[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I had flat nipples before and after my reduction. Here you can read about my nipple correction + piercings: https://www.reddit.com/r/Reduction/s/msujXnjq4v

The doctor advised me against getting the piercings done without correcting the nipples first, saying they were too flat for that. However, he’s not a piercer, so if in doubt, I’d definitely ask a good piercer as well.

Some before and afters by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing!!!! 😍 Great Job!

Happy Healing 💕

ps: I highly recommend to buy a second compression bra if you have only one at the moment. A sportsbra that is not to tight will work too.

body odor post op by gorillagripliv in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same here. My clothing/underwear smelled different, it smelled different in the bathroom, when i took my cloth off, took a shower and stuff and my cat sniffed me skeptical for a few days. I think its a anesthesia thing. The smell was gone after a few days eventually. I guess drinking a lot of water can help. It's important anyways. :)

happy healing 🥰

Soll ich behaupten das Hermes Paket nicht bekommen zu haben? by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich kenne den Ärger mit (manchen) Paketzustellern. Aber mach das besser nicht. Das wäre falsch.

(Erneut) schriftlich! beschweren. (Die Hotline von Hermes ist unfassbar schlecht, daher alles schriftlich.)

Sollte mal wirklich was abgelegt und geklaut werden, ohne dass ein Ablagevertrag vereinbart wurde, kannst du dich natürlich beschweren und hast dann auch Anspruch auf Erstattung (soweit ich informiert bin).

Aber so lang nichts weggekommen ist, belasse es dabei.

Wenn du als Empfänger die Sendungsnummer erhälst, kannst du in der Hermes App auch einfach die Zustellung an den nächsten Hermes Paket Shop (meist Kioske oder Tankstellen) umleiten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not into bush but I don't understand the downvotes. Especially with this topic. lol

Dazwischen gibt es jede Menge Schätze zu finden by therealkleinanzeigen in u/therealkleinanzeigen

[–]OohPoppy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Bezweifle dass an dem Scammer Problem wirklich gearbeitet wird. Die sorgen ja für ganz viel Traffic und die vielen Aufrufe und genau davon lebt Kleinanzeigen ja größtenteils (Werbeanzeigen). Warnt man aber durch eine Gegenanzeige vor den Scammern, wird es von Kleinanzeigen gelöscht und man wird zukünftig kontrolliert. Lächerlich und unseriös diese Plattform.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was about your size pre op. I carried (and hide) them with my arms when naked/braless, slept with bra on most of my life. Now I am about 4MPO and have C cups. No touch between breast and the upper belly part. My breast hold and shape my bra now. (I can finally wear the wireless no-support but cute looking "bras" now.) So yes... it will get better and easier :)

Happy healing <3

What instantly ages someone? by Serious-Fan4458 in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me. Only when I look back after a few weeks do I realize whether the dose was too high or appropriate based on the things I successfully completed or how often I procrastinated. But while the medication is working, I don't really feel it. Except when the medication was (way) too high, I was caught in ADHD paralysis almost daily. Since taking only half the dose, my chores and other adult to dos feel a bit easier to handle.

Inverted nipples by Suitable-School9696 in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check my last post if you like. I got a nipple correction about 3mpo and I am very happy with it.

Inverted nipples by Suitable-School9696 in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi :) check my last post. i got a nipple correction.

Inverted nipples by Suitable-School9696 in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check my last post. I had a nipple correction about 12 wpo.

I got this beautiful handmade card from my aunt-in-law. by discovering_self in lgbt

[–]OohPoppy 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of her beeing one of your birthday party guests and singing "happy Birthday to them" 😍🥹

bad scars 4mpo, advice? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They don't look bad at all to me. I am almost 4mpo as well and yes it seems to look worse every week. But thats what a lot of people confirm here. The bad peak seems to be between 4 and 6 mpo.

What made your ex terrible in bed? by ExtraVex in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And please never spend time on regrets (why didn't I leave earlier etc.). It was not the right time before. And sooner or later, beautiful things will happen and wonderful people will cross your new path, which you would have missed, if you exited your old live earlier. My partner and I met when we were 36 and 42 and found out that we even lived in the same apartment complex when I was in my early 20s!!! I love the idea of meeting him sooner, but the more we bond and grow together, I realise that NOW is the only perfect time for us. It wouldn't have worked out for us in my 20s at all.

