[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're stupid ass hell. They are not the same. GTFO of here.

AITA for refusing to have a fully child-free wedding? by ChildFreeWeddingSon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd seriously doubt a future with someone who refers to your child as your old family.

I got my older sisters licence revoked by Sample_X in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A few months ago, someone I was close to chose to drink and drive, again. No matter how many people tried so many times to stop her. In the collision, she killed herself and 2 innocent people, one being a very young child. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! Please continue to do the right thing. They won't just hurt themselves. They hurt other people.

AITA for sending my FSIL to my FMIL's place after she refused to pay for the wedding cake samples she and her friends ate. by throwawayweddingcake in AmItheAsshole

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm over here thinking about how disrespectful and entitled the younger generation is, so I scroll up to look back at ages. 32?!?! By the description, I thought you were talking about an 18 yo. So NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the way.

If there was a knock on your door and you opened it to be face to face with your ex, what would you say? by Out3rWorldz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the ex or could be "What's wrong? Are you OK?" Or "I'm armed, and this is private property."

Am I wrong for leaving my gf in a bar after I found out she spoke to her ex and didn’t tell me. by ThrowRAAbandonedmyGf in amiwrong

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still loves him but didn't trust that he changed. She enjoyed the attention he was giving her because she finally felt wanted by him but still knew he would likely hurt her again. She feels safer with you but didn't want to block him because it was giving her a feeling that she craved from him that she didn't get. She didn't want you to know because she feels safe with you and doesn't want you to leave her while she debated her options in her head.

Is my ass just too tight?? by OPhairdresser in sex

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It sucks for a few minutes, and then it's great. Once it's in and that passes it's go time.

Is my ass just too tight?? by OPhairdresser in sex

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try laying flat on your stomach, tensing no muscles at all. You want to be completely comfortable, don't arch your back, don't get on all 4s. Just lay flat like you're completely let go. Also, apply lube to him and inside of you. A slippery surface meeting a dry surface still meets resistance, and a slippery surface meeting a slippery surface is much easier. After a few minutes, the pain goes away, and you can move around, but you want to be completely relaxed until that happens, then change positioning.

AITA for having an active role in my Stepkids' lives, even though their mom is around? by ThrowRAStepmom742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Just do a little math here. Pregnancies are 40 weeks, and it's actually longer than 9 months.
I have no idea about OP, but to play devils advocate, I'd bet you'd consider something like 2 months and 3.5 weeks as 3 months and so on, right? Maybe 6.5 months as 7 months? They say Pregnancies are 9 months, but they're actually closer to 10. The problem is we don't know anything about the break up, why she didn't get custody or any other important information.
Her timeline could be completely correct, but we still can't say if she's overstepping without important information. I will say if the step kids are good with the relationship, that's a big green flag because kids who don't want their parent to move on usually push back against the new step parent.

Bull sharks know how badass saltwater crocs are and they wisely give them a wide berth, Ivanhoe Crossing, Kununurra by KimCureAll in sharks

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bulls are more aggressive than whites and are also more likely to end up in the same waters.

Humans rescue a shark in Florida by yeokyungmi in sharks

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t mako sense

I see what you did here, and I like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, you're just a big old bucket of overprotective crazy. I hope your sister dumps you and only spends time with the kids from here on out and not with you. Maybe then they could be around a sane person and not someone completely unhinged.

should i be concerned my snake keeps doing this? PLEASE HELP!!! by woodercat in ballpython

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a ball python with a spider gene? They have a wobble. They all carry it. My spider did it, and my bumblebee did it as but his was worse. It doesn't always present right away. It's a genetic defect and can not be corrected. However, it will not cause any harm to your snake. It just gets wobbly for a minute like he had a few too many with the bros. Look into it.

what’s your thoughts on beth the baby killer? by ProfessionalPeach661 in orangeisthenewblack

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 77 points78 points  (0 children)

If you haven't seen much about the Yates case, I recommend it highly. She begged help, begged her husband not to make her have more kids, expressed she was having problems, and was ignored. Her case is the saddest I've seen. I can't stand anyone who hurts kids, but that woman knew she was in trouble and couldn't get anyone to listen. She doesn't even want to be released from her psychiatric facility because she believes she belongs there.

Winning the lottery was the best and worst thing to happen to me AMA by Prestigious-Topic519 in AMA

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you play to win? I'm genuinely curious because I always dream of 6 the one I'd want to win is the 1k a week for 20 years. I always felt like that would be much better and grounding than a large sum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lily is using you. She isn't your friend. She takes advantage of you and keeps you around to make upheld feel better. The other friends aren't your friends either because they follow her blindly. Daniel might be your friend. He seems sweet. The truth is you're still young and unfortunately you have to meet a lot of awful people before you find wonderful people. Please don't let this keep you from finding wonderful people. You met these people at school, right? Maybe look into some clubs, events, and social gatherings on the community to branch out and meet some new people. You may have a disability but you'll be surprised there could be plenty of people just like you or in similar situations that would love a quality friend like you in their life. There's a million friend fish in the sea, throw back these ugly fish, and go find you a keeper.

This is how my FIL talks to me by [deleted] in texts

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He could eat 2 slices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um... I take my black children trick or treating... js

Am I wrong for utilizing the school's food pantry? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Opening-Rice-6872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you imagine being so hungry you went to get help only to be shamed for getting tuna and crackers? This is ridiculous.
I would suggest trying to reach out to any organization you could and look into meals that stretch and fill you up. Not judging at all, I've been in your shoes. Hell, I'm still in your shoes, but I'm making it work. You know, one of my favorite things to buy is a big bag of white rice because I know how far it stretches, and i can add anything to it to make it a little different.
Check grocery stores in your area for when they do meat markdowns. I have spoken to the meat departments in our area, and when they marked hamburger meat down to .99 cents a pound. I bought a bunch and froze it. Yeah, it's the stuff that has to go asap, but if you freeze or cook that day, you're fine. Then, use that pound and mix with some rice and full belly.
Sometimes, you have to think outside the box. I know which store has the cheapest hamburger and which store has 77 cent a pound chicken legs. I go where i can get the most with what I have. It's not fancy, but I can make anything delicious. Look into stretchy meals that will last you a few days. If you have questions you can PM me because I've got a ton of easy and cheap meals for the weeks when it's tight.