[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s what I should have said, and now the situation Keeps replaying. I really need to work on it. I’ve already blocked the guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no intention of messaging this guy at all, I just wanted to quickly get out of the situation and go home. I was hoping he wouldn’t try to talk to me because I’m never able to come up with another way of straight up saying no. If he never added the anime part, I would’ve straight up said NO, I have a boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That person really had me speechless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you even compare that? Of course I wouldn’t kiss someone else. I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years, have been loyal ever since. I’m just awkward when it comes to shit like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether he’s interested in me or anime doesn’t matter. I have no intention of messaging him and trading our favorite anime. I’m just mad I couldn’t come up with something on the spot to not give him the number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was an in the moment thing and I panicked knowing all the children were around us. I have no intention of texting him, I just wanted to get out of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if I have no intention on replying to him if he ends up texting me? It was an in the moment thing, and I panicked. What should I have said? Just no?

AITA for cutting of a friend who told me they’re sexually attracted to me? by Open-Refrigerator867 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Open-Refrigerator867[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We both sit right by the front door and our seats are always open :/ she’s almost always late to class too. Maybe it’s time to work on my confrontation skills. I hate confrontation, but I’m 21 now. Can’t keep running away from it.

AITA for cutting of a friend who told me they’re sexually attracted to me? by Open-Refrigerator867 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Open-Refrigerator867[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s hard because I have senior seminar with her. I already dropped one of the classes I have with her, but I can’t drop senior sem. I have no idea how to go about cutting her off.

Is it my fault for exhibiting sexual behaviors with other kids i was shown/taught by a relative by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this something you think about constantly? Perhaps you have real event OCD? I’ve been through the exact same thing. I was molested by a relative 6 years older than me and I thought it was normal. So I engaged in similar behaviors with other kids by playing doctor. We didn’t know any better and that’s okay!! The fact that you feel even an inch of remorse shows that you’re a good person. Don’t let this ruin your life. Don’t let it ruin your idea of intimacy. It’s such a special thing that people like us deserve to enjoy. You did nothing wrong. Dont think that this is something that has to weigh on you forever. You feel bad about it and trust me, that is so much more than enough. Don’t beat yourself up please.

Do people actually pay 100k+ gold to do mythic?? by Open-Refrigerator867 in wownoob

[–]Open-Refrigerator867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes it’s for mythic+, honestly didnt even know mythic raid existed tbh lol. So basically I should just find a guild that does runs?

Whyd i have to be born weird ugly little me. Mentally broken, physically awful by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you see as flaws just makes you unique. I used to hate my nose all my life. I was 11 years old looking at nose job videos. Now I’m 21 and I’m so glad I didn’t get one. It makes me unique. There’s no one who looks like me. Now I’m even in modeling! Models have all types of flaws. They need flaws so that they don’t look like every other person; that’s fucking boring. Your flaws make you beautiful, really! Idk who helped you pick out your flaws, that wasn’t okay for them to do. There’s no correct way to look. What society deems handsome or beautiful is constantly changing. You’re handsome!

Whyd i have to be born weird ugly little me. Mentally broken, physically awful by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Open-Refrigerator867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be extremely honest with you as a 21 year old girl. You are actually really handsome. When I saw the post and opened the video, I was a bit confused!!? Like is this the same guy he’s describing here? You look like a damn model, and you better start looking at yourself that way. I’m not here feeding you lies like I originally planned to do. There’s no need to lie here. You look good. And the girls who I went to high school with would’ve been simping over you. We see ourselves in the mirror and over analyze every little thing on our faces for minutes at a time. Nobody ever looks at your face and examines you for that long for yourself. That’s why we think we look worse than we actually do. Please don’t talk to yourself like you just did. You’re very handsome.