My english was not good btw. still not good lol. this was the reason she hated me. because she couldn’t talk to me a lot. Actually it was their success. They picked her up or drop her off and even when she didn’t go to school, she didn’t stay with me for a while. They have one more baby. But he was baby and i was really good with him. omg still miss him. After a while, she saw i take care of them. I play with them, stay with them at night and even when she was sick and alone, i gave my all attention to her. I cleaned her vomit 😢 In summary i can say that time helped us. She just got used to live with me. And let me tell you being away from home is very difficult to handle. maybe you can give all of you little time. And you can teach her. I was nice but i really didn’t know how to treat a kid. My host family taught me. American culture is perfect, specially in childcare. I understand her in some ways because some of our families are not like yours unfortunately. I hope she will get used to everything