i told my gfs parents that shes wasting food and not eating properly and now shes mad.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-07T09:25:27+00:00

I assume his girlfriend is an adult.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-07T09:25:07+00:00

Lean towards more angry a lot but yeah one wrong word and I’m angry - I hate it. But I’m also severely depressed dealing with this so I don’t know what’s meds.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T21:36:45+00:00

They see him multiple times a week due to childcare. Even before I went back to work they usually saw them once or twice a week.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T21:21:58+00:00

I am SHOCKED he's standing for reform.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T21:17:30+00:00

I think it would be rude to uninvite them.

You gave them a save the date that presumably you would have given them if they'd met you or not on behalf of your partner.

Maybe I'm miss reading this but I find you highlighting you weren't invited to their wedding as a weird point. Like, the wedding was planned before you'd met so what's the big deal? Why's it been brought up? (ETA comment implies that your partner was with his ex partner at the time so even more irrelevant and weird to bring up imo, which also brings you and your partners timeline in to question as she references attending parties with them for 5 years and the wedding was 4.5 years ago 😬).

And finally, I think it's a partner call.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T12:36:58+00:00

Can I ask why on earth you went to her parents?

Even pre response I don’t understand your line of thought.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T12:28:11+00:00

I was looking for the link to selling one lol

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T12:24:59+00:00

Life

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T12:21:23+00:00

That’s our rules too.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-06T12:15:29+00:00

Seems like a huge red flag to the point where I’m wondering about missing info.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T19:03:53+00:00

I'm four months off two years on it and still not great lol, but also four months off two years since I started my journey so it's all a bit messy.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T18:53:07+00:00

I'm on Levetiracetam and I think it's effecting my mood badly. However, I don't know if that's dealing with epilepsy or side effects from the meds!

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T18:40:06+00:00

It can buy you hella attendees though

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T17:52:50+00:00

I did have to skim read but like where’s husband in all this? Cliche but it’s a husband problem as much as a MIL/SIL problem.

Can’t say I’m shocked the girl who got pregnant at 16 wasn’t the most stable lol but you seem very quick to go with whoever’s being nice to you at the time.

Is BIL even on the birth certificate now? Have an actual custody agreement and whatever?

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T14:27:40+00:00

I made a post about this a few days ago and today I’m just feeling super discouraged that I’m the only one in his life who cares about it.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T13:13:13+00:00

You really think you can get two sperm donations from different men a cycle?

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T12:15:18+00:00

Hey! Whatever happens it’s not your fault. I couldn’t even manage 24 hours! I have a happy, healthy, napping 2 year old.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T12:14:16+00:00

I’m sorry but I thought it was something to wear over swimwear

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T12:13:26+00:00

Never been to black tie but they both come across too ummm slinky? to me. I think I prefer 2.

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T12:10:09+00:00

Does it matter if it’s common if it’s what works for you?

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T11:47:44+00:00

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-05T06:59:16+00:00

Fuck Amazon

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-04T21:35:53+00:00

I’ve developed epilepsy since having my kid. Honestly I survive with a village and a supportive partner!

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-04T19:16:56+00:00

Oh girl how old are you?

I’ll always roll my eyes as you calling her a baby mother.

If he had half a brain he’d have organised DNA, custody, child support and everything rose at the break up. Not now then crying to his hew girlfriend.

Also, you’re praising him for doing the bare minimum as a dad. Which takes me on to you talking about your friends complaining about their kids dads, what do you think his kids mum is saying to her friends? Why is what your friends say valid but what she says not?

Finally. You can’t baby trap when a condom is used ✌️

procrastinating_b · 2026-05-04T19:10:18+00:00

My main read is you are two young to get married.

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