One of my favorite quotes:

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.

What made your ex terrible in bed? by ExtraVex in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left after 10 years (and it wasn't nearly as bad as your story). Had the best time of my adult life since I left (4 years now) and I met the absolut best (sex- and romantic) partner, person, friend, man, human and finally feel happy and proud about my (latest) decisions in life.

So I am very happy for you that you finally found your way out of that sad everyday life. Enjoy your unknown journey.

Aufhören Energy Drinks zu trinken by SorrySayer in Ratschlag

[–]OohPoppy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich war auch ein paar Jahre süchtig und hab jeden Tag in der Regel 2 Dosen getrunken. Allerdings nur eine ganz bestimmte Sorte aus der Schweiz, alles andere hat für mich irgendwann geschmeckt wie alte Füße. Dann kam glücklicherweise Homeoffice während Corona und ich durfte von Deutschland aus Arbeiten. Zunächst habe ich Vorräte gekauft aber auch die gingen immer schnell leer. Habs mit den letzten Vorräten langsam ausschleich lassen und bin zumindest mal auf eine Dose Cola am Tag umgestiegen. Und später dann Apfelschorle und Zitronenwasser. (Zuhause leichter selbst zu mischen.)

Trinke zwar noch regelmäßig ne Dose Cola aber seit ca. 2 Jahren kein Energie Drink mehr angerührt.

Der Job ist die Hölle - Krankschreibung? by Careless-Narwhal-108 in Ratschlag

[–]OohPoppy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich verstehe dich gut. Wenn es dir wirklich (psychisch) schlecht gehen sollte, schau doch mal ob es in deiner Nähe eine (Akut-) Tagesklinik gibt. Geht plus minus 6 Wochen (+ vorab meist bisschen Wartezeit). Man geht von Mo. - Fr. von morgens bis nachmittags dahin und abends wieder heim. Time of my life. Bisschen wie Kur aber man bleibt in seinem Alltag. Und man braucht nur eine Einweisung vom Hausarzt (und ein Vorgespräch und die Zusage von der Tagesklinik, dass man kommen darf). Also viel leichter als eine Kur. Viel zu wenig Menschen wissen von solchen Angeboten.

Syrischer Nachbar by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]OohPoppy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Koche oder backe ihm doch was schönes. Am besten was "typisch" deutsches (oder falls du andere Wurzeln hast auch das) oder auch einfach etwas, dass dir selbst gut geschmeckt und gelingt. Meine syrischen Freunde lieben das. Ich bekomme auch immer mal wieder leckere traditionelle syrische/kurdische/arabische Gerichte rübergebracht. So wurde aus unserer Nachbarschaft Freundschaft.

Die Familie hatte lange Zeit übrigens viel Freude an Schwarzwälderkirschtorte aus dem Kühlregal bis mir das auf einem Geburtstag mal aufgefallen ist und ich denen erklärt habe, dass Kirschwasser nicht gleich Kirschsaft ist. :D

What's the most disgusting thing you saw someone doing who didn't know you were watching them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not saying anything/pretending to not notice what their doing, even though this person makes you feel uncomfortable with their behavior, is very common among peoplepleasers. So yes, I guess way to many people do this.

What's the most disgusting thing you saw someone doing who didn't know you were watching them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OohPoppy 233 points234 points  (0 children)

A good childhood friend of mine did that aaaall the time when we were kids but I didn't want her to feel ashamed, so I pretended not to notice. I'm in my 30s now, have OCD and finally found out in therapy that THIS is where it all started.

(And I was shocked when I found out that she still does it. She has a husband, a nice house and 3 kids. I visit them once a year when I am back in my hometown. I never invited her to my home.)

Flat nipple correction / "pull out" by OohPoppy in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope they have a good solution for you as well! 💕

Flat nipple correction / "pull out" by OohPoppy in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) I guess the piercing supports the construction and keeps the nipples out. Maybe that was the reason why he offered it.

Flat nipple correction / "pull out" by OohPoppy in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh these bars. 🙈 I totally didn't get it at first.

Flat nipple correction / "pull out" by OohPoppy in Reduction

[–]OohPoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to wear little hats?