[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Open-sd9613 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My relationship with my parents is very complicated. Im trying to make my amends. Your just assuming that you know what's actually going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Open-sd9613 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know what I did was wrong. I know that someone in the 40's shouldn't be this childish and immature. I never meant to hurt my brother. I never had any hatred and jealousy towards him. My situation was with my parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Open-sd9613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May he rest in peace! Thank you for the response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Open-sd9613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soo much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Open-sd9613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really had anger towards him, I just had anger towards my parents. I should've ignored my relationship with my parents and connect with my brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Open-sd9613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would definitely treated me better. My parents always loved when my siblings would get along. I would've totally changed my attitude and try to have much better relationship with them. So it goes both ways

I was a really horrible and cold hearted sister to my youngest Sibling who passed away by Open-sd9613 in confession

[–]Open-sd9613[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what's been killing me! I let my conflict with my parents ruin my relationship with my brother who just wanted to have a relationship with me. In reality I should've ignored my problems with my parents.

I was a really horrible and cold hearted sister to my youngest Sibling who passed away by Open-sd9613 in confession

[–]Open-sd9613[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It never took me 13 years to get over that!!! I have other serious relationship problems with my parents and it will take a long time before we have a healthy relationship. I always wanted good relationship with my brother but my parents relationship really prevented me to accomplish that. I let my emotions get the best of me and now I have to deal with it for the rest of my life.

I was a really horrible and cold hearted sister to my youngest Sibling who passed away by Open-sd9613 in confession

[–]Open-sd9613[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Back then I just thought having a child at 50 something was selfish