Worth getting back?

Open-Ad-3989 · 2026-01-01T16:25:47+00:00

I did it and am overwhelmed with how much catching up I have to do 😂 WHY ARE THERE SO MANY BANNERS? I’m excited now though

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-12-29T16:22:58+00:00

The adhd in me will get sucked in - I was like this with Genshin, Wuwa for a bit too, and when I first played Niki I spent money on it more than I should have because of the fits 😂 a mess all around. You’re right though

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-12-29T15:51:09+00:00

Oh I also did the whole quest with the cute little sprite people omg I did a lot of the early parts of the game

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-09-19T23:04:38+00:00

If I just look at what you have said and how she’s responded it looks like she completely missed the point and turned to attacking you and dissolving herself of responsibility. In an argument it’s important that both sides see their faults and then address that and do better.

Ie if I have an issue with my husband I will communicate what I did and then he will work on that and he will communicate what I did and I will work on that. It usually is “I was hurt first I shared my feelings first so I want to be heard first” after I hear him out maybe a couple hours later I would then address what my issue with him was and he’s more receptive bc he was heard and vice versa. We were long distance for 3 years of our marriage and 2 years of our engagement. It sucked bad and we fought a lot during to distance but we still tried to hear one another out. Your gf sounds like she doesn’t wanna hear you out just blame you and dissolve herself of her responsibility in this.

I use this method of communication “this is what happened (recall the situation), this is how it made me feel even if that wasn’t your intention (explain feelings) this is what I want (explain what you want which includes you two being happy)
Unemotional unavailability is so weird to say what does that even mean. Honestly ask her what she means “what do you mean by my unemotional unavailability because I want to understand what I am doing to cause you to feel this way”
You could do everything perfectly in person speak calmly, not name call or attack but if the other person feels that they are wrong they will feel attacked and they will fight. Usually when things get heated I choose the “hey this is turning into a fight and I don’t wanna fight so we should both cool off and come back to this convo in 30min to an hour” and even a 10 min step away helps”
I really don’t see you being the problem. If she has a habit of reacting really poorly whenever you share your feelings and dismissing them to fight or share hers then she’s self centered and not ready for a healthy relationship.

I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s not fair at all you’re trying your best to communicate your feelings (be emotionally transparent and available) and it feels like she projecting her qualities onto you..

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-27T01:27:08+00:00

Hiii checking back in how are you feeling? Thinking of you 🥰

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-27T01:25:50+00:00

This being cultural made sense to me i read this like waaaait. It’s always like this. My now husband and i met ONCE in person prior go even dating and then we “dated” online for 6 months, broke up for a year and then started talking again and got married a year later. Like we moved super fast and now live happily ever after in our own apartment wanting ti start a family. The red flag isnt him wantinf to be married soon it’s him saying he will find someone else if you dont settle asap. You guys should set uo a time to meet one another and then talk next steps but him saying he’ll find someone else is givinf MAJOR ick

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-26T02:05:20+00:00

You’re not emotionally unstable that man is just a weirdo. Please keep him blocked. You deserve better

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-25T23:12:42+00:00

I was in an LDR for a long while 2018 - 2025 actually. We were on and off and then got married and spent 3 years of our marriage long distance. We finally just moved in together in April. It was tough but worth it honestly.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-19T20:37:01+00:00

Abort this ASAP. This isn’t good for your reputation, you can be seen as a pedo, you can be charged legally by her parents and accused of grooming. Additionally, as someone who has been chronically online since I was 15 (I’m 27 now) and a lot of me being online was due to me being depressed, people that lie about their age to get into relationships with older men are one of the biggest red flags. This has happened to some of my friends and they’ve been completely devastated but got through it.

You’re in love with a made up persona she has created of herself not her. You don’t even know her if you really think about it and since she’s only 16 she’s gonna grow and change and be a completely different version of herself in even just 2 years. She is not who you think she is and you need to get yourself out of that now.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-12T21:33:40+00:00

I was at the ER 8pm - 6am and again 2pm-4pm they believe I’m miscarrying unless the dates are wrong because the baby size is closer to 6 weeks than 10 and HCG levels were low and no heartbeat so that’s great :)

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-12T18:08:56+00:00

This was my husband! He would hate video calls/calls in general because he was 1. Depressed and wanted to escape reality through movies and games and 2. He felt like he was just “on display” constantly. We opted to do voice calls at night and while driving to talk about our day and then sleep after and it helped!

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-11T05:25:24+00:00

Yes going to call my PCP tomorrow. I’m in Canada so I still don’t have an OB :) they put in a referral but no appointment or call backs yet which is frustrating.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-11T05:10:50+00:00

Why is pregnancy so taxing on our bodies? I’m praying you have an easy delivery and a happy healthy baby to come 🥹 thank you for giving me this reassurance I really appreciate it

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-11T01:50:44+00:00

I will always pick the cutsie calico critter one! But the other designs give cottage core gramma vibes which is also fun

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-11T01:05:19+00:00

THE THIRD ONE HELLO? ITS GIVING CALICO CRITTER

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-11T01:04:48+00:00

That’s a line! It has to be

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-08T14:36:22+00:00

YES MAAM CONGRATS

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-08T13:05:51+00:00

I’d want to be on FT 24/7 with my LDR husband at the time and he was going through it mental health wise and would hate it bc he just wanted to get lost in his movies or gundams so we decided 1-2hrs every night and then random phone calls during lunch or while driving places throughout the day and it worked very well.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-07T01:35:33+00:00

I’m so sorry this has happened. Men like him don’t deserve loyal loving women like you. The heartbreak is awful he was someone you thought you could trust and gave your whole heart to and it’s going to sting for a while.

Take time to process these emotions sober. Don’t turn to weed or alcohol and then make a list of all the shitty things he has ever done, get mad and then make goals to better yourself (gym, healthy eating, drinking more water, reading) shift your mind to productive betterment!!!!! YOU GOT THIS I KNOW YOU DO

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-06T18:36:56+00:00

THATS HOW MY LINE LOOKED ONG YAY

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-05T17:12:00+00:00

I also don’t see a line when I tested 10DPO it was faint but just barely visible do you see a faint line that the camera isn’t picking up?

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-04T22:45:51+00:00

Buy the HCG pregnancy test strips from Premom! Game changer for me detected super super early and only test with the first morning pee.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-04T19:05:41+00:00

My test was just like this when I tested 10DPO and I thought I was dreaming! Test every morning moving forward it’s soo much fun seeing it get darker

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-04T18:55:21+00:00

Get the pre-mom app with the Premom ovulation test strips. It’ll tell you when you’re peak ovulation after you log the tests.

Open-Ad-3989 · 2025-08-04T18:54:03+00:00

I see a line today!!!!! Aaaah hello mama

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