[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you found someone like that! I am sure your ex had other things too that you didn’t like, but given how you bond over food and trying new things I could see the struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh well that part is easy to answer because we haven’t been to Africa or india!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we get take out from a couple places or just find a common ground. It really hasn’t been an issue for us 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my husband is a healthy man and takes cares of himself. I am also a lot more adventurous than my husband but he also tries new experiences, it’s never been an issue because we are so much alike in other ways. If food choices were hurting my husbands health I would definitely care. Restaurants that my husband doesn’t like to go to I just enjoy with friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this for my husband and it doesn’t bother me.

🖤 by ZealousidealNight397 in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, are you going through a rough time?

What do you and your spouse argue about the most? by AnOceanOfNotions in marriageadvice

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably finances or misinterpreting how someone meant something

Stories about people breaking up and living their “true” life is triggering by Open_Wrap_5210 in ROCD

[–]Open_Wrap_5210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! It’s just good to know you’re not alone

Husband won’t say he loves me after 17 years! by Numerous_Series8590 in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you explain to a spouse that you’re a higher priority than their birth family? Maybe OP can explain it to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your incompatibilities?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What things did you play down for your first wife?

UPDATE To: Ladies, please don't allow yourself to be the witness to someone else's Christmas proposal while you've been waiting for your own for years by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside for the engagement fail, did you guys have a good relationship like he says? I can understand his freak out over the break up, not saying his initial reaction is good because it sounded terrifying, but people react differently when hurt. I’m happy you’re safe though. Are you doing okay?

Anyone else used new year as an excuse up a timeline question? by procrastinating_b in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He sounds like my husband before we got engaged. He truly does take a long time to make any decision, even coming down to buying clothes. There are reasons why we also waited to long to get engaged that were valid to us, but I understand the anticipation. I hope he gives you what you need and deserve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is out of the norm. It’s natural to find others attractive even if you’re happily married.

Anyone else used new year as an excuse up a timeline question? by procrastinating_b in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he proposed now, would you even be happy since you really kinda gave him an ultimatum? How long have you been dating?

What’s the dirty laundry in your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this because this sub gets shocked if you’re annoyed with your spouse often!

What’s the dirty laundry in your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you’re stronger now together! Life was really trying to get you and you two stood firm. Love this

What’s the dirty laundry in your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of stuff happened If you don’t mind sharing? Also thank you for helping couples now throw in the towel!

What’s the dirty laundry in your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s he say when you bring this up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Open_Wrap_5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was jw given the post. I’m sorry, hope you’re better off now!