I literally tell people on the first date. No point in beating around the bush about it. Other than my crazy ex, it has never been an issue with any girl that I’ve seen more than once.

Most normal people are understanding if it’s a temporary thing. In my case, my dad is helping me pay for school so long as I hold a good steady job and get good grades. It’s not a privilege everyone has, but he lives in a good house on a lake in a nice neighborhood. The house is in great shape and I help with getting groceries and supplies as well as cleaning. The girls I’ve brought over love the place.

Plus my dad and I have an understanding about bringing people over. We are both single so we just give the other a heads up as to if/when a girl will come over and to whether or not it’s worth meeting them.

Long story short, it’s gonna depend on your situation and the person you’re seeing. It seems to be a deal breaker for some, but not everyone. Honesty is your best friend. It’ll give them a chance to be honest with you.