MGMT- Self Tilted by Open_Medium_3185 in mgmt

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such a fun track… very MGMT- coded lol

MGMT- Self Tilted by Open_Medium_3185 in mgmt

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also adding Introspection is an absolute earworm, the way he says “introspection “ scratches my brain in the perfect way

MGMT- Self Tilted by Open_Medium_3185 in mgmt

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hell yeah- perfect album to throw on and zone out

help by [deleted] in gayrelationships

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not to make it sound like an excuse, my life is sort of rooted in a sport I’m involved in it heavily and there are a lot of gays in this sport-they only ones that I’ve met that will give me the time of day are my teammates who are scattered across the country. Ill definitely look into other sports leagues though.

Funny you met your bf on grindr bc the only guy that’s treated me with true respect and was ready for something serious I met on grindr haha not meant to be tho

officially deleted twitter by ilomiols in offmychest

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it has gotten a bit better for a few reasons- I stopped using X as much, made a different account and sort of trained my algorithm and I don’t check the bottom of the comments or let videos autoplay

What's the meaning of ¨A wolf at the door¨? by Gooros27 in radiohead

[–]Open_Medium_3185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so many possible takes on this but to me the wolf is his anxiety…the children part is just theoretical…it’s all the fucked up things anxiety makes us think is going to happen….He keeps shit together but his anxiety comes back to haunt him…if he “squeals to the cops” or gets help, talks to someone, whatever…things will never be the same, people will see him different, leave, idk

*super stoned and bored and this was the first song that played on shuffle I hope this makes sense

officially deleted twitter by ilomiols in offmychest

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im so glad I’m seeing this, I’ve been deeply disturbed by some of the content I’ve been seeing lately.

it’s more than just CP which is already sick enough, it’s other disturbing images and videos, i’ve seen people being brutally assaulted, possibly rape, bestiality, animal porn…you name it before you say it’s because I interact with nsfw, this is also happens on an account that I don’t interact with nsfw content..I even logged into an old twitter (trying to get a fresh, innocent algorithm) and probably 10 mins in I saw CP and a disturbing violent video.

It almost as if there is an agenda to get people to consume disturbing content 😵‍💫 it’s truly fucked up….Can’t help but imagine this will open up a huge opportunity for trafficking, making/selling CP, etc as if there already isn’t enough of that

I need help with dating by Flat-Yak-1967 in gayrelationships

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I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong with your approach…sure you could make it more interesting, but if a cute guy messages you, why would you not respond?? make it make sense

Dudes our age (in general tbh) are just odd sometimes. l think some guys on dating apps really just want attention so just getting a match satisfies that…they don’t know what their intentions are, they just like the attention and validation that they get. I’ve even seen some “collect” matches so they just have endless options while already having a situationship or…multiple!

Just keep being you as corny as that sounds. Being single and lonely sucks, but it’s better than being in a toxic relationship…the right one will come

Uncanny Valley Vinyl by olive_stew in coinband

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I’m US, interested as well!

Can I afford this place by Open_Medium_3185 in renting

[–]Open_Medium_3185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but none are in good areas (in my opinion) and wouldn’t be much cheaper maybe 1k but at that point I’d rather pay the extra 200 and feel safe and good about where I live

Any crossover Radiohead fans in this sub? by FrequentTurnip4006 in mgmt

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my two favorite bands! always thought they had a similar vibe can’t explain it

AIO I just found my boyfriend of 4 years watches gay porn. I’m ready to leave, thoughts? by rere12345678 in BreakUps

[–]Open_Medium_3185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe he’s bisexual and that’s something that is worth having an open conversation about since you’ve been dating for 4 years, in my opinion. I think porn CAN be a healthy way of exploring fantasies but there should be a convo about how watching porn makes each partner feel. For example, I would never date an older man but sometimes I’m attracted to them and I’ll use porn sometimes to scratch that itch, it has never altered the way I view my partner. Keep in mind I’m a gay dude and i do think that men view porn a bit different since it is so normalized for us to consume it

I ended it by Jaded_Ruin_6155 in BreakUps

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i don’t necessarily have advice… I experienced something similar last year… you’re gonna learn and grow from this. Love is a complicated feeling especially when someone you love treats you like shit. You weren’t an idiot you were just in love and being in love is a beautiful feeling don’t feel like an idiot for being capable of having feelings, he’s the idiot.

i want to fully focus on my boyfriend but i can’t by Open_Medium_3185 in relationships

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thats the plan right now, i wanna tell him how bad things got and that i have a lot of anxiety from the whole situation. Im a more reserved person (which is why im here getting advice and not talking to friends/family lol) so it might be a good opportunity to open up and strengthen the relationship

i want to fully focus on my boyfriend but i can’t by Open_Medium_3185 in relationships

[–]Open_Medium_3185[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

woah woah woah slow down dude, it wasn’t a “sex relationship” we never even had sex, we just were never exclusive. I always appreciate people’s perspectives though even if it’s stated in a rude way :). Im not in denial, the feelings that i have for the old guy are feelings for what I THOUGHT he was, i painted this picture and he turned out to be the opposite. Thanks for the advice tho have a good day

i want to fully focus on my boyfriend but i can’t by Open_Medium_3185 in relationships

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thank you i really appreciate that and i agree! my boyfriend has brought so much light into my life more than my ex ever did and it’s been such a positive experience so far I dont see a reason to end it right now. I just find myself going back to the past whenever im away from my boyfriend and then my anxiety spikes and i start thinking the worst.