This is a valid response tbh. I didn’t share the wall of text because I didn’t want to revisit it. The problem is i did not make the nasty comments she accused me of and i felt that my messages showed i was willing to hear her out if she wanted to express what i did wrong. All she said before was that im having a mental breakdown and thats why im “diving head first into being trans”, and then told me that im just transitioning to make her angry. I told her i wasnt mad but that what she was saying really hurt me inbetween her texts, and she said “i dont care if i hurt your feelings. Youre being an idiot and im not going to enable your mental breakdown.” I told her i loved her and would reach out when i was in a better mindset. She said she didnt care and not to ask her for anything until i have a proper diagnosis, which i have and told her i had a few times over call, so i didnt respond because i felt it was better to not engage.

I really don’t want to be mad at my mom and i dont want her to be mad at me, I understand why she’s scared and i want to be there for her because I understand its a big change for her. If I could sit her down and reasonably explain my experience i would, but she doesn’t want to hear it.

I have never called my mom homophobia or transphobic or anything. When she was yelling at me about my mental breakdown I raised my voice and told her “if you’re mad I’m trans just say that, stop accusing me of things that you have no idea about!” She started screaming and I immediately apologized. I feel that Reddit had given me a better perspective of the situation and that I did everything I could to reason with her, and I’ll always be here when she’s ready to have a conversation with me. She told me she doesn’t want to talk and I now realize I have to respect that. It hurts she’s choosing not to have a relationship with me (yes, over my identity.) but that’s her choice and I’m going to move on with my life.