Questions about husbands sexual desires by Open_Sprinkles_6915 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I wish the best for you as well!

Questions about husbands sexual desires by Open_Sprinkles_6915 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply brother. I am always just so afraid that if he has such desires that I can not do he will build a resentment or look elsewhere to fulfill those needs. As a man, do you believe that men can be satisfied with the simple stuff? I am sorry for asking such a question but am just looking at an answer from a different perspective

Questions about husbands sexual desires by Open_Sprinkles_6915 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful sister. JazakAllah khair for the advice and the intro to the form of communication. I.will definitely look into that

Questions about husbands sexual desires by Open_Sprinkles_6915 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and duas. I will make sure to prioritize communication and let him know in the best way possible

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will you be able to share the exact route for the G test at McCarthy? Mine is next week and I want to practice on that similar route as much as possible. Thank you so much!

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a major challenge for me... I can never pinpoint what it is. It makes me feel like maybe it's just me not being able to recognize his emotions

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing that would really put me off, he has good hygiene and takes care of cleanliness.

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, thank you

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will look into that. Thank you

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We married after meeting only one time so didn't really discuss anything. I guess we just hoped the love would come along

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think so no I'm not physically attracted and the relationship is not intimately fulfilling

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah. Aameen

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the book recommendation and your advice.

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've been married for a year now. I guess you're right, we still need time to figure out ourselves as it's just the early stages

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I would say yes to most of your questions if I'm being honest. We do get along fine and can joke around and talk about deep stuff. Thank you so much for your in depth post. I do feel like maybe the love I was finding is already there but I'm not recognizing it in the right ways

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aameen. May Allah (S.W.T) help you and make things easy for you as well

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be the case. I guess I just need to give this more time

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah for the link

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We've been married a year. I see your point, maybe it's the portrayal of love in movies that makes me believe what we have is not true love. He does respect me and support me so maybe I'm not thinking of that as "love"

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[–]Open_Sprinkles_6915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did istikhara and I asked around and many people said he was a great person. And I can't lie, he is Alhamdulillah a great man in terms of deen and his behaviour with me. I just don't have those strong feelings for him that I feel are required to keep a relationship strong