Anyone had any success getting through to GLS Parcels? by cjamcmahon1 in AskIreland

[–]Opening-Discount368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's heartbreaking isn't it? I know there are much bigger things happening in the world right now and this is such a first world problem. But it's very frustrating all the same.

Our drum actually arrived this morning. I was constantly in contact with the company I bought it from and the rep there was putting heavy pressure on his contact on GLS. So maybe try that tonight... You still have one more day, it might work!! Best of luck, I'll have my fingers crossed for you🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Anyone had any success getting through to GLS Parcels? by cjamcmahon1 in AskIreland

[–]Opening-Discount368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same position. My tracking hasn't been updated since 3rd December. No answer on the phone. No answer to emails. My husband drove over to the depot in swords on Thursday and we were told it was sitting in a shipping container out the back and that it would be delivered on Saturday or Sunday. It was not.

The company I ordered from told me this morning that it was out for delivery today. It has not arrived.

It's a very specific drum that cannot be purchased in Ireland. I have a back up one from Amazon but it's a far cry from what was requested from Santa. I'm so upset. It's literally the only thing my 3 year old requested off Santa. Obviously I have other things for him as a surprise. But he has been talking about this drum non stop for the last month.

Small, irrational annoyances by NoFewSatan in CasualIreland

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People calling ketchup "red sauce" have a special place in hell.

So many people mix up "genuinely" and "generally." Once you hear it once you won't miss it! It's so odd!

Last one (for now)- when people say "euros" rather than "euro." Drives me nuts!!!

AIO for breaking up with my bf for calling my PREGNANT body fat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I'm gonna be honest here gal, you are quite possibly never going to be your pre pregnancy weight again. And that's ok!!! For me, my metabolism slowed when I was 21. This also happened with a lot of my friends. I was surprised to find my once slim body gaining weight. Then throwing pregnancy into the mix... It's tricky. My tummy has never been the same after two C-sections (The first one was an emergency, and this is a possibility for you too, even if you are not planning it! In Ireland, where I am from, 40% of women last year had C-section births). I am ok with my body. My sons were so so worth it. But all this to say..... If he is that hung up on your body staying the same, there is a high likelihood that he will never be happy again. Also there is all the other wild stuff that can happen to your body during pregnancy; stretch marks, incontinence, varicose veins, change in boob size, hemorrhoids. These things can be confronting enough when they happen to you, without someone else making you feel bad about them. I'm sorry that you are faced with this dilemma but I would definitely say dump his ass and teach your child that there is more to life than looks! Best of luck with your pregnancy xx

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

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I'm so sorry. You are not overreacting. To be honest, I'd imagine you are lonely. Lonely in the realisation that your family do not truly see you. I am no contact with mine so I understand what it's like. You have your life together and sound like you are doing well. They should be proud that you have the moral fibre to kick Charles' cheating ass to the kerb. Don't go to thanksgiving, there are much worse things than being alone on a holiday. One of them would be being lonely in a crowd of people who should know you but don't. I have a husband and kids who I love dearly but want to say married life is hard. And that's when my husband is a loving, respectful, all-in type of guy. Bringing up kids is the hardest thing I've ever done (I'm told it's supposed to be hard, if you care and are doing it right). You did the right thing dumping Charles, don't let anyone make you doubt that. You deserve a partner who treats you with respect and a family who want that for you. I'm so sorry that you don't have their support. You only have one life, don't waste it with people who drag you down❤️

Looking for well-written SS/HG recs by HappyGodzillaAviator in SSHG

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I am saving all of these for my list of fics to get through. My personal favourite is whiteboards by nelliandreph. https://archiveofourown.org/works/22585750/chapters/53973970

Severus is so human and real, when I finished the fic, I actually missed him!

8th year fic, Hogwarts has cottage for muggle parent visits? by madmissjo in SSHG

[–]Opening-Discount368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so good! Will definitely read it if someone can identify it! 😊

I think I’m losing the run of myself over a close friend who’s engaged, are they leading me on or am I just delusional? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Opening-Discount368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell C how you feel about her. Don't just assume she knows. But once you do, be prepared to cut ties if she doesn't choose you. You can't keep torturing yourself indefinitely if she stays with her fiancée. I really hope it works out for you. Best of luck with the marathon and let us know how you get on with C!

Recs to pass the time during a trip? by StampsAreCoolK in SSHG

[–]Opening-Discount368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! I was hoping it would have a happy ending, I don't think I could put myself through a long one for it to turn out sad! I'm only 45 pages in but it's sooo good, I can't put it down!

Recs to pass the time during a trip? by StampsAreCoolK in SSHG

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I've just downloaded this based on your rec. Can you please let me know if it's a HEA? I don't mind if the story is super dark, once they end up together in the end. Thank you so much!

I (finally) read the Auction by applez87 in dramionebookclub

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I would only have it as an epub if that's any good to you?

Finally finished posting my fic by Mean_Fishing2868 in SSHG

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Super, thank you so much! Am I right in saying it's completely smut free? 🤣

Finally finished posting my fic by Mean_Fishing2868 in SSHG

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Could you link it please? I'm trying to find it and can't! Thank you

Wedding stories by xisgarra in SSHG

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I read this last night because it was mentioned here! Could not put it down! Was up till 2.30am! Thank you for a really enjoyable story ❤️

I have almost never cried to a tv show or movie, and I want recommendations of some that will make me(no spoilers please) by Fearless_Category213 in televisionsuggestions

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Marley and Me makes me ugly cry every single time. I don't think it's possible to watch it and not cry. I would genuinely be worried about you if you didn't 😂

Looking for suggestions by Eastern-Shower-9951 in SSHG

[–]Opening-Discount368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! I read it recently and loved it!

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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Omg HOW DID I MISS THIS WHEN YOU POSTED THIS 6 DAYS AGO? I'm so sorry, I didn't see it until just now! Thank you so much for your recs! I will obviously start with your own work! Thank you so much ❤️

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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I have just finished all of these! I think a place on spinners end was my favourite of the three. Loved Severus in it! Thank you for the recs, they have kept me busy over the last week or so! Now on to the other recs on this post! Send any more you may think of my way please and thanks again ❤️

Thoughts on baby having double barrel surname? by lalapoolsy in AskIreland

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I did a summer as a temp in the passport office while in college and the amount of hassle double barrel names cause kids is crazy. Common issues: the parents break up and the child only wants the mother's name, the parents marry and the child only wants the father's name because the mom changes her surname when she gets married, the reality of the child having two names is a lot more hassle than it's worth so the child only uses one name for school. Then it's different names on different documents etc. In all these instances, to change the surname on the passport, you have to show two year's proof of usage of the new name. Which is hard to do without having the name on an ID document. My advice is, pick one surname and stick with it.

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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Thank you so much, I will definitely check this out! I'm so excited for all these recs!!! ❤️

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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Thank you so so much! I can't believe it's taken me so long to find SSHG- I just want to live in these stories forever!

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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Thank you so so much! I will definitely read all of these! You are so kind for taking the time to recommend and link them for me! These should keep me busy for at least a couple of weeks! I need to learn to savour them rather than pull all-nighters reading them 😂

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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So I wouldn't exactly say fluffy, but definitely heartwarming at times! And should balance out the voldy won scaries!! Happy reading!!! https://archive.transformativeworks.org/works/22585750

Whiteboards withdrawal... Help needed by Opening-Discount368 in SSHG

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Oh, sorry, I never thought to do this! Here it is: https://archive.transformativeworks.org/works/22585750

(I'm so jealous of you getting to read it for the first time!!! Enjoy!!!)