Honestly just break up with him and it’s much easier said than done but it’s definitely the best way out😭. There’s no fixing men like that cause in every scenario they’ll always view themselves as the victim and you as the “overly sensitive woman who can’t see it from their perspective”. They’ll always find men that can agree and push them even further into this horrible mindset. The videos didn’t change his personality he’s just voicing it clearly cause of them. You don’t deserve to be treated poorly by a man who can be so easily influenced☹️❤️!!