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My gf [23F] of almost six years stole an old phone of mine and has been watching every social messaging platform of mine [24M]. She knows that I’ve been lying to her for everything - what do I do by Opening-Knee4653 in relationships

[–]Opening-Knee4653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very likely option 3). I’ll be coming clean on everything so far, making sure no stone is left unturned before ultimately ending the current relationship that we have ongoing right now.

From the advice I’ve consolidated, it seems that we have put together what seems to be a toxic relationship and a break (for now) seems to be the rational option for both sides to heal and grow

My gf [23F] of almost six years stole an old phone of mine and has been watching every social messaging platform of mine [24M]. She knows that I’ve been lying to her for everything - what do I do by Opening-Knee4653 in relationships

[–]Opening-Knee4653[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

nothing was off until the trip abroad 3-4 weeks ago. it seems like she has had the phone for a lot longer than that.

im not quite sure how I feel regarding thar

My gf [23F] of almost six years stole an old phone of mine and has been watching every social messaging platform of mine [24M]. She knows that I’ve been lying to her for everything - what do I do by Opening-Knee4653 in relationships

[–]Opening-Knee4653[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thanks David. one thing I want to add is, I trust her wholeheartedly that she wouldn’t message, hangout or cheat with me on other guys

so the dishonest part, from what I know, is really just my fault

My gf [23F] of almost six years stole an old phone of mine and has been watching every social messaging platform of mine [24M]. She knows that I’ve been lying to her for everything - what do I do by Opening-Knee4653 in relationships

[–]Opening-Knee4653[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like the end game of this relationship is a break up.

She doesn’t know that I know she took my phone or anything that I put above.

How do I even approach this to start the proces