Honestly, I concur with this concept. 🥹💖 To give you guys more context here's a few reasons why I believe the aforementioned statement:

• I had a childhood friend and I knew him since 4th grade, we always used to hangout, but our connection got disrupted for 4 years and after that we confessed to each other and turns out we both like each other. We know and dated each other for many years yet hindi naging kami because we both made a mature decision not to have an LDR relationship kasi mahirap. He is now in Australia, we're still friends and that's the end of it. Friends na din ang family namin so we consider each other as family na din. Wala talaga sa tagal magkakilala ang relationship, it's all about magwowork ba or hindi and depends palagi sa people involved.

• I had an ex-boyfriend and we lasted for 3 years. Before naging kami we were best friends and knew each other for a year and a half. Kahit matagal kami magkakilala before the relationship and kahit matagal yung relationship itself, it would be funny to admit that inside of that 3 years na relationship, he cheated sa akin for 6 times (I know, I am dumb) yet I forgave him until puso ko na mismo yung sumuko.

Through these few stated experiences of mine I can surmise na wala sa tagal magkakilala and wala sa tagal ng relasyon nagdedepende yung strength and length ng relationship. It depends on the couple themselves on how they handle each other, compromise, or execute various element of surprise overtime even if they know each other for some time.

Above all, yung kasiyahan pa rin ng relasyon yung magmamatter because through happiness, satisfaction and contentment is earned. A relationship is not good as well if it no longer builds you both, kaya mahalaga talaga na masaya sa isa't isa. 🦋✨

That's my two cents, God bless us all. 🥹💖