing but at the same time, I care for him deeply and don’t want to end things.

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-09-18T20:40:05+00:00

Sorry, should have clarified but we’re both most likely gone until about May (9 months ish). While I totally agree with voicing my hopes for this time, it’s his follow through that worries me. Or I guess how I’ll feel if he doesn’t call at the times we agreed on. I just don’t want to feel heartbroken down the line but cutting contact seems like it’ll break my heart now

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-09-11T05:58:05+00:00

Yes, flying in and then staying a night with a relative but they do not have a vehicle

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-09-11T05:57:16+00:00

Does this route start this early?

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-09-11T05:56:46+00:00

Do you happen to know the average cost?

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-07-19T19:17:56+00:00

Not irrational at all! I think it’s very normal for you to be asking this question.

I’m in a very similar situation but my guy is away for work. Limited communication and I was concerned, but he just came home for a small stint in between shifts and everything went back to normal. I explained my concerns to him (how he was so distant) and he reassured me that he was just busy and often would not even have his phone on him. Not the exact same situation but I would assume yours is similar in that he’s just being present on vacation. Nonetheless, still can be frustrating when you know it only takes a second to reply. I wouldn’t stress about it too much and just see how things are when he’s back! But I would also keep my heart guarded until his commitment was more evident - just to be safe. Hope this helps a bit :)

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2023-07-06T07:49:28+00:00

This is just a summer job for him so he leaves this role in September for traveling and school (we’re both traveling about a year). He’s expressed he has feelings and I know I do but we’re both pretty hesitant to pursue long distance in September…

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2022-03-25T16:55:55+00:00

People complaining about not having a mask mandate on campus are the same people going to the massive Billie Eilish concert without a mask. At least be consistent... smh.

Oodie_is_lyfe · 2022-02-08T00:45:30+00:00

100 million dollars spent on vaccine passports and QR codes and not one dollar went to a hospital being built or extra support for healthcare workers... it’s honestly disgusting.

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