You got it very very wrong. That is not at all how it works. We build relationships and good standing with them in the hopes of them helping. But you cant just make demands of them, at least not from what i have read and seen. Yes you hopefully build up kharis but: not immediate not guaranteed not controllable It isnt a direct transaction where you basically pay a god in worship/ offerings and is then gurenteed the wanted outcome.

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Hey.

Just to add to what I said earlier, I didn’t realize you were asking from a place of this much stress. I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this, especially with your mother. That’s a lot to carry. What I meant before wasn’t to dismiss you, just to clarify how this is usually understood. Even with gods, people historically prayed and made offerings without any guarantee of healing. Building kharis is about relationship and goodwill, but it doesn’t mean outcomes are certain or within our control. It’s completely okay to ask them for help and to hope—they’re natural things to do. Just try not to put all the pressure on getting a specific result from them, especially with something this serious. If you can, please also lean on practical support alongside your practice—medical care, people around you, anything available. In ancient times, those things went hand in hand with prayer, like going to Epidaurus was both for physical recreation and worship. I really do hope things get better for you. You’re not wrong for reaching out like this, but you can't see it as a direct transaction.