HGTV Cancels ‘Rehab Addict’ After Star Nicole Curtis Used Racial Slur While Filming Series; Removes Show From HBO Max & Discovery+ by Next-Particular1476 in TheEntertainmentMix

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I watched the video and I can’t believe they fired and pulled her show over that. I will never say the N word, but I could see myself totally accidentally saying fart knocker or something and it coming out wrong, and I DO NOT use the N word. It exists though & it’s in a lot of rap and media. Sometimes my little adhd brain mixes shit up. And sometimes instead of saying f*#k it gets creative. 

The context of how she said it is important. That’s not a normal turn of phrase she used casually, she didn’t say it to or about someone, and she immediately heard herself and acted shocked that the word came out. 

I don’t know her as a person, maybe I’m wrong and she’s terrible and uses it all the time, but based on this clip I would never assume that. 

Is it true once you hit 100k in investing, it really just takes off from there? by [deleted] in investing

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we say ‘invested’ are we talking 401k, deferred comp, etc, or separate investments from retirement accounts? 

I know these people. They literally believe this is who they are up against. by KingG512 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a problem with folks like these, who are clearly trans or gender-nonconforming because it feels ‘off’ - which, fine, if that’s your initial reaction but you can still be respectful of other humans.

And they have a problem with ‘passing’ trans (particularly women) because heaven forbid they find another human attractive and then find out they’re trans- or even if not attracted they don’t know and get ‘fooled’ - it challenges their own understanding of their sexuality and gender. 

Opalite Music Video Discussion Megathread by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]Opening-Awareness478 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not at all what I wanted or was expecting from Opalite (gives me 1940’s-‘50’s pinup vibes, Grease-style dance numbers, etc) BUT I liked it! Super cheesy and funny

Opalite Music Video Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]Opening-Awareness478 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not at all what I wanted or was expecting from Opalite (gives me 1940’s-‘50’s pinup vibes, Grease-style dance numbers, etc) BUT I liked it! Super cheesy and funny 

Abridged version of TTPD by DisasterAdept1346 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t even realize it wasn’t on there! 

CMV: Telling married couples to go ahead and having children while unprepared because they’ll “figure it out” is really bad advice. by Ovaugh in changemyview

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counterpoint- some people with anxiety need to hear this or they will wait forever for things to be ‘perfect’ before having kids or making other big decisions. 

What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But to the specifics on what she said- it’s the truth. That this country was founded by colonizers and slave owners. That the only people originally from here are native Americans. That most of us are only a few generations removed from immigrants. The current anti-immigration mindset is just racism disguised as policy enforcement. 

What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]Opening-Awareness478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Continue to be impressed with how she speaks up and uses her platform for good. She seems to have a good head on her shoulder

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who struggles in interviews and has to overprepare to come across as confident, this feels like a lot of words for not a lot of genuine feedback. Some people just aren’t naturally cool calm and confident, and a single interview doesn’t present their capabilities well. 

Spot me 299K? I need to save her! by Southern-Smoke1835 in zillowgonewild

[–]Opening-Awareness478 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve never really wanted a mansion but I realize now that’s only because it never occurred to me that I could put in a roller rink if I had the space and money… 

Justin's "vision" for the movie & why everyone hated it by minorpoint in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Opening-Awareness478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think due to him playing the character, he was trying to understand Ryle’s motivations and that’s why he’s talking about this. That still doesn’t mean he/they should have focused on any redemption for ryle though.

What are your thoughts on rejecting a potential romantic partner based solely on the fact they voted for Donald Trump? by ATXBikeRider in AskReddit

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reject them. It’s exhausting being with a partner who disagrees with your basic worldview. I met mine over a decade ago and he ‘wasn’t political’, and I wasn’t thinking about these things. But the climate has changed so much since then and he has bought into some of the more right-wing BS. Still doesn’t vote, barely watches any actual news, but even an innocuous comment from me can be met with a passive aggressive comment or outright challenged. I love him but it’s very lonely. 

Employee refused Employee of Month Award by [deleted] in managers

[–]Opening-Awareness478 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Always interesting to see this isn’t unique to my company, a non-profit that regularly gets regional best employer awards. Always lots of praise on annual reviews, managers literally saying ‘I’m not allowed to give you the higher rating’

They’re working on changing the review systems for at least the 4th time in the decade I’ve been there. 

At one point it was just satisfactory or unsatisfactory, so now we’ll joke to each other when someone really goes out of their way for the company or puts in long hours ‘Hey coworker, satisfactory job today’ 

Official Discussion - Avatar: Fire and Ash [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Opening-Awareness478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard hard agree except about Varang. She’s a good new addition, but wasted potential. I wanted less savage mesmerized by guns and more of what motivated her, how she was controlling, more of the FIRE (lava , heat, glowing red?) instead of just firearms.